In fact, when I first slaughtered cattle, I was not skilled at all. It can be said that I was clumsy and slow. But through repeated practice, he gradually mastered the skill of slaughtering cattle and became proficient. Finally, I reached the state of forgetting myself. This is a big reason for my success in slaughtering cattle! I think this is the so-called practice makes perfect.
At ordinary times, everyone will always see something like "there is a child prodigy somewhere, who is he (she)" in newspapers and TV, and everyone must be envious. But, besides envy, have you ever thought about it? In fact, the so-called prodigy is just that his (her) ability to accept is stronger than the average person, and the training the day after tomorrow will make him (her) successful, rather than being born so magical. In the same way, when we begin to learn new knowledge, there are also immediate problems. Many of us don't know how to start, and we often feel very scared. However, after repeated practice and continuous consolidation, it is not difficult to find fixed ideas and general solutions to some problems, sort out your own ideas, break through step by step, and gradually deduce through known conditions. In this way, after a long period of practice, we can have a good idea at a glance and know how to solve the problem.
In addition to repeated practice, just keep consolidating? "According to heaven, it is natural to criticize education." This is the key to understand the technology of cattle, and the knife is taken along the gap in the cow. This is called walking around obstacles. Walking around obstacles is more labor-saving and smoother than crossing obstacles. Avoiding obstacles is not only a shortcut to solve problems, but also the best way to solve problems. When encountering difficulties, try to communicate by detours, so as to avoid hard cutting and hard hitting against its laws. If you don't follow the rules and don't know how to turn, try your best to cut the knife that knows cows. Without weapons, you can't not only solve cows, but also kill chickens. This is bound to be embarrassing and there is no room for manoeuvre. "The technology is not bad, but the situation is good?" Solve the problem, don't touch the hard section. Playing hardball is not only frustrating, but also easy to hit the other person's most painful place, making the other person's pain unforgivable to you. Not only will it not solve the problem, but it will also tie an inextricable knot on the key door of cooperation. Although things in the world are very different, everyone and everything have rules to follow. You must be good at mastering its laws and following its rules. As long as you practice with your heart and keep exploring, over time, practice makes perfect, and things will be done very beautifully. Just like "a clever woman can't cook without rice", cows are complicated, but as long as you master the texture of cows, you can easily understand them with a knife. No matter how complicated it is, there are rules to follow. If you fully understand and master the internal laws of things, you can handle them with ease.
"At the beginning of the minister's solution, he saw nothing but cows. Three years later, I have never seen a whole cow again. " In other words, no matter who or anything, on the basis of comprehensive mastery, we must first find the door and the road, that is, we must know where to enter, go and turn. For example, learning, such as dealing with personnel relations, is the same. "I meet God instead of looking at it. I am Zhi Zhi and I want to do this." I'm talking about familiarity, familiarity with information, not fixation. Staring at the cow will give the illusion that it is setting a trap. Knowing the next set, the cow will resent not cooperating, and this set will also trap the person who solves the cow and don't know how to start. For example, the same is true for solving contradictions in personnel relations. Keeping an eye on each other not only has no room for manoeuvre, but also creates the illusion of being trapped by others, causing disgust. You know, no one wants to be trapped. The correct way is to follow each other's ideas and guide them in a roundabout way. This is "something that Zhi Zhi officials are eager to do". In fact, the gap between the senses is more effective than the communication between objects.
The so-called but I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn!
After successfully solving the cow, the skilled worker "stood up and took the knife, looked around, was full of ambition, and hid the good knife." It is a carefree life realm; It is also a realm full of confidence in pursuit. This is also the realm of hope in life. How can we achieve this state? Learn to use a knife like an expert. "Knife" is my survival weapon, and using a knife is his survival skill. If you know how to use a knife, you will live freely, if it is always new. If you don't know how to use a knife, you will lose the weapon of survival. If you want to master the survival skills of this knife, you must study the structure of the cow and find out the texture of the cow structure. The texture of cow structure is the inherent law of things. There are cows and no cows, that is, if there is anything, you might as well simplify it, so that you can solve the problem easily.
So we should do things like "know how to understand cows". Don't wear your own blade through, but also untie the cow smoothly. Reach the realm of indomitable spirit. For personnel, we should be good at mastering and applying the rules. Doing things by rules is smooth, and you will be happy when you do things smoothly, and you will master the way of keeping in good health.
Of course, so is learning. We must devote ourselves wholeheartedly to our own study, put our feelings into wisdom, reach a selfless learning realm and enjoy the happiness of learning. Just like when Confucius heard rhyme and music, he was infatuated and didn't know the taste of meat for three months, which was a kind of dedication. Although learning is boring, as long as we feel it with our heart, regard learning as a process of discovering and grabbing beauty, and realize the success and happiness contained in the learning process, we can enrich our inner self and stop being boring and painful.
PS: Sorry, it's a little too much. I'm losing weight myself