Friend, are you still bearing a heavier and heavier burden? Have you ever thought that enjoying the burden will bring you happiness? Then please let me explain it to you in detail.

As a junior high school student, I gradually feel out of breath in the face of increasing study burden. Every day's study has created the zero peak in the world (higher than the first)-the talent peak, and we are all trying to climb to the top. "How can we enjoy this burden when we sit at the table?" Well, that's a good question. When climbing, don't set the invisible peak as the goal, but set your competitors and even yourself as the goal. At school, we should aim at the students around us, especially those whose grades are better than yours. Seeing that the gap between you and him is gradually shortening in grades, the burden will naturally be forgotten.

"So, how do you see yourself as a goal?" Well, that's what I'm going to talk about next If you don't want to target your classmates, it's better to target yourself. What do you think when you put down your pen and look at the finished homework? "Finally finished, I am exhausted." Hey, hey, that's not the answer I want. Why not think about it again? "I learned a lot of new things today. Haha. " Why not use a sense of accomplishment to wash away the burden? What you want to see is not how far you are from the summit, but how much closer you are to the summit than yesterday. Isn't that "learning in happiness"?

Yes, in life, everyone is a competitor, heading for the invisible peak. As people climb, all kinds of burdens will weigh on you, making you breathless. Then, why not unload the burden in another way and compete for the top more easily?

My friend, when you look around again, you will find that the winner is you.

A friend is practicing playing the piano these days. Because his basic skills are not very solid, it is very difficult to practice. Although he paid a lot of hard sweat, it had little effect. But in her heart, she was so eager to make a breakthrough in piano skills that she forced herself to practice piano for four hours every day. After a long time, the contradiction between the short-term ineffectiveness and the strong desire for the rapid development of piano art has been struggling fiercely in her heart, which has formed a burning factor in her character and psychologically regarded piano practice as a burden. She often asks me grumpily, "Am I not practicing well?" "Can I still do it?" "If I can't practice like this, I won't practice?" "Do I just give up?" ..... Sometimes it's embarrassing to ask me. I don't know how to answer her or comfort her.

There was nothing I could do, so I told her a story: a little boy kept practicing piano for four hours every day. When his teacher knew this, he said to him, "You can't practice like this. Stop it immediately. Because I don't have more time to practice the piano when I grow up, I have to get into the habit and practice as soon as I have time, even for a few minutes. " He followed the teacher's advice and put the time warp of practicing the piano into various periods. Other time is spent keeping a diary, cultivating specimens and playing football on the grass, all of which have not affected his piano skills.

The American boy later became a famous poet, novelist and excellent pianist. The reason why he has made brilliant achievements in various fields is that he can break down his hobby into daily time and regard practicing the piano as a habit, even if he has only a few minutes of free time.

A few minutes is not a long time, but if we can make use of it and become a habit, these short times may make a person, because the years and decades needed for a great career and achievement are accumulated in just a few minutes.

Yes, it is precisely because my friend regards practicing the piano as a burden that makes her live in stress, pain, irritability and depression. The little boy in the story regards practicing the piano as a habit, so the habit makes him an excellent pianist in a subtle way. If a person carries a baggage on the road, no matter how smooth the road is, he will be physically and mentally exhausted and can't bear the pressure of life. However, if you turn the burden into a habit and look at the difficulties with a relaxed and indifferent attitude, your mood will become clear, all the difficulties will be solved, the pressure will no longer become pressure, and the burden may become a spiritual enjoyment.

In life, please don't carry your baggage on the road, but learn to turn it into a habit.

Pull the weeds out of your heart.

Under the infiltration of years, people's hearts will breed all kinds of weeds, making their hearts overwhelmed and dying. If you want to revive the soul, you must pull out the weeds that grow in your heart without mercy. Selfishness is a weed that grows in your heart. This kind of grass will blind your eyes, so that you can only see your own interests, but not the interests of others and the collective, thus doing things that harm the public, enrich the private interests and benefit others. Over time, your friends and even relatives will leave you, leaving you alone. Do you want to be "alone"? Don't! Then quickly pull out this weed and let the soul reproduce the past selfless and open-minded prosperity.

Jealousy is a weed that grows in your heart. This kind of grass will drive you to compare with others every day: eat, wear and use. As long as others surpass you in any way, it will grow, grow and grow crazily! If you really can't compare with others, you will hold grudges. If you hate it to the extreme, it will drive you to do something bad for others and embarrass them. Dear friends, please pull out this weed quickly and let the soul reproduce the prosperity of peace and tolerance in the past.

Greed is a weed that grows in your heart. This kind of grass will make you reach out for a long time, get money, get 10 thousand, get 100 thousand, millions, even millions, until you are "fished" into prison. Do you want to go to jail? Of course not! Then quickly pull out this weed and find that honest true self.

Inferiority is a weed that grows in your heart. This kind of grass will make you feel that you can't do this and that, so you lose confidence. Dear friends, pull out this weed quickly and find yourself who is confident and self-reliant.

Pride is a weed that grows in your heart. This kind of grass will make you arrogant and look down on anyone but yourself. Who likes to make friends with domineering people? Dear friends, quickly pull out this weed and find the true self who is smiling and treats others equally! ……

Dear friends, when you pull out all kinds of weeds, it is equivalent to unloading all kinds of burdens for your mind, you will feel relaxed and your life will be more colorful.

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