2020 Home Schools * * * Five Selected Comments on Shu Ren Family Education Open Class 1
I have been a teacher for decades, and my baby is five and a half years old in a blink of an eye. I have kept a baby diary for more than six years. Always want to share too many feelings. Success or failure depends on one person's words. The theory of teaching children also needs practice, and more importantly, exploration and induction. Of course, the law of education should follow the individual differences of children, and all successful tutoring experiences are not exactly the same. Therefore, I hope that parents who care about their children's growth will participate in the topic exchange and discuss the topic of successfully cultivating emotional intelligence and IQ. Let our next generation grow up healthily (physically and psychologically) and steadily!
Walking into the door of education, I hope I can integrate and spread my educational thoughts one day. Although I am a drop in the ocean, I hope to give full play to my weak light and heat for education. Therefore, I will integrate my educational experience and sentiment into my classroom in time, so that children can feel the new educational atmosphere every day and fully enjoy the excitement and pleasure brought by new ideas.
Early education at the age of 0 and preschool has always been an important topic discussed by many knowledge families. We should do our best in early education. Some even spend a lot of money to send their children to better kindergartens, sacrificing their careers and jobs. Parents are great, we should cheer for ourselves! However, many people in preschool education are confused, and chatting with friends is more difficult for education. I think everyone feels the same way, so do I. When I use some theories to guide the practice of preschool education, I also fall into deep contradictions and self-blame, because it is not suitable for children! I began to think about new courses.
Children are motivated, smart, clever, kind, often help others, care about others, and are especially considerate. When others have contradictions, they will always comfort others in a reasonable way, just like a little adult! I went to kindergarten this year, and the repetition of knowledge made me feel a little wasted. I think I should guide and improve his learning ability in time during this critical period of learning. Having been engaged in Chinese teaching for many years, I feel that what Chinese cares most is the accumulation of basic knowledge. Memorizing words, reading comprehension and conversational writing are the cornerstones of language learning, so I decided to start with reading.
My children have learned pinyin in primary school, but they are not very skilled. I decided to show him a story book with pinyin and illustrations. I was a little stiff at first, but my child was influenced by my father's habits and was interested in reading since he was a child. Let's cultivate interest. We read our own books, but the children enjoy them with their little knowledge. After a summer vacation, children still have time to sit there and read. At first, he made a noise, and then he was silent.
One day, my son had a whim and told his story. It turned out that he memorized all the stories he had read, and some descriptive words, four-character words and idioms even blurted out. We were stunned! It was really unintentional!
I can read books, read story books fluently without pinyin, and make comments!
Then while cultivating children's reading habits, guide them to write early. Diary is a compulsory course for children every night. Since he didn't know how to write, he insisted on writing every day, which made his mind go through a rapid mature process: …… I am a man! ..... I'm brave! ..... I'm strong! ..... self-evaluation and self-awakening immediately appear in the diary, which we didn't expect!
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Children are the center of a family. Parents always revolve around their children, whether it is life or study, especially for their children's study. Many parents quit their jobs and put all their experiences into their children's senior high school entrance examination, so that their children can devote themselves to the preparation for the senior high school entrance examination. However, the result is just the opposite. Children are not interested in learning, their grades have not been improved, and the contradiction between parents and children is becoming increasingly serious. So how do parents solve this phenomenon and problem?
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After entering junior high school, you will find that students' grades begin to decline (in fact, their rankings decline), their enthusiasm for learning is obviously insufficient, and the contradictions with their parents begin to increase.
There will be make-up exams after entering junior high school, and there will be parent-teacher conferences after the mid-term exams. At such parent-teacher conferences, teachers will give some examples of good students, and most parents will start to feel depressed.
When the next semester begins, students' grades will drop, and parents will ask parents to cooperate and urge students to study. More seriously, parents will be reprimanded and blamed. Probably in the first semester, most parents will enter a state of war and begin to fully cooperate with their students.
After the second day of junior high school, students' grades have basically not changed. If you feel that your ranking is not ideal, you will have concerns in your heart, which will be revealed in your words, causing greater resentment among your classmates. Some parents will take away the computer at home and not let the children use it. Better, it will only break the network and cause greater opposition. Parents will spend more time with them, and rich parents will send their children to teachers for tutoring.
