From the perspective of social philosophy, love has the dual attributes of nature and society, and is the unity of human nature and sociality. However, people's view of love is often closely related to one's world outlook, outlook on life and values, which means that the package of love contains quite a few realistic elements. It is said that love and career are the two pillars of life. Love is beautiful, life needs love, but life needs career more. We study, hoping to master scientific and cultural knowledge, hope to survive better and start a career, but few people study for love. Admit that life without love is incomplete, but life without career is even more empty. Career is always the first theme of life, and love can only be the second theme. Bacon said: "A truly great man in heaven (whether ancient or modern, as long as his fame is forever engraved in human memory) will never be crazy about love, because great cause suppresses this feeling of weakness." Those who wander in the whirlpool of love are often those who have gained little in other aspects of life. Although love is subordinate to the cause, it is not completely passive. True love can awaken the sleeping strength and hidden talents of both sides, because it can not only enrich people's social needs and strengthen their sense of belonging, but also promote the realization of people's self-worth, thus promoting the success of their careers; On the contrary, a successful career makes love stronger and more fulfilling. University is the cradle of career. Dealing with the relationship between love and study is not only related to the enrichment of college life, but also to the success of future career and happiness of life. That is, it has something to do with our lives. Always adhere to "knowledge first, art first, truth first, love second." This is a principle that I have not changed so far. ..... I think the god in your mind must be Beethoven [,Chopin [,and so on. First, love is second. In this case, the time and energy you can control at present can only be contributed to your first idol, but not to the second god. "And we just entered the campus should be young, quick-thinking, imaginative, energetic and confident people. The career of a lifetime lays the foundation in the university, and the course of life will take off from here. We know that the cultivation of knowledge, morality and ability in this period is not only conducive to the success of the cause, but also the basis for the existence of love. However, due to the lack of lofty goals in life, some students put love first in life, fall in love wholeheartedly in college, and spend a lot of time, energy and money chasing love. When it comes to falling in love, you are crazy, crazy; Once you are lovelorn, you are pessimistic and disappointed, thinking that "without love, living is meaningless." "This tendency not only wastes learning, is not conducive to the healthy development of body and mind, but may also ruin a person's bright future. Admittedly, pursuing love does not necessarily mean wasting our career, but the seriousness of life lies in that when we are allowed to choose only the most important one among many needs, we must calmly think about what we need most. Of course, while we affirm our studies, it doesn't mean that love is not important. Love is also a very important thing in life. When you thought you were a college student. Then we should treat the love in our hearts correctly. It should be clear that our main task as college students is to study, and only study can keep the charm of love. If you put love first, distract your energy, even neglect your studies, and affect your work and unity with other students, it will make love lose its true value and you may regret it for life. Therefore, it is very important to treat love correctly and handle the relationship between love and life. University is a science hall, which contains the essence of human civilization and the latest scientific information. College students who are in their prime of life should make full use of the good environment and conditions for themselves to board this hall and concentrate on their studies, so as to go to the society in the future and realize their value. When there is a contradiction between love and school, we should rationally let love obey the school and ensure the completion of the school. If you succeed in your studies, Mochow will have no bosom friends in the future. When the school is neglected, love may drift away with it. Contemporary college students who shoulder heavy responsibilities should handle the relationship between love and study, cherish and grasp youth, and make youth more beautiful and positive. Make your life more colorful. The trajectory of life is often dominated by the outlook on life, which affects people's knowledge and understanding of life, happiness and love. College students are in a stage where their outlook on life tends to be stable, but it has not yet been fully finalized. They lack a clear understanding of the choice of life path, a deep understanding of the relationship between love and life, and the necessary preparations for the social responsibilities and obligations that love should bear. This requires college students to establish correct stability and correct outlook on life. For college students, to properly handle the relationship between love and career is to properly handle the relationship between love and study. On this issue, we should have the following basic viewpoints: distinguish priorities and follow the principle of academic pursuit of priority; Make reasonable arrangements to create a beautiful love life that can promote academic take-off. So as to make your life more exciting. Let love truly become an unusual experience in our lives, a beautiful episode in our lives and the driving force of our cause. ...