On June 24th, the program "First Observation" broadcast "Internet Addiction Teenagers", which analyzed and discussed the current phenomenon of Internet addiction among teenagers. Internet addiction is a common phenomenon among young students at present, which has aroused the anxiety and anxiety of parents and attracted the attention of educators. Although computers and networks have become an indispensable part of modern people's lives and play a decisive role in people's lives and work, the powerful network functions have brought great help to people's work and study. But it is precisely because of its powerful functions that the network contains many hidden dangers. Virtual cyberspace also has negative effects on teenagers with poor judgment, curiosity and strong desire to explore. This negative influence has seriously endangered the study, life and health of teenagers in their student days, and many social problems have followed.
Because they are addicted to the internet, they give up their studies, run away from home and even commit crimes from time to time. Two middle school students slept on the tracks all night and were run over and killed. 17 teenagers, because of a few jokes on the internet, rushed to the internet cafe hundreds of miles away to commit crimes. Several middle school students stayed up late to surf the internet for more than ten days in a row, and many teenagers abandoned their studies because they were addicted to surfing the internet ... This case sounded the alarm for the current education. The Internet has opened the window to the world for children, but it has also made children lose the direction of progress and closed the door to communicate with others. We can't help asking, what has the Internet age brought us? What should the Internet bring to teenagers?
"The computer is not a scourge, this is not true, and it is easy to cause children's disgust. We should tell our children that the computer is a tool, after all, for us, not for fun; Learn to use smart people and only play with fools. " Tao Hongkai
The network is a colorful world, and many teenagers are deeply attracted by the network world, because the world here is so wonderful that it forms a huge contrast with real life. However, in addition to their own factors, their living environment is also an important reason for their internet addiction. According to the survey, most teenagers who are addicted to the Internet are related to lack of care, communication, emptiness of life and domestic violence. Many students feel depressed and dissatisfied in real life, and have difficulties in interpersonal communication with many classmates because of personality and family problems. However, there is no such communication barrier on the internet, so they all try to simulate reality through virtual networks to get excitement and emotional venting, and get satisfaction that they can't get in daily life. This is an escape from real life. It is for these reasons that children are infatuated with the Internet, regard it as their spiritual sustenance and find themselves in the Internet. A sense of accomplishment that is affirmed and appreciated by others is something that anyone is willing to enjoy. It is difficult to achieve such satisfaction in real life, but the network can provide children with such space: the excitement in online games, the self-centered pleasure; The feeling of natural licentiousness when chatting with strangers, as well as the catharsis that can't be obtained in real life, give them comfort and pleasure in finding a bosom friend and give them a paradise to release psychological pressure. All this has greatly satisfied the psychological needs of these confused, rebellious and curious children.
"The main reason why children are addicted to the Internet is that there is something wrong with their parents' education methods. Parents' love is mostly manifested in material generosity, while ignoring spiritual and emotional care. " Tao Hongkai
Many parents or schools, after learning that their children are addicted to the Internet, begin to blindly emphasize students' ignorance, out of tune and lack of self-motivation, and begin to complain, reprimand their children, and even use violence to stop their behavior. However, this is just the opposite. The responsibility of internet addiction can't be entirely blamed on children, because they are children after all. They have unstable personalities, poor self-control, poor ability to distinguish directions and immature ability to judge problems. They are full of strong curiosity about new knowledge, willing to do things that only make them happy, and satisfy their desires through various means such as the Internet, even at all costs. And their desires need correct guidance to "follow good advice." It is the responsibility of society, schools and families to correctly guide teenagers who are addicted to the internet and lead them to the right path. Only under the reasonable guidance of parents and teachers can they find the right path in the confused life and move towards a successful life.
Faced with such a situation, what should society do? What should schools do? What should families do?
Judging from the current educational situation, what China's youth education lacks is frustration education. Not only primary and secondary school students, but also college students, sometimes a little setback will lead to some extreme ideas, even extreme behaviors, which is indeed a problem that should be solved as soon as possible in youth education.
Entertainment is only a part of the network economy. To make good use of the Internet and build a good Internet cultural position requires effective regulatory measures and means, and the legal construction of the Internet also needs to be standardized. Guiding and standardizing internet access has become the focus to be solved at present, rather than just pushing the responsibility to online games and internet cafes. For the sake of tomorrow and the better growth of the next generation, it is necessary for government agencies to organize and discuss the countermeasures to eradicate Internet addiction and improve the early warning system of Internet addiction crisis. In the "after-sales service", the toxicity of online "electronic heroin" will be minimized.
"In family education, we should adhere to principles, be tolerant and understand small things, and communicate with children like friends."
"Parents are children's first teachers. Parents and children have more time every day. If parents can change the methods of family education and let their children have a warm home and a healthy environment for family growth, then there is more hope for him to quit Internet addiction. So the first thing should be to educate parents. " Tao Hongkai
The most important thing to eradicate Internet addiction is family. Parents should never discriminate against or reprimand children who are addicted to the internet, but should communicate with them patiently and meticulously. Parents and children sit together to see if the problem lies in family education. Don't let your child feel that he is a bad boy, but communicate with him psychologically, find the root cause from family education and solve the problem step by step. Parents should not easily label their children with Internet addiction syndrome, mania, social phobia, etc. It will trigger the child's rebellious psychology and will not solve the problem.
It is most important for parents to find ways to understand their children. In addition, we should respect children, care about children, respect children's self-choice and self-choice, and we should give children such an opportunity to choose themselves in peacetime. Care should focus on communication, encourage children more, enhance their self-confidence and help them form an optimistic and positive attitude towards life.
At the same time, medical institutions should conduct systematic research on Internet addiction and find effective treatment methods.
Children should be allowed to surf the internet. Moderate online games are helpful to children's growth, while moderate healthy intelligent games are beneficial to teenagers' physical and mental health development. However, it is necessary to grasp a degree, know what children are doing online, strictly control online time, and stay away from online pornographic and violent content. It is best for parents to grow up with their children and constantly improve their own quality. First, they should learn to surf the Internet healthily, so as to educate and guide their children to grow up healthily, and don't blame them when they are addicted to the Internet.