Self-reflection, so that their moral character is more noble. In ancient times, Lian Po and his colleague Lin Xiangru were embarrassed everywhere, but Lin Xiangru had a broad mind that didn't care. Lian Po heard Lin Xiangru's cruel words to the enemy and generous words to his friends, and finally repented, so he offered a humble apology to Lin Xiangru, and the two eventually became friends and became the backbone of Zhao. The story of "harmony but difference" has been passed down to this day. Because of Lian Po's introspection, his character was sublimated and he found the right course in the ocean of self. This kind of introspection makes people naturally relax, give up the shackles of mistakes and move towards success.
Introspection makes people's relationship more harmonious. Gorky said: "Learning to admit your mistakes when appropriate will become a mediator in your relationship with others." Some people are afraid to admit their mistakes, so they deceive themselves, never reflect on themselves, and insist that they are right, because they are afraid of losing face and rigid interpersonal relationships, and even your closest friends will abandon you. When Han Yu was young, he went to a friend's house to be a poetry friend. When he was writing, he knocked over his friend's bowl because of emotional excitement. When he got home, he reflected on himself: although breaking a bowl is a trivial matter, isn't it a great thing to be ruined by an impulse at work? So he came to apologize and cut off a bunch of hair as an oath. His friends were moved by his spirit, and they trusted Han Yu more, and became close relatives and trusted people.
From this perspective, introspection can make you a sincere person in the eyes of others. If everyone did this, wouldn't our world be wonderful?
Introspection makes the country rich and the people strong. As China people, no one will forget the history of modern humiliation. Due to backwardness, China is poor and weak, like a fish on a chopping board, at the mercy of foreign powers. Today, we reflect on our mistakes and stop closing the door, so we open the door and carry out reform and opening up. Today, China ranks among the world powers. If Japan can also deeply reflect on the heinous crimes committed in the war of aggression against China, Sino-Japanese relations will be more harmonious. Introspection can revive a nation and maintain world peace forever.
Self-reflection, turn olive branches into jade, thorns into smooth roads, and mountains into bright future. Self-reflection is so charming that it is a pleasure to reflect often.