The day before yesterday morning, I saw a message from a school girl in the ventricle.

Junior wrote very carefully, she said:

"I am a freshman now, very confused and lazy; Students majoring in statistics simply don't understand mathematical analysis, don't listen in class and play with mobile phones. Actually, I don't want this either. I feel decadent, but I don't know what I like and I don't have any skills. I think Zhihu praised: How should I spend four years in college? And then I felt useless.

I join the student union, because our college is very small, and almost everything is attended by the whole student union. I'm busy. I began to write the plan to take over from the winter vacation, and it was not decided until March, and I was repeatedly revised, and I was called back several times in the middle ... Sometimes I feel that I really can't do it, and I want to quit the student union, but I can't bear it. I'm afraid I have nothing to do after I quit my job, and I'm wasting my time chasing plays and playing games in the dormitory every day! "

Between the lines, full of confusion and anxiety.

In fact, many college students are like this, and so am my freshman. I feel that I have no direction, I am often upset and my life is a mess.

Think slowly and practice slowly, until you have some honors and achievements, you can alleviate some anxiety.

There is a saying that:

In all the unknown times, it's no big deal that you are anxious about a bad life and confused because you can't see the direction clearly. Confusion means that there is still a choice before you; Anxiety means you still have time.

Don't panic, boy. You feel confused. Whose youth is not confused.

02

However, we should not be lazy. You must be diligent in college. No direction is not the reason for your laziness.

Laziness will only keep you confused.

You can take part in more campus activities, grow up in diversified exploration, cultivate your hobbies, get to know more people, chat with counselors, teachers and seniors, or talk to your parents about your troubles and listen to their suggestions. After all, after living with parents for so many years, they know themselves best.

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Not knowing what you like is not a bad thing. This shows that you don't know yourself well enough, and you still have many possibilities. I suggest you take part in any activities and competitions. Anyway, you are only a freshman, and you have plenty of time. Don't set limits for yourself. Be confident and believe in yourself.

But don't participate for the sake of participation. Take every activity you choose to take seriously. Only by going all out and feeling with your heart can you reap the most useful things for yourself.

04

Never be too busy, as long as it makes sense to be busy. Ask which outstanding college students are not busy.

We should keep a correct attitude, improve the efficiency of doing things, and know how to ask for leave from work.

It's really annoying to write the plan repeatedly, but it's also a kind of training. Everyone wants this plan to be better. We should also see the patient guidance of seniors and the conscientious and responsible teachers.

When you overcome all the difficulties and see your plan successfully implemented, you will definitely feel a sense of accomplishment.

Since joining the student union, it has been a platform for growth. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. Many people say that joining a student union or a club is a waste of time. I think that's for those who just want to join and mix titles, just to join. To tell you the truth, if you really join a department because you like and yearn for it, and you can usually complete the tasks assigned by your parents and teachers in high school, then your growth in these organizations will be a valuable asset for the university for four years.

The seniors in the department will teach you many things that teachers will not teach you outside the professional classroom; There are also some precious friendships and unforgettable memories, all from these college students' organizations.

Take my senior as an example, because I want to learn photography and make an official WeChat account, I joined the student union of the college. I started with the simplest typesetting. At first, it was boring and time-consuming to stay up late every day to do WeChat. But I survived and became a "senior". Now I am in charge of reviewing the WeChat made by junior girls, and found that it is not an easy task.

I have never regretted joining the student union, and I am especially grateful to the official WeChat account for teaching me to be a senior. Because of my interest, in my freshman year, in addition to completing the tasks assigned by my seniors, I will also teach myself some skills of making official WeChat accounts online and slowly explore. Now that I have my own official WeChat account, I have met many new media operators with ideas, which is really worthwhile and meaningful.

It is also a kind of luck to know the great god in the department. Recently, I participated in some college students' competitions, and the cover of the project book was designed and produced by the minister who is proficient in PS.

Therefore, there is no harm in joining various college students' organizations, and you can get all kinds of network resources and skills, including the title of excellent officer.

05

No one is born with ability, all are ordinary, and Excellence is made bit by bit.

Senior, I am a debater on the university debate team. ?

In the team, I'm not good at it. I can't even speak clearly when I'm nervous in the game.

So in the summer vacation before playing the University Cup, I carefully read Chipa's Theory of the Four Seasons, practiced reading the manuscript, and improved my expressive ability and thinking ability.

Later, in addition to winning the champion of the14th College Cup Debate Competition, my on-the-spot speaking level and self-confidence have been greatly improved, and I am not afraid of all kinds of defenses and speeches since then.

Poor ability is no excuse. There must be people in the school who are less capable than you. You should improve your ability by doing one thing at a time. Really not, you can definitely find an organization that matches your ability, work hard in it and shine brilliantly.

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Although I say that many college students are well organized, it doesn't mean that I must support you to stay in the student union and various organizations. I can only help you analyze, not make a decision. In the end, it depends on your own choice, because only you know whether the students in your school are good or not.

If the organization you join really wastes a lot of your time, is thankless, and you don't like it, there is nothing to miss. Quit your job.

Don't think that quitting the student union will be all right. Besides the student union, there are many interesting things worth trying. The outside world is wonderful. Don't confine your eyes to schools and classrooms. We should also make more useful friends and have a love affair.

I really don't know what to do, so I read more books. These years in college may be the only time you read books according to your own preferences without any utilitarian purpose.

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Finally, and most importantly: learn professional knowledge well, and there are endless things to learn in any major.

Whether you want to work in this major or not in the future, it is always good to learn one more major. Look at you, you are so confused, you certainly haven't thought about the future, so learn your major well first, because this is a retreat.

Moreover, I obviously majored in this major, and if I spend my class time doing other things, it will not pay off.

You can devote yourself to this major, but it's not too bad.

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Don't worry, think more, think about what you have, what you want, who you are and what kind of person you want to be.

Career planning and life planning should be done as early as possible, but after you know the answers to these questions.

Let's go

This article is also sent to all freshmen in the confused period, hoping to help you.

I hope we can look back on our college life, smile and be satisfied many years after graduation.