When I was a child, I liked to go to the market with my father. My father would give me a few cents to buy food. I like to eat twist, the fragrance of sesame oil is floating in the air, and the temptation is infiltrating every nerve. After buying a twist, you can't start eating it right away. You should divide it into several equal parts. Leave one for mom, dad, brother and brother. After playing chess in the market, my father will give me the reward left for him and pat me on the head approvingly. When I get home, my mother's share will naturally go to my younger brother and younger brother. They will symbolically give me a little from their share when they eat twist. Now, our brothers live in different places for their own lives, and the party interval is at least three years. Looking back, how unforgettable the shared scene was!
In the face of temptation, learn to exercise restraint. Psychological greed will destroy the original harmonious relationship between people. A little restraint will create a warm picture. If psychological constraints are implicit, then behavioral constraints are explicit and external. Restraining behavior habits can also create a harmonious and warm environment.
After becoming a teacher, I received numerous praises from countless students. Most of the compliments I have heard can help a person build up his self-confidence, which will also expand. Long-term accumulation will make his behavior arbitrary and indulgent. When I was teaching a student, the classroom atmosphere was very active. I asked an impromptu question and found an absent-minded girl at random. Naturally, she is talking nonsense. I was very angry and said casually, "Bullshit!" In an instant, the air in the class was solidified, and the solid oxygen molecules lost their vitality, which made the female disciple blush and heartbeat. The original vibrant classroom was also frozen in a mess. I regret it, but also very contradictory. Wondering whether to apologize to her or let time kill this embarrassment. When the bell rang, I solemnly apologized to the student in front of the whole class. She blushed again, but this time because she was moved, the students applauded. After class, the students helped me get a glass of water. On the way back to my office, she voluntarily admitted her absent-minded mistake. Since then, I have paid more attention to my classroom words and got more praise. The classroom is full of laughter. All this comes from my restraint in my behavior.
My daughter went to No.8 Middle School and was proud of her family. However, she only got 465,438+0 in the first math exam after entering school. Faced with such a low score, I didn't blame her. I helped her analyze the types of questions and the reasons for her mistakes, and encouraged her to do well in the next exam. After the analysis, she politely gave me a back massage, and I was immersed in deep affection.
Being good at sharing, being brave in taking responsibility and being tolerant is actually giving yourself a constraint. The ancients said well, "It's easy to put it down, but difficult to collect it." A person who is good at restraining himself will inevitably put himself in others' shoes and be generous and tolerant to others, so as to create a harmonious and warm living environment for himself.