I don't deny that in real life, many people are using their relationships to gain various benefits. But this relationship cannot explain and replace other healthy interpersonal relationships. Family relationship, friend relationship, classmate relationship, teacher-student relationship, colleague relationship. How can we regard these relationships as mutually beneficial? To make use of each other, we must all have use value or have the same interest-driven psychology. Without use value or the same interest-driven psychology, it is difficult to establish this relationship. People who hold this view often have no use value themselves and want to use others at once, so it is difficult to establish healthy and lasting interpersonal relationships with others. Therefore, people should be alert to such people in social activities to avoid being used and calculated.
Some people say that the relationship between people is a money relationship, and that there is a relationship with money. I beg to differ. Can't you build a relationship without money? So are family relationships, friends, teachers and students, and classmates all relationships that money can buy? Money relationship must meet two conditions at the same time: first, the rich intend to use money to establish a relationship, and second, the poor intend to agree with this relationship. Once the rich meet people who have backbone and are not greedy for money, or people who are not short of money, it is difficult to establish a money relationship if you have money and I don't buy it. Relationships built with money are ugly and short-lived. I advise the world not to be tainted with the smell of copper and not to condescend to the rich. We should safeguard our personality and dignity.
Some people regard the relationship between people as a relationship of mutual help. I think, although this idea is very kind, it is quite naive. Even if you always hold the idea of helping others, others may not necessarily have the same idea as you. Take what I said above as an example. How can people who want to use others all the time and use money to build relationships easily help others? Besides, the mutual assistance between people can't be realized under any circumstances. It also needs certain conditions. In my opinion, the relationship of mutual assistance can only be realized within a certain scope and space. Generally speaking, we don't help people who have nothing to do with us for no reason. We will help our relatives, friends and others who are related to us. In addition, we seldom help others. Look, how many rich people are there? Will they take the initiative to help those poor people? Will they help those children who are out of school? I don't think they will. They only think of getting help from others when disaster strikes. Yes, good people want to live in a society where people help each other.
The relationship between man and the outside world is mainly manifested in mutual need and interdependence. People all carry out activities in a certain range and space. In a certain space and scope, the relationship between people can be embodied in mutual help, mutual need and some dirty trading relationships. Once people get out of this range and space, the relationship between them is mainly manifested in the relationship of mutual need. We go out of the house and travel abroad, which can illustrate this point. Going out and meeting strangers, I need your care, you need my care, you need my consumption, and I need your service. We enter the internet, forums, blogs, QQ and chat rooms, and they never. Isn't this a mutually needed relationship?
The world is made up of people, and people live in it. Our relationship with the world is one of mutual need and interdependence. Only by understanding this relationship can we establish and live in a harmonious and peaceful society.