Nowadays, many young people are conscientious and responsible in their work and modest and kind in social interaction, which is quite prominent. However, the relationship between family members is often not handled well, and the quarrel between husband and wife leads to an increase in divorce rate; The quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very sharp and nerve-racking. Why is this happening? Few people sit down and think seriously, negotiate calmly, find out contradictions, and solve them objectively and fairly in the principle of safeguarding the overall interests and making concessions to each other, just like regulating social interpersonal relations! Compared with all kinds of complicated contradictions in society, the internal quarrels of most families are simple and trivial, generally there will be no big conflicts of interest, and sometimes even a little disagreement in emotion or language will promote the escalation of the war of words and develop into quarrels between relatives. When the two sides mobilized their emotions and language and had a war of words, no matter what the reason or way, they were still a family the next day. This is the inclusive side of family ties, which people often use, often encounter and often feel grateful for, to naturally coordinate and deal with interpersonal relationships in the family.
Many people are grateful for this kind of affection, saying that it eliminated the war and bridged the gap of family breakdown. As everyone knows, the smoke of many civil wars actually comes from family ties! My family went through it once. The temperature changed a lot a few days ago, from cold to hot. In the afternoon, the little grandson came back from kindergarten, and the son took off his coat for the baby. My wife disapproves of the baby catching a cold. After a while, the baby playing in the living room sneezed, and the busy wife in the kitchen said, OK, catch a cold! My son sat in front of the computer in the room and answered the phone. Why? Are you happy to catch a cold? After dinner, my wife still looks unhappy. Yes, I was kind enough to care about my grandson's safety, but my son robbed me, choked, humiliated and unconvinced. As far as this matter is concerned, it seems that both sides are in a hurry, and the more they talk about it, the more unhappy they are and the more angry they are. If my wife continues to fight back, the war will inevitably escalate! I care about the baby in my bones, and I think I'm not wrong. I feel that the other person's words hurt my self-esteem. As a bystander, I found that the contradiction between them was caused by family ties. It was family that blinded their eyes. What do old people think their sons should care about? I didn't expect straightforward language, like a sword, to stab each other's emotional weakness. When the son faced his mother, the language that could have been euphemistic became harsh and suffocating.
These people who leave home are very kind and easy to get along with. At home, they become sharp-toothed. Isn't that a little less social constraint? In fact, family members also need to respect each other, be humble and accommodate each other, and must not be blocked by family ties and inadvertently hurt by a double-edged sword.