By the third day, most children and parents have formed a confrontational posture, and the relationship is quite tense. Parents are like slaves who work hard. At this time, parents can't play any substantial role in their children's learning, but teachers will keep asking parents to do this and that. Until the end of senior high school entrance examination, the nightmare finally came to an end.
How to break this dilemma, communicate well with children and promote his learning purpose?
Parents should change their methods for children of different levels.
1. If your children are in the middle class, they have a harmonious relationship with their teachers.
Then you should focus on cultivating children's learning style and seriousness. "If there is fear in the world, you are afraid of being serious". A moderate but steady student can often rush out at the last minute and become a dark horse.
Such a student, the most taboo parents always let him catch up with others. At the same time, such students often have some specialties and should be actively encouraged. A person who has outstanding advantages and can reach the middle level in other aspects is the most competitive and promising talent.
Experience sharing:
Xiaohe: I used to get average grades in junior high school. At that time, I positioned myself as an ordinary high school or a vocational school with low admission scores. However, one day the teacher said to me with certainty, "I believe you will definitely enter a key middle school."
I was puzzled at that time: according to my grades, how could I enter a key middle school? But the head teacher spent an afternoon with me to analyze the current learning situation and tell me where the shortcomings and advantages are. He said to me, "during this period, you can go to a key middle school as long as you try to make up for the weak links."
From that day on, my confidence doubled and I felt that reviewing every day was full of motivation. All subjects take the initiative to find teachers, ask questions they don't understand, do more exercises, watch more and listen more, and the mock exam has made a lot of progress. Results In the senior high school entrance examination, I played normally and was admitted to a good district key high school with a total score of 470.
2. If your child is at the middle level, he has a general relationship with the teacher and is not a student that the teacher likes.
Then you should recognize this cruel reality. Your child may be gifted, but he is not the darling of the current education system. In this environment, he can't be among the best. Persecuting him blindly will only make him worse and worse. The relationship with children will become more and more rigid, which will make you the opposite of children.
For such a student, parents should find out what he adapts to, encourage him, and treat the unsuitable places coldly. You can't use the method of criticism, and you can't let children have the psychology of giving up. Encouraged students tend to rise gradually.
Experience sharing:
Zheng Xiao: I can't improve my English. At that time, I made a decision to give up English review and concentrate on Chinese and mathematics, which I was still good at, thinking that I could boost my "total output" with these two grades. But then it was noticed by the class teacher. He told me that giving up one of them is actually equivalent to giving up the whole exam. Because it is possible that the subjects you give up will improve a lot as long as you work hard. Later, I paid close attention to English review and made up the basic knowledge one by one. As a result, as soon as the results of the senior high school entrance examination came out, they did well in the exam and entered high school.
Students with moderate academic performance should not give up any subject in the review of the senior high school entrance examination. It is necessary to know that the senior high school entrance examination is not optional after all, and the topics are basically basic. After all, "weaknesses" have a lot of room for improvement, and once this course is supplemented, it will also promote other disciplines. "The worst courses can be improved, and so can others." If you give up a subject easily, the loss and cost will be great.
3. If your child is downstream, or his grades are as unstable as a roller coaster.
Such students are definitely not hard-working students. Such a student should never set a benchmark for him and tell him that he can't catch up with anyone at once. Letting him chase will only increase his frustration.
We should focus on cultivating his peace of mind, dissolving his extreme views, trying our best to discover his specialties and strive for a breakthrough over other students in one place.
Don't complain, don't complain, learn some key points, master basic knowledge and stabilize your grades. If you hire a tutor and don't do difficult problems, you can do basic knowledge and homework well, and you can be greatly encouraged.
4. If your child is already among the best in school.
Then you must not put too much energy into children's study, because they are already on the downwind boat. Try harder, and the result will often be haste makes waste. What you need to do is to cultivate students' ability to bear setbacks.
