Some people have and enjoy some things, but at the same time they are fighting for what they want. However, they forget to cherish what they have now, only pursue what they don't have, and finally make themselves exhausted. Because they compare what they have and what they pursue with others, they fall into inferiority and jealousy. For example, I have bought a house, and I want to buy a big house when I see someone else's house is bigger. Seeing that others live in villas, they will also buy villas; When you see someone else buying a car, you have to buy a car yourself; I already have a car, but when I see someone else has a famous car, I have to change it to a better one ... Just like climbing a mountain, one mountain looks at another and follows it endlessly. So troubles will emerge one after another with the satisfaction of desires, and the whole life will be caught in the trap of troubles.

They have never experienced the happiness and happiness they have: sometimes they complain that their parents don't understand themselves, but they don't know that it is a kind of happiness to be glad that their parents are alive; Sometimes complaining that children are naughty and disappointing, but they don't know how to be proud of healthy and lively children; Sometimes I complain that my job and income are not satisfactory, but I don't want to think that there are many unemployed people who don't have jobs ... In order not to be worse than others, people who compare with others try their best to make money and work hard for houses, cars, tickets, face and so on. Their hearts are also tired. Health is a lot worse, and in this endless comparison, my friend, do you know that your happiness and happiness have quietly passed away?

Comparison is not equal to enterprising and competition, just as life is not equal to pursuing fame and profit. In fact, life does not need to be too complete. Knowing that everyone's life is lacking, you will not make unnecessary comparisons with others, but will cherish everything you have-sometimes happiness is not desperately pursuing what you want, but cherishing what you have now. Want to get happiness and happiness is actually very simple and easy to achieve; But if you want to be happier than others, it is difficult to achieve. If you know that you already have a lot, and accept and treat the missing part well, your life will be much happier.

So we don't have to envy other people's beautiful gardens, because you also have your own paradise. Fate has given us joy and opportunity, but also regret and pain-we don't need to complain about others, and we don't need to feel inferior. Clouds gather flowers and fall, cold comes and summer goes, spring comes and winter goes, and you can stay or stay at will. You don't care about things, you don't care about yourself, you keep a normal heart, you face everything in life smartly, you cherish your own life and enjoy it, you refuse to compare, you are content with peace and tranquility, and you treat life with an open and inclusive attitude, which will reduce a lot of helplessness and troubles and increase happiness and sunshine. And these-enough to make you happier!