But this is also wishful thinking. Some people will say that I can't weave a net, and then I won't be grateful, but I will lose the opportunity of squid; Some people will say that I can weave a net but I can't fish. It's useless to weave a net no matter how much. For other girls, it's a wedding dress. Some people will say, what kind of net do you want? There are plenty of fish at home, and the fish you envy but don't have will be delivered to your door.
To tell the truth, life is varied, and people of different classes, families and consciousness have different orientations and actions. However, the question is here. How can people who make a difference be right?
I think we can learn from a gentleman on this issue. The ancients said: "Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement." For a gentleman, living is a constant struggle, without a skill and a half, lacking enterprising spirit, not to mention relying on family wealth.
Although I am a modest gentleman, I can be equated with a bookworm who "reads sage books wholeheartedly and doesn't listen to things outside the window". In fact, this is a misunderstanding of the word gentleman. A gentleman is not a scholar who has no strength to fight a chicken, a short-sighted mediocrity without ambition, or a mean person who flatters and seeks profit. A gentleman is really rich and powerful, humble and unyielding, and is not surprised by honor or disgrace.
Gentlemen also love money and follow the principle of taking it properly; Gentleman is also lewd, and adopts the gift of "My Fair Lady, Gentleman is Good at Qiu". A gentleman is also ambitious, pursuing the ideal that poverty is the only way to protect himself, while achievement is the best way to help the world.
Especially with the development and progress of society, people have given a new meaning to the gentleman, and respected the sage who loves his family and patriotism as a gentleman, which is similar to the "emotional intelligence" or "honesty" advocated now.
It is not difficult to see that to do good things, you need to be a good person first. "You must be hard before you strike the iron." If you want to succeed in learning, you must sharpen your tools first. "Sharpen the knife and don't miss the woodcutter."
Only by studying hard, mastering knowledge and laying a good foundation can we achieve academic success. But everyone has his own ambition, and what a gentleman does may not be appreciated by others. "Sometimes I ride the wind and waves, raise my muddy sails and sail in the deep sea." Exciting; However, "under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums, you can see Nanshan leisurely." It is also a great pleasure in life.