Just be yourself in everything, and don't care about other people's eyes.

Many people will care about what others think of them, will not let go of their own evaluation of you, will not let go of the shadow of bad evaluation on themselves, will be indignant at an evaluation of themselves and their own shortcomings, and will be happy with an evaluation that is beneficial to them. Just like a survey, nearly 70% of the respondents will care about what others say about themselves, but I want to ask myself, who are you doing these things and actions for, for the eyes of others or for yourself?

It is true that getting praise from others is an affirmation of your work or study, but why should you care too much about this praise and why should you be proud of it? As the saying goes, pride goes before a fall! Some people are angry and frustrated because their efforts have been denied, but I want to say that you don't have to be angry and frustrated because you have got a bad evaluation, because as long as you have paid and worked hard, even if you can't change others' views on you, you can at least say to yourself with a clear conscience: I tried my best! Of course, my bad reviews here refer to the radical views of some people.

Just like the hero in the article, it is his own business to keep a moustache or not. He doesn't have to care about other people's eyes, but he still cares so much that he is nervous for a long time. Finally, when he went to ask his colleague, he just said, Oh, you have a moustache. Worrying about nothing is probably the best idiom I can think of for him!

Suppose a person can live to be 80 years old, 365 days a year, 24 hours a day and 60 minutes an hour. I think even if there is no opinion of you every minute, there will always be one every day. Suppose a person's life is about 20 thousand days, that is to say, there will be more than 20 thousand pairs of eyes looking at you and criticizing you. If you always care, I don't think you will live long!

Everyone in the post will always pay attention to you, whether it is good or bad. But I think all you have to do is be yourself.

Here, I want to advise you: from today on, do yourself a favor, no longer bear the eyes of the outside world, don't care about other people's comments, and live for yourself.