How long is a person's life? From the eyes, children look forward to growing up, leaving home, persistence and giving up, just like prosperity and adversity. Looking at others, looking at yourself, thinking about others and thinking about yourself, in fact, in good times and bad times, I miss something very much, but I just can't get it. What happened when they obviously got it? However, many times in life, it is precisely the kind of feeling that you think is a good time and you like to enjoy it. From this perspective, good times are actually the most dangerous times for people. It turns out that there is only a thin line between them. Therefore, I believe that everyone will encounter adversity at times, and how to treat it will be unobstructed. Only after adversity can you become the person you want to be. I often feel that in the face of it, I adopt three different attitudes: one is to change myself to adapt to the environment. Since I can't get it, don't complain about others, feel that life is too unfair, and always feel that others owe you. For the first kind of people, I think it deserves respect and understanding, but I don't think there is anything desirable. There is also a kind of person who is tolerant and open-minded in good times and bad, and will not be upset because of the success or failure of the result. The fourth kind of man, who has a smooth situation, superior position, abundant wealth and comfortable life, often pays a heavy price for all the superior conditions he enjoys. According to a modern historian, Hannibal, the "century superstar", was defeated in the Second Punic War as follows: Gapuyaping was kind to human beings, but the Roman plain was merciless. After that, his army could no longer. On the contrary, the Eastern monarchs are more cunning and wiser. A man named Ardenne Bales went to see him and made the following suggestions: Now Zeus, the great god, has given his territory to the Persian nation and his majesty, and he has established an empire throughout Asia. Ju Lushi listened quietly, not interested. He told the people who asked him that a comfortable environment would cultivate people without courage without exception. Similar to Hannibal's story in the history of China, but still unable to recover the decline. Although Manchu is a latecomer to the Central Plains, please read some proverbs of Zeng Guofan's adopted son: every official is frugal and extravagant. I am still young, so I must not be greedy and lazy. In my opinion, children from poor families in rural areas are more humble and easier to grow up.
Wealth and luxury are not conducive to growth and perfection. Many westerners hold similar views. Iacocca said: the greatest and best people of mankind were born in poor schools. This is an inspiring school and the only one.
A school that can train great men and geniuses. The words of sociologist Pareto are even more famous in the field of social sciences: history is the tomb of nobles. It seems a paradox that prosperity is not conducive to development. Because in order to develop, people with wealth and superior conditions often have to pay for it, because they have not learned how to cultivate themselves and govern the country. It is not conducive to the formation of the strong character of the parties. We can also borrow the theory of psychologist Adler to see through this phenomenon. Over-compensation ",so it is difficult to create extraordinary people. So, prosperity and superior conditions will definitely make people pay for it? It can be seen that choice, effort and consciousness play an indelible role. It is precisely because of suffering, adversity, and even physical defects that some great men have been produced and created. Excessive inferiority caused by adversity will disintegrate a person's vitality. Different environments have different effects on people. Prosperity and adversity, better adapt to the ups and downs of status and environmental changes.