Have a friend, I think it is particularly suitable. I have written about her before. Her name is Simon. You can turn it over. When it comes to gentle girls, I really can only think of her. Ahahahaha)
Everyone says that she is a very gentle and kind person, which is the kind of feeling that people like and attract. But she often tells us that she is an indifferent person.
Let's talk about her in our eyes. When she entered the university, she went to the dormitory earlier, so she cleaned it, but didn't put anything in it. When she arrived, she asked others to choose the bed first and spoke softly.
Then there was a roommate, we all called her Xiaohei, and we knew her very well. On the first day, they became good friends. I have excellent communication skills, but I don't talk much. The surrounding dormitories are familiar and friendly with ours.
At the beginning of freshman year, before everyone knew her, she had become the monitor, which was just a blatant default. hahaha. At that time, everyone said that the girl went through the back door, the counselor was unfair, and there were rumors that her family was rich and related to the counselor, and so on. In fact, it was later proved that these guesses were wrong, and the senior sister especially favored her. The first senior, that is, the teaching assistant in our class, was equivalent to the head teacher a few months before entering school and taught us a lot about the school. It was a hot summer when I first entered school, and the seniors were sweating all the time when they took us to get familiar with the school. She took out a packet of tissues, which was unopened. The senior should have noticed her at that time. Then, when the seniors checked the bed, they bought paper cups in advance and poured several glasses of water. Let's each take a cup and pass it to the seniors. Senior sister said at the time that our dormitory was only so polite when we walked to the third floor. Later, the relationship between the seniors and her became better and better. The senior was a very powerful figure in school, and later helped our dormitory a lot. For example, seniors will recommend her as a campus cadre in front of school leaders, directors and principals; She joined the debate team, found that the senior was the captain, and then left her alone. Of course, she is fine herself. Senior sister takes her out to take practical credits, and she will tell senior sister to let us all go to the dormitory. Then attending high-quality academic conferences will also bring us ... (Many, many such things, we realized at that time that it was a rumor that we went through the back door, but she took us, hahaha)
Then another senior is a minister of the student union. It seems that because she is good at talking, she became familiar with her senior sister before school started. The only student who didn't enter the interview, the senior also took special care of her.
In life, some things. Once it rained heavily and went to play in the city. It's getting late. An old woman is selling cherries without an umbrella. (Because there are not many cherries. ) 30 kilograms, she spent more than 200 yuan to buy it. I hope grandma will go home early. That's her living expenses for a week, because she looks frugal.
During military training, she carries a band-aid with her, which will give it to her classmates who have worn their feet; She can wait outside for her roommate's interview for more than three hours (because there are many people). It was dark, and the roommate was particularly moved. Once it rained heavily, she went to pick up her roommate, so later that roommate was super kind to her, that is, the roommate named Xiaohei mentioned above (she is not black, but she is very funny, and you can always see them. Xiaohe always said that she was laughing beside her.
Let's start with her indifference. Next, let's talk about what we've seen.
She is too rational, unlike her peers at all, and will not have negative feelings for us. She will weigh the pros and cons, make the most appropriate response, handle things with ease every time, and objectively analyze herself as an outsider.
For example, she had a car accident. At that time, she got up calmly to make an emergency call. She didn't cry or show fear, as if she were not the client. In fact, she broke her leg. ...
I feel this is particularly indifferent, or I can say that I have seen it thoroughly. She has never seen anyone in her eyes, just like a cold, inaccessible fairy. In fact, she doesn't care about any of us. Later, she realized that her gentleness is better called compassion, and kindness is that kind of kindness. She is very kind and treats people well. So many people are addicted to her hobbies and make friends with her.
She is very lucky. People around her are doting on her and giving her tenderness and love.
Everyone around her likes to get along with her, and her temper makes people feel too comfortable. Because she is very measured, you have never heard her say a dirty word. Because of family education, no one knows the above words and her experience except her close roommate. No one knows her indifference, this is my specific word, not really indifference)
I think such a person is particularly attractive, so we all like her very much.
But gentle knives, knives are deadly and addictive. None of us is her special existence, and our greed will amplify her ruthlessness and indifference. If we care too much about her and are too greedy, there will be no good result.
Really think she deserves the best in the world.
Every time she speaks, she is very kind and soft, and everyone likes her very much. Even the boys who often curse at ordinary times seem to have been eliminated in front of her.
Although gentle, she is not introverted, but cheerful. But even so, I dare not speak too loudly every time I talk to her, for fear of scaring her.
This may be the gentle charm. Her gentleness also influenced all of us who knew her.
Therefore, everyone will always give in to gentleness.