Love is an old and often new topic, which affects the hearts of countless people. The understanding and views on love still arouse people's debate and thinking. Rushed through the smoke-filled third year of high school, stepped into the ivory tower surrounded by the sacred romantic aura of the university, and became a favored child with high hopes. However, after the sense of glory and freshness faded, the college life that followed left us at a loss: loose management gave us a broad space to play, but a lot of spare time made us feel confused; Living away from parents and family gives us independence and freedom, but the limitations of experience and knowledge make us frustrated and can't stop; A large group of peers living together have given us unlimited opportunities for interpersonal communication, but without sincere and enthusiastic manners and restraint, we feel that no one is listening; Pairs of lovers on campus give us vivid inspiration, but it is not easy to find a really suitable life partner …

(1) Love motive is not simple.

The motivation of some college students is not love itself, but to make up for their inner emptiness, loneliness or conformity. This kind of students seldom combine love behavior with marriage when choosing a spouse, and lack a sense of responsibility. There are also a few students who, in order to show their charm, associate with several opposite-sex students at the same time, engage in multi-angle love, and are not even sure about their relationship. Engaging in ambiguous and immoral multi-angle love can easily lead to disputes, misfortunes and disasters, as well as conflicts and tragedies, which will eventually have adverse consequences for all parties concerned.

(2) unhealthy love behavior

I feel uneasy about the reckless and dissolute behavior of many young people. In broad daylight, young men and women are often seen cuddling and kissing in the bustling crowd. I once asked a very young girl, "Aren't you ashamed of so many people around you?" She replied, "Is it necessary to cover up friendship?" The girl's answer is not very clever. Although she is physically qualified to be a mother, she is not morally qualified. It is a foolish and obscene behavior for a person to show his feelings that should have been hidden in his heart. True love requires a lifetime commitment to great and sacred obligations. If you don't want to lose your feelings and degenerate spiritually, then don't give in to your first lust. You can kiss and caress a person with a certain moral obligation, because you have become her husband and the father of your child. In my opinion, other love besides this, love that pursues excitement and love that seeks to eliminate loneliness, are morally corrupt.