Broad-minded 800 words (1)
Some people say that you don't know how wide the sky is until you see the sea. You don't know how small people are until you see the sea. The sea is so tolerant that it can tolerate everything at any time. In fact, the truth of being a man also lies in the mind. Only with a broad mind can we feel the ease and pleasure of "taking a step back and broadening the horizon". To be broad-minded, we must be tolerant of "allowing others to get along with others", be considerate of others' difficulties, forgive others' mistakes and attach importance to others' strengths.
In the book "Borrowing Arrows from Grass Boat", Zhou Yu, who is narrow-minded, sees that others are talented, so he tries his best to frame others and even wants to kill them! Seeing that Zhuge Liang was better than himself everywhere, Zhou Yu ordered Zhuge Liang to build 100 thousand arrows in ten days on the grounds that the army lacked arrows, and Zhuge Liang readily agreed! Zhuge Liang took advantage of the fog to "borrow" hundreds of arrows from Cao Daying, once again breaking Zhou Yu's plot. Judging from this incident, Zhou Yu's jealousy is particularly strong. What a foolish and incompetent performance!
Therefore, whether people are broad-minded is not innate, but gradually formed in later life. A person's living environment includes material environment and spiritual environment. The material environment should be the material living conditions that people come into contact with in the process of growing up, while the spiritual environment should include the way parents deal with people, their education and the degree of harmony with the people around them.
What are the boundaries and importance of broad-mindedness? Personally, I think kindness should be in the following aspects:
To be a broad-minded person will be calm and calm. The biggest thing in the world is a person's mind, which can contain everything. The narrowest person in the world is a person with broad mind, boundless love, optimism, broad vision and understanding. Narrow-minded people are pessimistic, extreme, conceited and selfish. In fact, life is like a tune, rising and falling. Life is like a hillside, there is a time to go up and a time to go down. Therefore, in the days of satisfaction, we should keep that quiet and don't get carried away. You should stick to it and be calm when things are not going well.
Be broad-minded and learn to forget. Everything is filtered through a sieve. If it is true and beautiful, if it can inspire you to move forward, if it can make your life more interesting, then leave it behind and keep it in your heart. Otherwise, put all this aside and forget some of it. If you indulge in it, it will only become a heavy burden and make you unable to move. To be a broad-minded person will be generous. Hugo has a famous saying: the ocean is wider than the land, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. If a person's heart can accommodate the mountain, the sea and the world, he will be open-minded, broad-minded and the world will be boundless. People's facial expressions are consistent with people's inner experiences. Learning to laugh when you are frustrated will improve your self-confidence.
If you are a broad-minded person, you will be broad-minded. Then we should have the tolerance of "getting along with others", learn to understand the difficulties of others, understand their mistakes and pay attention to their strengths. Whether you are open-minded or not may be related to your personality. The world is big, pestering for personal trifles? Let your mind be open-minded. On a satisfactory day, you should keep that peace and don't get carried away. You should stick to it and be calm when things are not going well.
How can we achieve a broad-minded state? Personally, I think that a broad mind should grasp the following aspects:
If you want to be broad-minded, you must master the principles. Blindly leniency is not true tolerance, but it will disgust those who abide by it and gain the respect of others. You should have your own ideas, touch your conscience and ask yourself how to handle things, just have a clear conscience! Just let nature take its course, don't force yourself, don't wronged yourself, do what you want, be honest and have a clear conscience, and be yourself.
If you want to be broad-minded, you must be tolerant. Hugo once said that as long as you have a heart that sees through everything, you can be open-minded and treat everything as "nothing", so that you can be at ease when you are panicked; How much happiness is added when you are sad; Strive hard when it is difficult; When you are proud, your words and deeds are as usual; Don't get drunk or faint when you win. People's facial expressions are consistent with people's inner experiences. Feeling comfortable and excited is a sign of tolerance and generosity.
If you are broad-minded, you must learn to hold your breath. Generally speaking, narrow-minded people are caused by subconscious inferiority and lack of self-confidence. Then your key problem is to adjust your mentality, enhance your self-confidence and overcome your inferiority complex. As long as you can do this, your mind will be open. Keep a clear head when encountering setbacks, face the reality, face it bravely and don't run away. Calmly analyze the whole process of the incident and analyze your own problems. If you are an impetuous and keen person, what you lack is this calmness.
Broad-minded 800 words (2)
I once read such a story: in a small mountain village, there was a disabled couple. The woman's legs are paralyzed and the man's eyes are blind. Spring, summer, autumn and winter: sowing, managing and harvesting ... Throughout the year, women observe the world with their eyes and men measure their lives with their legs. Time is like water, but it never washes away the happiness that permeates their faces.
When someone asked them why they were happy, they all asked in unison, "Why aren't we happy?" The man said, "I am blind, but her eyes can see!" " "The woman said," although my leg is paralyzed, his leg can still walk! " "
This is happiness, optimistic and open-minded attitude, and a beautiful life!
With this kind of mind, it is like having flowing water from the source, nourishing the smart eyes at all times, discovering happiness, discovering beauty and appreciating beauty: colorful flowers and long grass are all beautiful; Lonely smoke in the desert and sunset in the long river are beautiful. Will it be disappointing to lose your chrysanthemum? Why not savor the beautiful artistic conception of "leaving a residual lotus to listen to the rain" and "a residual chrysanthemum"? In the city, there are bustling high-rise buildings; In the countryside, there are small bridges, flowing water, wheat waves and frogs. This is optimism, this is happiness.
