Topic: I am responsible for composition guidance and model essay. A girl studying in her hometown always feels that she has been wasted. Compared with my classmates, my grades are slightly worse, but if I am good, I will complain that the teacher's "level is too low"; She didn't win the prize in the essay contest for middle school students in the county. She complained that the organizer was "as blind as a bat". Her parents died young, and her brother and sister lived alone. She even blamed her brother who was the director for not trying to send her to a better middle school in the provincial capital. Please write a composition on the topic of "being responsible for yourself". Requirements: 1, the meaning of the text is self-determined, the style is self-selected, and the topic is self-made, not less than 800 words. 2. The content written must be within the scope of the topic. Intention: (1) Integrate theory with practice and criticize the current disadvantages. Let's say "you should learn to take responsibility for yourself" first, because "internal cause is the root cause and external cause is the condition". And say, "the disadvantages of contemporary existence." Finally, clarify the correct point of view. [Materialism] 1, Lao Tzu: "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." 2. Confucius said: "If you don't suffer from nowhere, you will suffer from it. I don't know what I know, but I want to know. " 3. Confucius said, "Those who don't know themselves don't suffer, but those who don't know them also." 4. "The Art of War" said: "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle." 5. As the saying goes, "Heroes blame themselves, but ordinary people are responsible for others." The beginning of the model structure-point; Middle-write in detail; End-the deepening of care. Self-knowledge of Meiji (Song Leiming's Composition in Water) Lao Tzu said, "He who knows people is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." In other words, if people want to be wise and knowledgeable, they must know themselves and know each other. You have the initiative in what you do and who you deal with. Before you do things, you should fully understand yourself and don't rely on others. In this way, our mentality will be correct, our psychology will be balanced and we will face success and failure calmly. People, in society, cannot do without the environment. Some people say that people live in a net. However, in this web of life, nine times out of ten people are not satisfied. At birth, people can't choose their parents. Parents are unique, and their status may make you dissatisfied. When you are a student, your class and teachers may be unsatisfactory; At work, your company and your position may be unsatisfactory; When you have a family, your family may not be completely happy ... leading to a low status and insufficient economy. We blame our parents for their incompetence; Our study is not ideal, our grades are not outstanding, and we hate the teacher's imbecility. The unit is not satisfactory, the work is not smooth, and we sigh that it is not timely; The family is unhappy, the children fail to live up to expectations, we hate bad partners ... we complain and complain. When successful, people often claim to be capable; When failing, people often say that the environment is helpless. The reason is that I dare not face the reality, face life squarely, or even dissect myself. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, recognized himself clearly, didn't complain about others, started from himself, publicly criticized himself, got up wherever he fell, saved up for ten years, and finally got revenge. If Gou Jian, who was living in Huiji at that time, hated his father for hating Wu and his country for being small and incompetent, he might give up on himself and be a slave to Wu all his life, and he would never have the glory of making a comeback. Coachable, king of Qi, knew that he had defeated the imperial court; Li Shimin accepted Wei Zhi, recognized himself, and was ruled by Guan Zhen ... The reason why ancient famous kings were wise and immortal was that they had self-knowledge, dared to accept their own shortcomings, learned from each other's strong points, and dared to take on their own responsibilities. Let's fight for a happy life and find ourselves again. As the saying goes, "Good people blame themselves, while bad people blame others." Let's be a "hero", take responsibility for ourselves, and make ourselves people who know Meiji! Learn to be responsible for yourself. Some people were born in a rich family, but they became poor. Some people are born in the family of poets and calligraphers, but they stand among the illiterate; Some people were born in the imperial family, but they fought for a piece of cloth. They either complain about others or insist on their fate, but they are pretending to recite Chen Ziang's "Thinking of heaven and earth, boundless, lonely and tearful", telling their ill-timed feelings. But what did they do for themselves? They are neither responsible for the country nor for their families, let alone themselves. When Dumas first set foot in the literary world, he repeatedly hit a wall. His father Dumas said to him, "If you write that you are Dumas' son, the situation may be better." "No, the apples