Many students who study well can't afford to fail in an exam. As the saying goes, smart people sometimes nod their heads. No matter how good you study, you may not win every game. I have a classmate in college who has a good academic record, but when it comes to exams, his right arm can't move. There is something wrong with the nerves. The reason is the sequela of a bad test. Another thing to pay attention to is to encourage communication with students with medium learning.
Many parents want their children to associate with classmates who study better than themselves. Actually, this is a misunderstanding. Those students who study in general often have strengths in other aspects. Our country is already in a transitional period. You can't stand in society simply by your academic performance. There is no guarantee that she or he will be happy in the future. It is most important to cultivate a stable and easy-going attitude and avoid high scores and low abilities.
2020 School * * * Selected 5 Reviews on the Open Class of Yulid Shu Ren Family Education 3
(1) Parents should set an example and be role models for their children, and schools should guide them attentively and make joint efforts.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are role models for their children. Only when they do it themselves will the children learn. If it is only reasonable, but the ego can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the failed education will not work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example to let him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects and became a sensible good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) Cultivate children's interest, and interest is the teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them with your heart, and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.
In 2020, the school * * * selected five articles about the review of open family education classes for Yulid Shu Ren.
Parents are children's teachers, so parents should pay attention to the details of their children's daily life, set an example and make a good start. Read and study with children, create an atmosphere of reading and learning, and occasionally seek children's opinions to cultivate children's pride in reading and learning more and being a knowledgeable person. Don't judge teachers and others in front of children, learn and exchange children's educational methods and experiences with other children's parents, and be a caring and tolerant parent.
In today's society, the education of the only child has become a concern. It is the common wish of our parents to have a successful child and a successful daughter. As parents, we should train our children to be independent people with enough potential and confidence to leave us and become independent individuals in family life and social life. But how to educate children, especially how to do a good job in early childhood education, has become a difficult problem for every parent. Family is the first living environment for children, and parents are the influence of children, so it is great and far-reaching. The following are some of my experiences in educating children.
First, respect children's questions and pay attention to the cultivation of intelligence. We never deliberately taught her what to learn, but only answered her questions seriously when the child asked questions; Teach her to recognize the words on some books she likes to read, give her some books and dishes she likes, let her learn how to play and tell stories by herself, tell me stories once at ordinary times, and then let her tell them to me, so that she has a strong interest in learning.
Second, respect and guide children's thoughts and cultivate children. Pay attention to children's moral cultivation, no matter what the occasion, it is required not to hit people, swear or swear. Our parents are the children's first teachers. At home, when we are with children, we shouldn't swear or do excessive behavior. When a child finds out that his parents have done something wrong, we parents should take the initiative to admit the mistake and guide her to admit it when she makes a mistake.
Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's independence. In the process of children's growth, education is inseparable, and education is inseparable from respect. Respect does not mean connivance. In normal times, if you want to treat your child as an independent person, you must listen to your child's thoughts, discuss problems with your child, and learn to put yourself in the child's shoes. What should we do if our parents encounter the same problem? Will they do it like children? We can't use our own ideas, patterns and ways of thinking to decide what children should and shouldn't do, let alone use parents' ideas to suppress children's thoughts. Let children have their own ideas and independence, respect their independence, give them their own space, let them learn to brush their teeth, wash their faces and dress, let them learn to think independently, and let them have their own potential and knowledge.
These are just some of my experiences in educating children. At this moment, it is the era of only child. In early childhood education, we have also experienced a process from ignorance to gradual understanding. In terms of educating children, the differences in family environment have created different educational methods. Parents expect their children to grow up healthily, be outstanding and be proud, but I believe that as long as parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, their children will surely succeed and move towards glory.
In 2020, the school * * * selected five articles about the review of open family education classes for Yulid Shu Ren.
Educating children is a very complicated matter and a great undertaking. It is the wish of parents all over the world to "look forward to the success of children and the success of women". From a small point of view, this desire can make a person proud and glorious. In a big way, it may create a nation's pride and even become a representative of civilization and progress. Unfortunately, as far as some parents are concerned, it is difficult to realize their desire to make their children successful. The following are my personal views on educating children.
