A gentleman should think clearly, distinguish between right and wrong, distinguish between true and false, and see people and things thoroughly. But often people just can't see right from wrong, or dare or don't want to see the truth. Either give up self-reliance and gain temporary stability, but suffer from conscience and pain for a lifetime. Of course, if you can't see people and things clearly, but you see yourself clearly, and you are willing to be at ease and carefree, such a gentleman is still good, at least you can keep your inner world.
A gentleman listens attentively, not to the wind, but to the rain. He should listen more, think more and listen wisely. Everyone is talkative, everyone has different standards and different ways of thinking. The same thing varies from person to person, both true and exaggerated. Can you tell the truth just by listening to people? A gentleman should listen more, be good at listening to different voices, and be smart enough to hear what is right and what is good for himself. First of all, you must be a good listener to be a good speaker.
Gentleman's gentleness, courtesy and frugality have existed since ancient times. A gentleman should have a peaceful mind and warm words. Broad-minded and tolerant; Be calm and natural. Sometimes too intense and obvious expressions will instantly change the surrounding atmosphere and cause unnecessary trouble. A gentleman should have more tolerance and a more stable mood than ordinary people.
A gentleman looks respectful and treats others sincerely, regardless of rank; Knowing respect and humility is like a piece of jade, not as hot as charcoal fire, not as cold as ice water, and it makes people feel very comfortable. Only by respecting others can we gain their respect. Those who are arrogant and always above others will not have a good result if they don't know when to be modest and when to respect them.
A gentleman should learn to speak, know how to speak, when to speak and what to say. Be consistent in words and deeds, keep your word, and hit the floor. As the saying goes, a word spoken by a gentleman cannot be recalled. Your words should be true to your heart, and your words should be true to your actions. It's a pity that some people are disobedient and duplicitous, which makes people feel disgusted.
A gentleman should respect things and know how to give. Every career needs to be devoted. Nothing can be done casually. Only by careful thinking, careful preparation and serious attitude can things be done well.
A gentleman has questions to ask, curiosity, and questions to ask. Only by constantly discovering and thinking about problems can we constantly solve problems and make progress. Learning to ask questions takes time to accumulate, and practical experience can tell what is wrong. You need to be curious to ask questions and find problems that others have not found. Besides using tools, people also think. Humans have evolved in thinking.
It is hard for a gentleman to get angry and think. I can only think that a gentleman should restrain his emotions, learn to think twice before acting, and learn to be patient. Of course, these are all in the mainland to the maximum extent, and we can't let those little people push their luck just because we want to be gentlemen. The first is to be patient and the second is to fight back. Take a step back and broaden your horizons, and sometimes endure for a while, which can be exchanged for long-term stability in the future.
A gentleman's opinion is that before interests, you should know your own morality. Some people forget about profit and righteousness, and forget that they are still human, and they can sacrifice everything and even lives of others. A gentleman should love money in moderation, and never put morality on both sides and the word benefit in the middle.