Before 1, I only cared about myself, regardless of others, and didn't know how to be humble to each other. But this Spring Festival, I deeply realized this truth.
On New Year's Eve, there is a custom of "Xie Nian" in the countryside, and every household will go to the village hall to burn incense. Because my home is far away from the main hall and it is dark, we have to carry lanterns, but there is only one lantern that my sister and I have to carry. My sister and I had a fight and brought my mother here. My sister suddenly burst into tears, and her mother quickly ran to pick her up and comforted her, saying, "OK, OK, Sister Yike is older than you. Let Sister Yi Ke take the exam first this year, and then take the exam next year when you grow up, okay? "
I saw that my sister didn't argue with me, so I carried my own lantern and followed the team. Xu Keyi!' Mother caught up with her and said angrily, "What are you arguing with her? Why did you make your sister cry? " I also said angrily: "I am older than her, of course, I am the first." Besides, it has nothing to do with me that she cried! "Say that finish, I speed up the pace. After a while, I saw my tearful sister being followed by her mother.
When I got home, my mother came to my room and said to me earnestly, "Son, your behavior today made me very dissatisfied." You are eleven years old this year. Why don't you know humility? Besides, my sister is younger than you. She is only seven years old and still doesn't understand. Now that you are sensible, you should let her go more. Besides, what happens if you win? People won't think you're great, they'll just say you're not sensible, like a big boy ... well, I'll say it first, I hope you think it over. Go to bed early. "Mom said, got up and left.
I lay in bed and thought, "Yeah, so what if I win?" Everyone was happy in the New Year, but now everyone is unhappy. "I feel very sorry.
The next morning, I saw my sister playing in the living room and went over. As soon as my sister saw me, she shook her head and refused to talk to me. I said softly, "Sister, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have quarreled with you yesterday Forgive me. " After a while, my sister turned around and smiled at me.
This truth-modesty, which I realized during the Spring Festival, will definitely benefit me for life.
Humble composition 2 "squeak" An annoying cicada kept barking in my ear. I sat by the window and looked blankly at the lotus flowers in the pool outside the window. "Nothing sticks when mud comes out," I said to myself silently. Lotus, a noble plant, is always buried in the soil when other flowers are competing to open. In its vigorous season, people can always see his beautiful figure.
On May Day that year, my parents and I went to Zhenjiang to watch a concert. Take the bus when you come back. It's already dark. Somehow, there was a quarrel in front of the car, which became more and more serious, and people around him were discouraging it.
Later, I learned that a child accidentally touched someone and quarreled. His mother also said she was sorry, but the person who was touched was still arguing and criticizing the child. His mother was very angry. It was noisy at first, and the louder it got, the more fierce it became. Then the fist followed. The man started, the woman pulled her hair, and even the children cried. I only heard them fighting: "Who told your children to hit me? It is good for you not to kill you. " "I'm sorry, isn't it? You are still there, why bother! " Their noise was so loud that drivers were afraid to drive, so they stopped to let the police solve it.
When I got home, I thought, I just touched it and people apologized. Why bother to talk about things that could have been solved by saying sorry? These haggard people make a mountain out of a molehill! They all have one thing in common, that is, they will not be humble and will not take a step back. If they meet each other half way, then things can be solved.
Another summer, I ran to the pond in the backyard. The lotus blooms more vigorously than last year, pink, against the lotus leaf. I sighed and thought that the wonderful things I met were not as good as this humble lotus flower!
Modesty is the topic of composition 3, an ordinary word, but it can remind people of many things.
About five or six years old, I followed my mother back to my hometown. It was in Spring Festival travel rush, and the bus was crowded with people. We came late and there were no empty seats, so we had to stand helplessly. Time seems to have stopped at that moment, and every second seems to have passed a century. My feet are beginning to get sore.
