A netizen named "Beautiful Girl Riding a Snail" posted a photo on Weibo. The composition entitled "Dad, I want to tell you" wrote: "Dad plays mobile phones at breakfast, getting up and sleeping. It seems that he can't live without a mobile phone; Just like a wolf, I was hungry for three days and three nights, staring at a piece of fat ... Dad, as long as you put down your mobile phone, I am willing to change anything, even my life. " After seeing this, netizens said one after another: It makes people cry, but I can't stand it. Take the baby home. An essay written by a 9-year-old pupil is on fire. "Dad, what I want is not a room full of snacks;" Nor is it the most advanced mobile phone; It's not a particularly advanced toy. What I want is that you can put down your mobile phone and play with me "That's the happiest thing in my life …" Do you feel particularly sad to see such a composition? These days, this is a crazy topic on the Internet. Full marks for pupils in Luoyang. Dad, as long as you can put the phone down, Xiao Zhi (a pseudonym) wrote this article and touched countless netizens. ?

Our reporter contacted Mr. Zhao, the publisher of this Weibo. She comes from Luoyang International School, and she is also the head teacher and Chinese teacher of a 9-year-old boy, Xiao Zhi, in the third grade of the school. According to teacher Zhao, "the final exam of primary school in Luolong District was held a few days ago. The composition theme of the Chinese exam is "_ _ _ _ _ _ I want to tell you". The boy got full marks in his composition. ? According to Miss Zhao, Xiao Zhi usually studies very well and performs well in all aspects. He is still the champion of long-distance running in his class. He is called "Xueba". Teacher Zhao said, "In fact, parents in Xiao Zhi are also very concerned about their children's study. They are also very concerned about the connection between home and school, especially Xiao Zhi's mother. They often communicate with their teachers. Xiao Zhi's learning situation. In the interview, Xiao Zhi's mother said that Xiao Zhi's father was also very excited after reading the composition and blamed himself for spending too little time with his children. As it turns out, the father of Xiao Zhi Middle School is usually very busy after work. He often uses his mobile phone to handle work after work, and usually relaxes by playing with his mobile phone.

I just realized that holding a mobile phone all day is a problem. I didn't expect the child's mind to be so meticulous. "Xiao Zhi's mother said that after seeing her child's composition, she and her husband reflected. Spend time with your children every week. " The child has a holiday, and the husband obviously spends more time with the child these days, and the child is very happy about it. His parents said that they spend more time on their mobile phones and less time with their children. "Do you usually spend more time on your mobile phone or with your children?" The reporter interviewed the parents of several primary schools in Luoyang randomly. The parents of a second-grade student in Luoyang Experimental Primary School said: "There are too many places to use mobile phones. Sometimes I want to play games on my mobile phone even if I have nothing to do. There is really not much time to watch the news and spend with the children. " Another parent said that he "never leaves his mobile phone" almost every day, and sometimes let his children play with him. A parent of the First Experimental Primary School in Luolong District of Luoyang City said: "It is normal to play with mobile phones, and children are used to playing by themselves."

A teacher in charge of marking the sixth grade composition in Hubei composition competition said that there was a topic called "Bad habits of adults". More than 20% of the papers he corrected 100 were children. It shows that adults like playing mobile phones too much. In the children's description, adults can't live without mobile phones: dad watches news and plays online games, mom visits Taobao, or even? A primary school student's composition circulating on the Internet has caused many teachers and parents to sigh, because the composition is impressive: Dad, in fact, I always wanted to say "play with me for a while". During the interview, many children said: Mom and Dad spend more time watching mobile phones than playing with me. I hope my parents are not so busy and spend more time with me. ? However, in the interview, some parents of students said that they were "very helpless" because they always needed to use their mobile phones when they were busy at work, and then they had to hold a WeChat video conference to reply to the company news. After that. ? Education expert: "Paying more attention to mobile phones than children" is the lack of parents' educational ability. In an interview with Mr. Zhao from Luoyang International School, he published an article in Weibo. He said, "I didn't mean anything by publishing this Weibo. Mainly ask parents to spend more time with their children. It is very important for the growth of children. "

Regarding playing mobile phones and ignoring children's hot topics, the reporter interviewed Luoyang Normal University. An Feng, a scholar, said that true emotion is an important criterion that affects children's growth. Judging the level of composition has aroused many people's voices, which should be praised by the teacher's practice! An Feng said that playing mobile phones has become a social disease. Many people turn their heads after the traffic lights and even look at their mobile phones. Some people compare mobile phone viewing to opium in the late Qing Dynasty, which has a great impact on society. Playing mobile phones will affect the communication between parents and children, and it is not appropriate to form a gap between parents and children. He said that many parents have problems with their children and always think that it is enough to provide them with high-quality material conditions.

In fact, education needs the comprehensive efforts of social education, school education and family education. Lack of education may have serious consequences. Family education is action, not language. Parents need to do more to educate their children. Companionship is the secret of family education. ? Teacher An Feng also said that from a legal point of view, parents should bear the responsibility of educating their children and should not use any excuse to lower their education level. He said that parents have two problems. They put forward the idea of watching mobile phones go to work: they always give their children to schools and training institutions. They think it is more important to use mobile phones and make money. Pay attention to the education of children.

The level is not enough; Parents with such excuses actually lack educational ability. Such parents should go to their parents' classes to study, read more books on family education and improve their family education ability, otherwise they will not only delay their children, but also delay themselves. ? Don't let the mobile phone become a childhood nightmare. When Zhao Zhijiang, a commentator of this newspaper, took the final exam in Luolong District Primary School in Luoyang City, the topic of the Chinese exam was "_ _, I want to tell you", which was written by a 9-year-old boy in the third grade of the school and got full marks. The child wrote in the composition: "Dad plays with the baby every day from breakfast, from getting up to sleeping-the mobile phone seems to be inseparable from it; Just like a wolf staring at his big fat after three days and three nights ... Dad, as long as you put down the phone, I am willing to exchange things, even my life. Gentle language and sincere feelings, the composition in this examination room is a masterpiece, but it is an exciting real feeling. When a child writes "Dad, as long as you can put the phone down, I am willing to change everything, even my life", it is hard to imagine what kind of waves the child is experiencing inside. In order to let dad put down his mobile phone and play with him, the 9-year-old actually said, "I would like to communicate with his life." Such childish words not only hurt adults, but also embarrass parents.

How long will it be before we play with children? In the era of unlimited development of mobile Internet, smart phones have brought us colorful virtual life. At the same time, our real life is being "formatted" When we are addicted to mechanically operated mobile phones, face-to-face emotional communication becomes increasingly scarce. At the beginning, we were full of enthusiasm for the happiness in the WeChat circle of friends; The next moment, we are indifferent to the children's expectations. We would rather show the most charming side in the virtual space than throw the most numb side in front of the children. Have we considered children's feelings and listened to their voices?

Many times, although our bodies are accompanying our children, our hearts are moving with the mobile phone. Thanks to this 9-year-old child, he told us with tears that the company of parents is the best childhood gift. These words are not only addressed to the father who is addicted to mobile phones, but also to countless parents who are as negligent as this father in accompanying their children. In fact, being busy at work is never a reason not to leave your mobile phone. When we are with our children, are we really busy with our work? True companionship doesn't need to last forever. Did we do it? We have been steadily brushing our mobile phones, because if we don't pay attention, we will be forgotten by the world. But if we are not careful, our children will grow up unconsciously. Don't let mobile phones occupy children's childhood memories, and don't let mobile phones become a nightmare for children's growth. Might as well start now. ?