1. Love children, respect children and be their bosom friends.
In life, we should respect children, treat them as equals, establish a relationship of mutual trust and form a close friend relationship with them. Only in this way can we win their trust. Parents should love their children, maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. What parents don't love their children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children, so I often give my naughty son a kind hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive persuasion and a small gift, which will naturally make children feel the love given by their parents and enhance their trust in their parents. Therefore, our parents should use love to cultivate their children's good behavior habits.
2. The premise of good communication between parents and children is listening.
Parents should put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your child from time to time: "Is there anything interesting in school?" Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.
3. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges
Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition from an early age and dare to meet challenges. In study, I often encourage my son to say: You are amazing, you are smart, and you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. My mother admires you. He was very happy to hear this, which also aroused his enthusiasm for learning. When he was in trouble, I kept cheering him up. At this time, I will work hard with my child and infect him with practical actions, which has also been achieved.
Fourth, educate children to face setbacks correctly.
People will inevitably encounter setbacks in their lives. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can make people sink, and can also cast a strong will and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children to learn to treat all problems with gratitude and positive attitude, and bravely participate in social competition.
Verbs (abbreviation of verb) cultivate children's adaptability.
In practice, the ability to use one's own intelligence and other factors for self-control and self-transformation, to realize the integration of subjectivity and objectivity, and thus to ensure the normal conduct of practical activities has been the basic ability for survival since ancient times. In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and walk down the other side of success.
6. Reading with children
Parents and children can get happiness and satisfaction from reading together, feel love and warmth, and sometimes even become interested in the book itself.
7. Praise is the best way to shape a good character.
The deepest desire of human nature is to gain the appreciation of others, and children are no exception. Parents' praise will arouse children's inner sense of self-worth and dignity, and urge them to further strengthen good behavior until they develop a good character.
8. Parents' impulsive behavior will make children rebellious.
Parents should realize that rebellion is a way for adolescent children to vent their emotions. Parents should calmly deal with it, don't always talk to their children, and gradually eliminate their rebellious psychology.
Nine. Learn tolerance and patience.
Tolerance is a beautiful scenery. People who can tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others are indeed noble people. Such people are beautiful scenery in the world. Tolerance is an ability. Half are angels and half are demons. It is not easy to tolerate people who hurt themselves. Our heart is like a container. When there is more and more love, hatred will be squeezed out. We just need to keep filling them with love.
10. Allow children to protect themselves when things happen.
Defense is also a right. Some parents like obedient children, and children will do as their parents say. Once the child is found to have done something wrong, he will scold and beat the child. Not allowing children to defend themselves will not only convince them, but also make them feel a kind of resistance, laying a bad curse for lying and shirking their responsibilities. The child's defense itself is a process of orderly use of language, and it is also a process of communication between parents. If parents can consciously find some questions to argue with their children, children's thinking ability and oral ability can be well trained.
1 1. Avoid taking children's grades too seriously.
As parents, don't stare at children's grades all day, be a barometer of children's grades. Children are in high spirits when they get high marks, but they are disheartened when they get low marks. It will make children feel nervous, scared and unwilling to study all day. Parents should pay attention to the cultivation of children's morality, creativity and learning ability, so that children can support themselves even if they don't go to college in the future.
There are no children with poor education, only parents who don't understand education.
Parents always love to educate their children into kites, let them fly high, and the end of the rope will not leave their hands. However, children are willing to be a bird, eager to fly, and home is warm, which will always be the first stop for children to practice flying, not the sky where he flies, and it is impossible to stay in Xiaotian all his life. Parents' hands should not be used to play their children's hands and feet, but to hone their wings.
Thirteen. Be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.
"Interested teachers" can only let children learn happily from their interests. There is a strange phenomenon in society now, that is, most children have to learn a lot of knowledge at a very young age, and many parents have not considered how their children learn. It seems that the more they learn, the closer they get to success, regardless of whether their children are willing to learn or not, which leads to a waste of money, experience and innocent happy time. Therefore, I hope that parents can grasp their children's interest points from their daily life and study, guide them, and then let their interest heat up and make them burn, so as to achieve more results.
A famous educator put it well: "The fate of a country is in the hands of parents rather than rulers." The education and cultivation of children is a very complicated science. Let our parents and teachers cooperate with the school to train more and better talents.
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