Just when I was about to despair, an aunt with a bag got off the bus. When my mother saw that the seat was empty, she whispered to me, "Come on, there's an empty seat. Go when no one is around. " I ran to that seat happily and lay on it. The car was driving very slowly and someone got on. An old man in his sixties got on the bus with a cane. He looked around and found that there were no empty seats, so he bowed his head in disappointment. The bus continued to drive, and suddenly it stumbled and the old man fell. I was scared to death. I wanted to give my seat to the old man, but on second thought, I had a hard time getting this seat. I can't just give up! But looking at the increasingly pale face and trembling legs, my heart wavered again: the old man looks so poor, he is old and has to go out and run around. He must be very tired after standing for so long! After thinking about it, I helped the old man over: "Grandpa, please sit in this position, I am standing!" " "Suddenly, I felt a sweet feeling in my heart. Everyone seems to praise me. Although I have been standing, I don't feel tired at all.
Although we later bought a car and didn't have to take the bus home, the scene was clearly reflected in my mind.
Jean played the most beautiful melody in life and painted the most beautiful colors in life.
Modesty, as a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, seems to be increasingly questioned by people in the modern society where competition is everywhere. People who advocate modesty say, "Modesty and forbearance are not only self-cultivation, but also great wisdom." Those who oppose modesty say, "Modesty has long been out of date. The law of the jungle, competition should be. " However, it is undeniable that things like humility seem to be difficult to happen around you and me. Whether it is by bus, shopping, queuing, buying tickets, or cooperating with others, giving priority to personal interests is not only human nature, but also human survival instinct inspired by real life. Liang Shiqiu once wrote in an article: "When I was a child, I read the story of Kong Rong letting pears, and I felt really commendable and ashamed. Some people suspect that Kong Rong may have a bad stomach and was afraid of eating raw cold, so he was happy to humble himself. I dare not speculate. However, we have to admit that interests will make people get carried away, and humility is not an easy task. Kong Rong's "The Story of Pear" does have educational value, but unfortunately it has little practical effect: it is rare in Kong Rong today. " Is modesty really out of date? Of course not. Modesty is a kind of mind, a kind of virtue, a kind of grace, a kind of wisdom, and more importantly, a kind of cultivation. We need the spirit of humility, and this era also calls for the spirit of humility. Today, modesty is out of date.
In the Qing Dynasty, a big family wanted to build a courtyard wall to separate themselves from their neighbors. There was a serious conflict between the two houses on the position of the wall base. Although a large family has deep pockets, it has suffered immediate losses because its children and grandchildren without neighbors are rich. Deeply ashamed, he immediately wrote a letter to his son, who was a big official in Beijing, detailing all kinds of troubles at home, and asked his son to return home quickly, trying to punish his neighbors and find face for his family. After reading the letter, the senior official in Beijing sent an urgent letter to his family, which earnestly explained the truth that a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and wrote four sentences at the end of the letter: "A thousand miles to pick a book is just separated by a wall, why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "Everyone read the letter and was deeply educated. They quickly repaired with their neighbors and decided not to build a wall between the two families and never separate! As the saying goes, "take a step back and broaden the horizon", modesty is not a loss, but a room for yourself.
There is a public service advertisement, except for people crowded in front of the bus, which has always been a voice-over. A man and a woman fought each other in order to get on the bus first. An old man calmly advised two young people to "relax and don't squeeze".
Both of these stories reflect the important role of humility in life. Discuss humility with an extremely optimistic and open-minded friend. She said that humility is actually a philosophy full of wisdom, because humility can sometimes not only resolve contradictions, but also reflect a kind of grace and self-restraint of human beings. "Don't dispute" is a state of mind. Modern society requires people to be proactive, and no one is willing to give their own interests to others. Modesty doesn't mean that you can't face the really cruel competition, which has nothing to do with personal ability, but because modesty seeks an inner peace, and inner peace will make you quiet, and peace will breed great wisdom. Aside from haggling over every ounce, humble cultivation and personal charm will increase your popularity and gain more trust and goodwill. Who says you don't leave yourself more room and opportunities for development?
