After the opening, Sister Yin Qing threw out two questions?
1. What roles do fathers and mothers play in life, and what impact will the lack of fatherly love have on children?
Does the teacher mean that the father has his own role in the role? If this position is always absent, it will affect the child's life. First of all, it will affect our relationship with leaders at work, lack charm emotionally, be a person who lacks autonomy in life, and habitually choose to escape when encountering things. Is a person who has no sense of strength in his heart.
In other words, if the father's love is absent, then the child will have no sense of security, and the personality shaping seems to be flawed, because the mother can't replace the father's role. Men are rational, decisive, brave, powerful and aggressive, while women are different. Therefore, after the child is 3 years old, the father should help the mother and the child separate, so that the child can expand normally and get better and better.
Many dads may say, how did I become an absent person? Am I not the most important and amazing? I work so busy and hard every day, isn't it to make their lives better? I am the hardest worker in my family.
Yes, dad, maybe you're right. You have given your children a rich life and a prosperous career, but these are just your values as a man, not your values of fatherhood.
(Male value: A man obtains social and economic resources to support and maintain the value of his family. Father's value: A man's responsibilities as a father include transmitting values and the ability to adapt to society to his children. )
Later, Sister Yin Qing asked: How should our parents play their roles in the family? How to keep your boundaries and not interfere too much? Sometimes you think "love" is just the opposite.
Well, having said that, why don't you come and see for yourself? It's really a good book and worth having. Finally, I hope Mr. Hu's new work "Barley"