This is what my mother said when my family renovated the house more than ten years ago. The reason why I was deeply moved by this sentence is simply a word, soil!
For me who has studied interior design for a period of time, decoration and beauty are more important than anything else.
At least as far as I know, the decoration at home is not extravagant, but at least it can be simple and fashionable.
However, my mother left me speechless.
"The pool is too small to wash clothes."
There is no denying that there is a washing machine, but many clothes are still
Today, more than ten years later, every time we return to that house, we still have to vomit, but we are increasingly accepting the applicable value of this house. Those details that we don't notice help us save too much trouble in life.
Seeing the fiery ins decoration in the past two years, or those so-called exquisite life network diagrams, I will always inadvertently think of a lot.
How can you cook in such a small pot?
How can you put so many clothes in such a delicate house?
How can you sleep when the stars are shining?
And so on.
In fact, those "exquisite pig girls" in the circle of friends also refresh my insight into exquisiteness from time to time.
Not long ago, a friend celebrated his birthday online. After everyone attended a stylish birthday dinner, because everyone was tired of the noise, someone suggested going to the birthday girl's house for a drink and a chat. After all, she has moved to a new home for half a year, and the people here have not been to the bustling.
Although the face was reluctant, we all stepped into her home with everyone's enthusiasm.
The moment the chandelier was turned on, the picture in front of me shocked me.
Dregs piled up in the corner, high heels thrown at random, tea tables filled with cosmetics, and of course, unwashed clothes, underwear, instant noodle barrels, and take-away boxes that have not been thrown away. ...
In order to prevent embarrassment, she stopped everyone outside the house and said guiltily, "I left in a hurry today and haven't come yet." The room is a little messy. Wait, it will be ready soon. "
It is a question whether the exquisiteness behind what we see can still be exquisite.
Of course, there is always one thing in the exquisite life, and that is the sense of ceremony.
In recent years, the INS wind, the Nordic indifference wind is hot, and the sundew sunflower, starlight lamp, marble, flamingo and bubble pool are flooding our circle of friends.
These elements have become the standard of "sense of ceremony".
On some important days, those "exquisite pig girls" always choose places with these elements to celebrate and take some beautiful photos and post them on my social media.
The essay is: Life always needs some sense of ceremony, otherwise it will be like salted fish.
Life without ceremony is not life, so love without ceremony is not love.
Many people know through an emotional mediation program that every month 14 is Valentine's Day. From 65438+ 10 to 65438+February, there are diary festival, traditional Valentine's Day, white festival, black Valentine's Day, rose Valentine's Day, kissing Valentine's Day, silver Valentine's Day, green Valentine's Day, photo Valentine's Day, red wine Valentine's Day, movie Valentine's Day and hug Valentine's Day.
In the process of watching the program, the action of "this emotional conditioning is mainly to adjust the tone for the girl and save one or two valentine's days to see if she can jump off the building" flashed from time to time in the barrage.
Except 12 colorful Valentine's Day, all festivals can be applied to couples' activities. 65438+February started from the night of peace, which was a magnificent game in the circle of friends.
It feels like a legend that the water is full, as if sitting in a BMW and laughing is overbearing.
If the ritual sense of exquisite single life comes from the living environment, the articles used and the INS style on social media.
The sense of ritual in love, headed by Valentine's Day, includes Christmas Eve, Christmas, carnival and other couples' festivals, which constitutes a set of precise configurations like games: red wine, roses, western restaurants, gifts, surprises and transfer records.
The richest boyfriend in the circle of friends, his wealth level determines the degree of torture to other men in the future.
What's more, even Children's Day is unavoidable.
Lin Yutang said that in life, sometimes people will smile and sometimes people will smile.
Today, when she is an audience, she refers to the girl who pursues a sense of ceremony as a joke, even cynically. Tomorrow, because her boyfriend forgot the love anniversary, she feels extremely depressed and even doubts her life.
The so-called pursuit of a sense of ritual, originally a decoration in ordinary life, has turned into a desire to be dominated by material things and a vanity to cruise in the city.
The happiness index is not the pleasure of self-satisfaction, not the impression of a partner, but comes from other boyfriends in the circle of boyfriends who transfer more than 99%, from the praise of the circle of friends, and from the envious words in the comments.
They said, "Life needs a little sense of ceremony. The house is rented, but life is not. "
Life is not rented. Living my life well is more important than anything else. Therefore, after experiencing a love without a "sense of ceremony", lovelorn also followed, with more exquisite things to do.
Beijing couldn't handle the storm, and Tokyo suddenly realized.
A lovelorn journey opens another exquisite life full of ritual, and distance has become a good medicine to solve all problems.
Facing the sea, lonely back, gently raised glass, spring flowers in friends circle.
However, distance can't save the present, it just gives you an excuse to escape the predicament of your ideal life.
The composition of the sense of gap makes the later life more tired.
Of course, there are credit cards that have been maxed out, apple products that are still in stages, vegetarian products that have been tightened, and instant noodle boxes that have been accumulated for half a year.
Life needs a sense of ritual, but it doesn't need a sense of ritual that only pursues formalism.
Life needs surprises, but it doesn't need those surprises that people can only continue.
There is a sense of ceremony in life, because you will never forget every festival you should have.
There is no shortage of surprises in life, because as long as you are sharp enough, surprises are everywhere.
Failure to keep up with wishes is the original sin, and the source is the lack of self-positioning.
Life is boring because I am lazy, and the lack of happiness is due to echo and comparison addiction.
Those dizzy rituals are all completed on the premise of living an ordinary life.
If the house is full of scum all year round, it will stink when you go out.
It is better to learn from me, call a product designer from a distance and bother to design several large-capacity, exquisite and beautiful washbasins. After all, the pool is small, washing clothes is really inconvenient, and my bricks are really not so beautiful.
I am also a person who pursues a sense of exquisite ceremony.