Of course, modesty is also selective. Some things, even if we are humble, can't see the slightest self-cultivation, and after we are humble and polite, the collateral impact of the incident is incalculable, and the bad factors it produces will haunt us and linger. For example, love is completely selfish, and love may need genius and minutes to play. Lovers can be humble in getting along, but love itself can't be humble. Don't think your modesty is great. In fact, it not only hurts yourself, but also disrespects each other. Another example is a task at work, but you must show humility. I push you, you push me, but you know you have to step back from the background if you can do it well. It seems to have become a hypocritical attitude towards life, conniving at false deception. This is not self-deception. "supercilious, does not mean making trouble, or to outdo each other in the work that needs coordination, secretly making discovery ambushes. No humility, more spiritual self-confidence, I can do it, I can do it, not personality atrophy. The coordination and cooperation of work is the organic combination of countless people who are not humble, not the loose sand of humble people. " So, some things should be done.
Does this conflict with the humility we advocate? Actually, it is not. "Modest love may mislead others and yourself, and even make yourself regret for life. When an enterprise or a collective needs coordination and cooperation, its employees show strong behaviors of not giving in to each other everywhere, then any work of this enterprise or this collective will increase costs because of internal friction. " Modesty is not a trading principle, but always looks at personal interests from the perspective of overall interests. When there is a contradiction between the overall interests and personal interests, we should consciously sacrifice personal interests and safeguard the overall interests.
When educating children, my friend once said that as long as you like what you want, don't give it up easily and don't humble it to others. Yes, modern society requires us to learn to fight for ourselves. But in fact, humility is more about consciously obeying an order for modern people. And the observance of this order will bring convenience to people and themselves. Generally speaking, everything in the world is not enough to fight, but enough to let go. Do you think modesty is out of date?
On a train, a female college student was satirized by the parties because she refused to give up her seat, which caused us to think deeply.
Modesty is like an ancient dark lamp, which illuminates the shoulders of the ancients and shines on us. Kong Rong made the story of pear known to all women and children. There were many guests in Kong Rong's house, so his father asked him to give the pears to the guests' children. After he divided all the big pears, he left only the smallest pear for himself. When the guest asked him why he did this, he just said that they were all older than me and I should respect my elders. At that time, Kong Rong was praised by many elders, and Kong Rong's practice was very good, which reflected what the ancient population said: when people get old, they get old. Respecting the elderly has always been a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, and we should carry it forward.
Modesty is like a clear spring in my heart, long and clear. When applying for an employee, a company asked the employee this question: If there is only one quota left and your competitor is a poor person, will you give him this opportunity? When everyone's answers were similar, she gave an amazing answer. Of course not. This is a highly competitive market. Should I give it to him because he is poor? The reason why the company didn't requisition him is that he has no love. He believes that employees should live in harmony and friendship, not for competition, unbridled and ruthless. Because of modesty, he lost an opportunity to participate in the work.
Zeng Guofan once said: Yu Juecheng, everyone may not believe it, but Thaksin. Yu Jue deceives people. People may not cheat, but he deceives himself alone.
So I saw this scene again.
Female middle school students in school are regarded as easy targets for bullying because of their modest personality, so they are being bullied more and more.
Between two cooperative bosses, one thinks that more profits should be given to the other, but the other is too ambitious. In fact, he has long wanted to employ his company as his own asset, so he is penniless.
The virtue of humility is the essence handed down by our Chinese nation for thousands of years, which is very different from the west. It is not that the west accepts praise without disguise, nor that the west accepts language without exaggeration. But today, how did our virtue become like this? He should not be, treacherous white cloth should be, melancholy blue, no, it should be, vicious black, moral kidnapping rules should not be used!
If foundation is the key to the rise of skyscrapers, then true humility is the foundation of our life development. If water is the source of life, then true humility is the fulcrum of our life development.