picked on other people's shoulders are not sweet." Dumas drew up many pseudonyms for himself, so as not to be associated with Dumas. Finally, his La Traviata was published, which was a blockbuster, comparable to his father's The Count of Monte Cristo. Dumas is responsible for himself, not demanding his father's help, not complaining about others, but fighting for his career with his own tears, which is responsible for society and family, but also for his talent. Zhong has never been responsible for his talent, and regards it as grandstanding capital. Therefore, there is only one thing left in the literary world to warn the world. Adou in the West Shu, Sun Hao in the East Wu and Li Yu in the South Tang either ignored their home country, or indulged in debauchery or romance. Meng Changjun, the late ruler of Shu, was even more self-indulgent.140,000 troops surrendered in front of a mere 30,000 Song Jun, leaving only the eternal ridicule of "140,000 people disarmed, and no one was a man". They did not take responsibility for themselves, did not use their own efforts, and did not take responsibility with their own practical actions. They are complete cowards! People are in awe of Emperor Guangxu. He has no authority, but he is constantly striving for self-improvement and is determined to reform. Those born in prosperity are still responsible for themselves, while those born in adversity are responsible for their own destiny. Chen Sheng and Guangwu, who asked "the prince would rather have seeds", Dickens, who studied diligently in the newspaper office, Edison, who devoted himself to experiments on the train, and Tong Dizhou, who was eager to learn in the toilet, were not responsible for their own destiny and talents? Fate gave them black eyes, but they used them to look for light! Friends, let's move! Summon up your courage, mobilize your enthusiasm, let the sun and the moon as evidence, let your mind decide, and be responsible for yourself with your actions! Be responsible for yourself (novel) Hui was admitted to college! People in the village set off fireworks and sent him to the car. A venerable old man in the village stepped forward and grabbed his hand and said, "When you get to the city, you should study hard and be responsible for yourself!" " "The people in the village said to everyone: Hui, that child is really smart! University seeds! After the novelty of coming here, Hui began to miss home and hate it here. He can't go to class because the teacher puts him behind. He used to be in the front row. He can't study because the teacher comes and goes in a hurry. In the past, the teacher would stay and ask him, "Do you understand?" I can't eat well, because it's too much trouble to buy food here. In the past, my mother helped to buy food. I can't sleep well. Because the quilt was cold here, I woke up when I lay in it. My mother used to warm the quilt. In this case, Hui picked up her bag and went home! People in the village were surprised to see Hui coming back and asked, "Hui, it's only been more than a month. Why did you come back? " ? ""the city is not good, I don't want to study! " Hui stopped reading and spread all over the village in an instant, reaching the old man. He was held by people and came to Hui's house. The door opened and Hui's family sat together. Mother's eyes were red, and father bowed his head-"Hui! Do you remember what I told you when you left? " "This-you are responsible for it yourself!" "Then why did you come back?" "Because-"Hui explained the reason why he came back. "You always say this is not good, that is not good. Can't you overcome it? Learning is your own business. You are a college student in our village. You must understand that you are responsible for yourself! "The old man seems very angry. Go home. Ye Zi, who is responsible for himself (novel), has been asking me a question: "Zifan, what do you say people live for?" I said, for myself. Leaf: "For your own sake, why do you say that?" "Leaves, don't you really understand? We are not born for others, but for ourselves. I remember a classic saying in Four Dimensions: "Everyone is king and arrogant in his own country. "However, really, one day when we look back on our past achievements, I feel that we are all wrong. We are all living in each other's trap and are ultimately responsible for ourselves." Zifan, maybe you are right. Indeed, we have our own ideas. Sometimes we complain too much. However, when time really flies, we are all over, so we should be responsible for ourselves. ""All along, I have used the most sentence:' People are good people, and society has harmed people.' Now think about it, what an immature idea! We only care about venting our anger to the world, but when we are really wise, I really don't think that society has harmed people. On the contrary, we are stepping on society ourselves. ""Zifan, I understand everything you say. You can't just find problems in other people's faults, you should find faults in yourself. There is a little unhappiness between us and our parents. This is the so-called generation gap. In fact, this is just our one-sided statement. What is the generation gap, but I don't understand. Do you understand? " "I know that we live in this world not only for ourselves, but also for others. We selfishly comment on the length