In daily life, some parents let their children do some housework within their power, but some parents don't let their children do any work at all, saying that as long as they let their children manage how to study, reading is the most important thing. I strongly disagree with this view.
What is the purpose of children's reading? Just to join the society and have a foothold in the future. How can you get along without the ability? You also need to master some basic social skills. First of all, we should learn from social practice and labor. But you must read a good book to master it better. We should not read "stupid" books when reading, but apply the knowledge in books flexibly to social practice. Therefore, these are excellent compositions that are mutually cyclical and complement each other-three excellent compositions about family education-three compositions about family education. Experience happiness and fun from labor. At present, parents in China only pay too much attention to their children's study and doting, but neglect to cultivate their children's working ability. Coquetry is not equal to love.
In modern society, most families have only one child. In this way, the love of parents is dedicated to the excessive love of children.
Once I was walking in the street, I saw a child fall on the road. He was just pulled by a small stone. This is a very common thing, but it is a piece of cake. What's the big deal if the child falls? But it is such a small thing that reminds me of my parents in China today. When a child falls, his parents will say, "My little baby, are you okay?"? Does it hurt? " Some parents even take their children to do a comprehensive investigation. Is this ridiculous? This is a common thing, and it is a very important thing in the eyes of parents in China! This is not love, but doting! On the contrary, this will make children lose their autonomy, lack self-reliance and ultimately rely on their parents. "Frustration breeds success" How can a child thrive in this multifaceted social circle if he wants to be a seedling?
I think it's better to let children do housework as much as possible, but we should also grasp the study so that children can relax again in their later lives. This not only helps children to form a good habit of loving labor, but also helps them to appreciate the hard work of their parents. Only by cultivating children's working ability from an early age and eating less snacks when they grow up can parents become useful people. If parents don't let their children work and take care of everything, it will bring some defects to their growth. If you spoil them like this, when you grow up, you will only be a waste of "clothes to reach out and food to mouth".