No one's life is smooth sailing. It is inevitable that there will be moments in a person's life when he bows his head, and often these moments will make his later life more colorful.
Students of the Buddhist College in Mumbai, India, choose to bend over and pass by when facing the small door. This is a compromise and shows an attitude towards life-flexion and extension. A person living in society will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties. What we have to do is learn to hold our breath and learn to be patient.
Learn to bend over. This is an attitude towards people, and it is also a sign of whether a person can achieve something. A person is cocky in the spring breeze and gives up in frustration when he fails, which is not shown by a person who has experienced great storms. An experienced man with rich social experience knows when to bend and when to stretch.
Bend down, it represents an attitude of being a man. Gou Jian's efforts made him great in the future, and Han Xin's humiliation made him a great general in the future. Every deepening is accompanied by a kind of hardship. It is true that patience is difficult, even painful, but it is precisely because of this patience that it has cast a solid shield for future life.
So is our life.
Not to mention the pressure of life and social environment, every bit of life is also a small experience. Even a mistake in work or study is a setback, reminding us all the time and urging us to move forward.
Learning to bend over is to learn a spirit and an attitude. It can often affect many things in the future. Compromise on some things is not giving up, but taking a detour to pave the way for a brighter future.
Learning to bend over is to make a choice, to give up something at the right time and to hold your breath. A mature person must be bent over, just like the ears of wheat. The more mature you are, the more you bend over.
A person's life is doomed to experience setbacks. In order to overcome setbacks, we often need to put ourselves down and "bend over" to spend it. Yi Zhongtian once mentioned in China Gossip that "there are three things in life, one can hold one's breath, one can bend down and one can raise one's head. Bending is a gesture, in order to better stand up and create greater value in life. "
Life is like this, so is life.
Everything in the world is either rigid or soft. Hard and stubborn, boiling soup will pour down and dangerous buildings will collapse. When the general trend is overwhelming, hard-working people will be like rainbows. Without compromise or surrender, they will be able to break the strong situation and achieve success. So many people think that the strong can win everything and always have the upper hand. However, "the world is the softest and the strongest, and there is nothing in it." Softness has the qualities of wit and meekness, and it can accept kindness and tolerance. It is a gentle but calm force, and it is also a kind and inclusive emotion that touches people's hearts. Softness makes us feel comfortable. Have you seen the famous Tai Ji Chuan in China? It looks slow and gentle, but it has four or two kilograms of magic and softness.
Strong grass knows the wind, hard stone meets weak water, hard soil destroys seedlings, and good words warm three winters. Soft words and tenderness can touch people's hearts and go deep into the softest places. Being good at combining rigidity with softness shows the wisdom of human survival and life. As Mr. Yi Zhongtian said, we should learn three things: first, we should be calm; Second, bend over; Third, hold your head high.