of others again and again, but some people really pay attention to their own essential problems, which is extremely irresponsible to themselves. " "Every child, I understand that we live not only for ourselves, but also for others. While paying attention to yourself, make up for what you can't achieve and be responsible for yourself. "I am responsible for the southern sky for myself. The sunshine shines on me like the warmth of spring breeze, which belongs to Rourou Xin. I never think that only lonely nights can inspire me and make me sprout. Just today, I found a corner in my boring and idle work, where there is sunshine. I am here alone, feeling the warmth and happiness given by nature. I like nature, like all things that are not carved, blue sky, white clouds and clear water. The sunshine in winter ... Although these things are drifting away from us, I am still so excited to get joy by chance. Under the same sky, some people are grateful and happy, some people are as cold as kiln water, and too many people are numb to live. Those so-called material things are wandering around, but we don't know that our essential things were taken away by them in the pursuit of these things. It seems that when we are enjoying sensory pleasure, our innate happiness is also enjoyed by them. We are not controlled by material things, but often complain that giving is not proportional to getting, complaining about the injustice between the rich and the poor, complaining about being betrayed, complaining that we are powerless ... and these will only aggravate our greater injustice and resentment. We can't grasp when the enemy will attack us and when the lover will betray us. We can only grasp ourselves. Y said to me: volunteer more when you have time and care about those cancer patients, you. Y said, I have nothing to do. I can still work, which is the greatest gift from God ... When I was depressed, a gray-haired man was happy and satisfied. An old Hong Kong man who was running around in the storm jumped in front of me and touched me. Don't lose our love, love the people around us. Although the one among them suddenly becomes an enemy, one day his friend will abandon us, and his lover will betray us, but we won't lose or get it. Obtaining is our clear conscience in this world! I wrote so much because of today's sunshine and many good friends. I can't do it so well, but I will do it slowly. It is better not to throw away some things brought by life, but to be responsible for yourself. It's nice to have sunshine today. Please be responsible for your own life (senior one). We are all in pursuit of perfection, lost and confused in this process, but we still strive to realize ourselves with a tenacious childlike innocence. In the flower season, we are full of infinite yearning and reverie for knowledge, love the pursuit of truth in life, love scientific discussion and love the boundless ocean of knowledge. Therefore, we are also keen to study and practice different theories with the help of the Internet. However, how many young friends around us have fallen into a misunderstanding. They think that since the internet is illusory, they can do whatever they want, give up their passion for truth and give full play to their youth. So they don't like learning, and finally they are addicted to online games. As a result, the illegal construction of internet cafes has had an unprecedented impact on young people. It seems to provide a convenient bridge for children with strict family discipline. I have read about it in many newspapers and magazines. Many illegal Internet cafes use "preferential policies" to lure teenagers. They are trapped by teenagers they can't identify, so they regard the owners of Internet cafes as gods, but their parents and friends' advice is hard to listen to. They were lost in flowery rhetoric. Repeatedly for several days without eating or drinking, people gradually lose weight and eventually die. After many children died, I thought, can you think about the future of the Chinese nation for the owners of internet cafes who bite people invisibly? 2 1 what is the most lacking in the century-talents. Although there are many people in China, how many are really successful? Please protect every future social pillar for the motherland. Please think about the relatives of young people. In today's family, almost every child has become a treasure, and children are regarded as the apple of their eye. However, because of your illegal Internet cafe, you easily broke the "pearl" of many families, and the whole family may be broken or even die. Nowadays, many illegal websites publish violence-related content. So many children who don't live honestly may play some practical jokes at school at first, just for fun, but later many children don't know how to resist, and they are even more rampant. Robbery, violence, intimidation and threats ... many, many unsightly bad tendencies have affected children with good nature. Killing and violent online games have become the culprit. Perhaps some puzzle games have caused many unconscious children to become addicted and die. Many things, in impulse and ignorance, have become irreparable consequences. My friends, please think about it. You should be responsible for yourself and others. In that case, the price of pain may be less.