Therefore, it is really important to be with excellent people and be with yourself! With excellent people, failure will also make you better and make you full of positive energy. With diligent people, you will not be lazy; With positive people, you won't be depressed. Similarly, walking with the wise, you will be extraordinary; With a master, you can climb to the top; With people with positive energy, you will bring your own light. People with positive energy are like the sun. Wherever they shine, they are full of light, just like a magnetic field, attracting each other's hearts. People with negative energy represent a negative and pessimistic mentality, which often makes people confused, as if they have lost their way in the vast sea of people.
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Attitude is very important whether a person is successful or not. What kind of attitude and what kind of future; Character determines fate. What kind of personality, what kind of life Have a passion, a sincere heart and a determined personality. If you lack enterprising people and visionary people around you, your life will become mediocre and eclipsed, which stems from the influence of the circle on you.
So when you choose a circle, you must know what you want, that is, what your initial heart is and what your goal is. If you want to be smart, you must be with smart people, and you will be smarter. If you want to be excellent, you must be with excellent people, and you will stand out. If you want to be full of positive energy, you must be with people who are full of positive energy, and so on.
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Reading thousands of books, traveling on Wan Li Road and making friends all over the world are the three great pleasures in life. The circle is not decided by others, but by your identity and pattern; A person's status is determined by his friends around him. The more friends, the bigger the circle, which means the higher the value, the bigger the pattern, and the greater the help to the cause.
The circle is not necessarily good. Those circles that will bring you negative energy, make you deeply confused and are not conducive to your own discovery must be resolutely abandoned. Precious circle is an indispensable wealth in life, because of the encouragement and help of friends, you will be invincible and go forward bravely. The secret of life lies in getting along with others and walking hand in hand. The beauty of life lies in giving roses and leaving incense in your hand.
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So, how do we choose our own circle and how to be with excellent people? Please do the following:
1. Loss is gain. In the circle, be willing to suffer, and don't be afraid of suffering. Those who are willing to suffer can't suffer after all. People who can bear hardships will have good popularity, and people with good popularity will naturally have many opportunities. It is enough to seize one or two key opportunities in a person's life.
There is no pie in the world. In the circle, don't try to take advantage. People who love to take advantage can't take advantage after all. If they find a grass, they lose a forest, which is not worth the loss.
3. Be generous. Narrow-minded people, world affairs, should be broad-minded, the prime minister can punt in his stomach, regardless of small matters, informal section.
4. Cherish every opportunity and fate. On the road of life, we will meet many people. In fact, we can meet, just fate. Most of our relatives are friends from a previous life, and most of our friends are relatives from a previous life. Most of the troubles you caused were people you hurt in your last life. Therefore, be kind to your relatives, care about your friends and forgive those who hurt you. Maybe this is cause and effect.
5. Restrain desire and know how to satisfy. There is nothing wrong with having money in your heart, and there is nothing wrong with being said to be expensive. Happiness is not a character, but an ability.
6. Be content and learn to let go. Laugh at the bleak situation, and then sit and watch the clouds fly. No argument is compassion, no argument is wisdom, ignorance is purity, no reading is freedom, forgiveness is liberation, and contentment is letting go.
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Life is too short to meet anyone. The enemies you meet make you grow, and the friends you meet help you succeed, so thank those who meet you along the way.