In this world, there are not only beautiful scenery,
People with different personalities, temperament and personality charm.
In the long journey of life, you will meet many people.
Different people have different qualities and charms.
Appreciation, liking and love have become the most difficult scales for us to grasp.
someone says that
The most important thing for men and women is to know each other and love each other.
In fact,
There is far more than one person who can really touch you in life.
Are you all in love? Very unrealistic,
Love is a narrow emotion, beautiful but independent and exclusive.
When you love someone,
I want to have him completely, including his thoughts, his emotions and his whole person.
But can you have it for a long time after each touch? Without eternal thoughts,
There is no eternal and unique emotion, so what matters is not love, but appreciation.
Excellent people will be scattered with attractive brilliance.
He not only attracts you, but also attracts people who have the same appreciation ability as you.
Just like a beautiful scenery, it doesn't exist for a mountain or a wilderness.
But for the whole nature, to decorate this beautiful world,
Is to let more people appreciate, taste and revel in it.
Different people,
Different tastes will have different feelings about the same scene.
The glittering and translucent snow-capped mountains have the beauty of ice and jade, and the gurgling streams have the beauty of beauty and beauty.
The magnificent sea has vast and unrestrained beauty, and each kind of beauty gives people different shocks.
Everyone has blood, flesh and soul,
They also exude different beauty, and the quality of each beauty is attractive.
At any time, learn to look at the world and the people around you with appreciation.
You will face everything more calmly.
When you get to know someone with a normal attitude,
When you make friends with someone, you won't have any selfish thoughts.
You can communicate freely, and your heart will merge a little.
A true friend will come to you in your envious eyes.
Friendship is also an indispensable thing in life. When you have many sincere friends,
You will feel that life is very happy.
Have a good friend,
Much more prosaic than having sex. Every hard work in a person's life is a kind of injury.
Friends are different. You can realize the purity of human nature and the value of true feelings while having friends.
Friendship is also a kind of love, a more noble and sincere love.
There are thousands of leaves in this world.
There are thousands of people in Qian Qian in this world, and they don't all have to love each other.
You don't have to be together, just learn to appreciate it.
Have a dream-
When a child goes to the forest, he has no utilitarian purpose of cutting down for use, and he doesn't care about light, temperature and soil like a scientist. He leaned against and sang to the tree. When he jumped up happily, the tree swayed, and when he meditated, the tree was silent.
The first dream may be such a forest. It is so simple and pure to dream because you like it, but the result of the dream is unpredictable. Necessity should replace possibility, and reality should replace fantasy. All the confusion, pain and hesitation born of dreams have happened.
Nevertheless, I think people should have dreams. The highest state of dreams is to be completely integrated with people's values, life beliefs and career goals. Pursuing dreams is the process of pursuing all the values contained in dreams. Not long ago, the hit TV series "Towards Harmony" made Sun Yat-sen take overthrowing feudal autocracy and establishing the Republic of China as his lifelong dream, which made people feel deeply. It is easy for a child of 10 to have a dream; It is natural for a 20-year-old to have dreams. However, after he passed, he was almost ignorant and still had the passion to dream. It is really rare to work hard towards his goal like a child.
Dream is a quality worth cherishing. I read an article in Harvard Management Review that interviewed the chairman of Disney Company, Eisner. He said that Disney's most important management task is to "manage dreams", that is, to protect and stimulate people's dreams. After the dream is stimulated, it needs the strength of the soul to protect it, and it needs persistent behavior to support it, so there will be pain and anxiety, contradictions and struggles. For various reasons, many people finally give up their dreams, or turn them into spiritual opium, daydreaming, indulging in fantasy without taking action ... This kind of life is a flawed life. A person who has lost his dream is the most pitiful "poor man". He has no fighting spirit and feels that life is boring, which is not good for others and himself.
I once saw a bus on the road, with many life mottoes printed on it, one of which I remember deeply: "The biggest bankruptcy in life is despair." I know some successful entrepreneurs, who had a hard time in the past and encountered many setbacks. No matter whether they eat instant noodles every day or get more than 80 points in four courses in the first year, they all stick to their dreams without exception and never give up easily until they reach their goals and realize their dreams. When Yang Zhiyuan and Philo founded Yahoo, they often slept under the table at night with a sleeping bag and a blanket. This day and night struggle, this youthful passion, under the illumination of dreams, makes the gloomy life gradually bright.