With this kind of mind, the mind is clear, beyond the dispute of fame and fortune, and I feel quiet and satisfied. Zhong Mingding lives in a high position and eats and prints symbols, which can be described as wealth. In the humble room, people can "tune the pipa and read the Golden Classics", tease insects, fish and raise flowers and birds, and be indifferent to their aspirations. With an ordinary job, you can feel the peace and ease of life. "Petals are like her face and willow leaves are like her eyebrows" is an innate pride: the infiltration of "poetic and self-improvement" can make you stand out from the crowd; Even if we encounter the frustration of "water stops us from moving", we should face the difficulties calmly and "sit and watch the clouds surge in Yun Qi" smartly. This is optimism, this is happiness.
Having an optimistic attitude towards life is the pillar of happiness. Happiness is the destination of optimism. If you want to be happy, you must first have an optimistic spirit.
Life is colorful, the key is to look at it with what kind of eyes: with the right perspective, you will find that life is so beautiful. Let's have this attitude towards life, like that couple, to find beauty and happiness.
Broad-minded 800 words (3)
When I was a child, I always played alone and got used to loneliness. Just in 2005, my cousin came back from Lanzhou, and my sister who had been separated for several years felt a little strange.
When my cousin first came, she lived in my house because she didn't have a house. Now every time I buy something delicious, I have to buy two copies. At first I saw that my sister's things were gone, so I shared mine with my sister. Later, I gradually stopped eating because I found that my sister had hidden all the food. I only ate a quarter at first, but my sister ate three quarters.
Slowly, I became narrow-minded.
Every time my mother buys things for my sister, I mutter for a long time. And my sister, who wants this and that, is clearly cheating on my mother.
When I got home, I told my mother, but I didn't expect her to say, nothing. I am not reconciled.
Two months passed, and one day, my mother said to me, "Look, son, your heart is not as broad as your sister's. Why does your aunt keep silent every time she buys you something? Every time I buy something for your sister, you get bored for a long time? " Send you a poem: "A letter from a thousand miles is only separated by a wall, so what's wrong with letting him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "Your heart should be as wide as the sea."
Later, I firmly remembered this poem in my heart.
A thousand miles of letters are just walls,
What's the harm in making him three feet?
The Great Wall of Wan Li still exists today.
I didn't see Qin Shihuang.
Broad-minded 800 words (4)
Take a step back and broaden the horizon; Hold on for a while and calm down. Be a broad-minded person and make life better.
A broad-minded person will not haggle over every ounce in life, so he will have a relaxed and natural life. I want to be a broad-minded person, but it is not easy to be a broad-minded person. We are always easily dragged down and bound by trivial matters in life, so we complain and complain. Why not change your mind and live a good life? A broad-minded person will know how to adjust himself. They understand that life will never be smooth sailing and there will always be some disappointments. I like to make friends with open-minded people, because I will be relaxed and happy with them. They won't care about a word you didn't mean to hurt them, and they won't care about trivial details. Being with such people will make them feel very comfortable and relaxed.
I am not a broad-minded person, but I will try to be such a person. In that way, I will live more relaxed, happier and more exciting, and get more people's love.
Broad-minded 800 words (5)
The memory bottle in my mind is floating by, telling the dribs and drabs of my past. I seem to wander among the fallen leaves in autumn, thinking of such a thing. Yes, that's it! It was that that taught me the truth of being a man, so that I could stand higher and let me know that what is bigger than the sky is a broad mind.
It was an autumn morning, and my inseparable friend Xiao Ying and I walked hand in hand in a busy and noisy street, enjoying the comfort of the weekend. Here comes a little sister who is almost a head shorter than me, with a bottle of soy sauce in her hand. Suddenly, accidentally, my little sister fell and broke the soy sauce in her hand. Suddenly, the soy sauce in the bottle spilled out and landed on the white cloth shoes I just bought. I quickly took out a tissue from my pocket and wiped it. However, Xiao Ying helped her little sister fall and scratched her palm regardless of her blood-spattered trouser legs. I'm angry because I can't wash the stains off my shoes. Just raised his hand to teach my little sister a lesson when Xiao Ying stopped him.
Xiao Ying touched her sister's head and turned to me and said, "Come on, honey. We should have a broad mind and care for everyone with a kind heart. Besides, this young lady didn't mean it. " "But, these are the shoes I just bought last week, and they are so dirty!" I pointed to the shoes under my feet and said. "Sister, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to." The young lady standing by spoke. "Dear, you are already a young pioneer, so you should learn something from others. Look on the bright side and leave a better impression on others. " I was speechless for a moment and threw a "I understand" look at Xiaoying. "Yes, be broad-minded." I secretly said to myself. So, I squatted down and said to my little sister, "Little sister, I'm sorry! I scared you just now. " Say that finish, all three of us smiled at each other! "Come on, little sister. Sister takes you to buy soy sauce. " Xiao Ying said, just holding my sister's hand and mine. After that, we sent my little sister home together. Walking on my way home, the sun seems to be smiling at me. I looked at the cloth shoes under my feet and felt more beautiful than when I just bought them.
"Isn't a person with a broad mind bigger than the sky?" I asked myself this question.