John and Adrian, famous economic journalists, summed up ten most successful experiences in Silicon Valley in a paper, three of which are intriguing: First, be brave in taking risks and stick to your dreams. Not only in entrepreneurship, but also in life to seek bungee jumping, skydiving and other stimuli to continuously activate their lives; The second is extreme tolerance for failure. In Europe, bankruptcy is regarded as a disgrace. In some countries, the bankrupt can't even start a company again. In silicon valley, "failure is ok" (why not); The third is the generous distribution of opportunities. Nobody should be jealous of anyone. Everyone has his own chance.
These three points tell us: draw the most primitive motivation from the dream, be brave to take on the failure, persevere and seize the opportunity to make the dream come true. I once asked my tutor in America, "What are the requirements for running a magazine in America?" Without thinking, she replied, "If you have money, if you have ideas, you can start a magazine." A little money and creativity, plus the courage to "dream", have become the starting point of my career today.
Dreams are "red dancing shoes that can never be taken off" in life. Because we have dreams, we will challenge the limits, including impossible tasks, constantly throw ourselves into the desperate situation and limit, survive in the desperate situation, surpass in the limit and enjoy the fleeting peak experience. Dreams can be painful. The harder they pursue, the longer they spend and the higher their goals, but they can't achieve them after all, which will make people unhappy. But the painful life with dreams is also a hundred times better than the insensitive life. We have created, pursued, suffered, shed blood and tears, paid the price, and finally gained happiness or pain. Because of the pursuit of dreams and suffering, life has become rich.
I salute everyone who has a dream in his heart. The height and depth of human nature have been deeply and romantically explored in the word "dream".
There is sunshine/Yuan Ye countryside.
It is rare to sit in the study at such a moment.
The sunshine outside the window makes the whole study glow with orange light. The table, chair, bookcase and I are all in this orange, and I am surrounded by a kind of lightness and happiness that I have never seen before. It's nice to have sunshine.
Actually, the window of my study is in the south. On a sunny day, there should be sunshine at such a moment, but it is rare to sit in the study and work at this time. I was bathed in this orange today, and I was almost intoxicated.
Turn on the computer and continue the summary of labor education I didn't finish last night. The material that already has ideas will soon end in such a happy mood. I took a long breath, stretched myself, and snorted, "Today is a good day, and all my wishes can come true ..."
See if there are any friends here. I opened QQ.
That beautiful head, though gray, is shining. "Oh, it was my sister who talked to me." I'll open it quickly
"Good sister! Today I have a rest and go to play with my friends. You are so tired at ordinary times. When our festival comes, I hope you can relax and have fun. Send you flowers and wish your sister a happy holiday! "
I haven't known her for a long time, but she is lively, cheerful and enthusiastic. Call me "sister" as soon as I know you, and I am happy to accept this lovely sister as sunshine. I have read her resume, and her enterprising spirit and never giving up at work really make me ashamed. I know many people her age, but not many people can pursue and persist in their careers like her. She attracted me strongly. Every time I communicate with her, I suddenly feel energetic and full of desire and persistence in my career, so that I no longer feel hard and tired at work.
Looking up at the window, everything is harmonious and beautiful in the warm sunshine, conveying attractive romance and warmth, and I feel an unprecedented sense of openness. My sister's greeting is like this harmonious and beautiful sunshine, which penetrates my heart and warms my whole body. Only then did I understand what "be elated" meant. Thank you, sister. May the sunshine warm you at this moment, and may you also have a sunny mood at this moment!
Walking out of the door in the sunshine is like being held by a pair of huge warm hands. I can't help but sigh: it's good to have sunshine! It is best to have a sunny mood!
Sunny days are common, but sunny mood is not common. That's just because when we have sunshine, we lack a deep appreciation and feeling for her. Every pleasure is the result of careful taste and feeling.
Sunshine makes us feel happy!