Someone once said that life is an art of weighing gains and losses, and it is true. There are gains and losses in life, and it is only natural. You can't have it both ways. But losing is not nothing, not nothing. As the old saying goes: Give someone a rose, and you have it in your hand.

Yu Xiang. Maybe you lost the rose, but you got the recognition of your friends and gained inner peace. This is not without gains. Look at the gains and losses from another angle, and you will be suddenly enlightened: you pour out a glass of old water, but you have a glass of clear water.

Spring; You lost the rose, but you picked the rose; The mind has suffered trauma, but it has a unique experience. ...

The philosopher Tagore said, "If you cry because you lost the sun, you will also miss the stars." Don't be sad because of the loss, but look at what you have gained. Maybe you will say that Su Shi lost a lot: his career was not smooth and he suffered many times.

Being relegated, a good wife dies young and cannot grow old. However, without these difficulties, how did history achieve great literary achievements and cultivate his broad-minded life feelings? What is the feeling of "throwing stones in the air, surfing on the shore and rolling up thousands of piles of snow"

Momentum; "The water in front can also go west! How tough it is to sing "White Haired Yellow Chicken" in recess; "Go home, there will be no rain or shine" is so open-minded. Su Shi's loss made him a writer, and Su Shi's disobedience made him

There is nothing to worry about being able to stand on the top of the mountain and look down at the world. Look ahead and you will get more. Maybe you will say that Lin Hejing lost a lot. He didn't have superhuman talent, but he died.

Between the mountains and the forest. But if we look at it from another angle, it is his loss that makes his mind get a pure land, which is not polluted or defiled by the secular world. Taking plum as fun, taking cranes as friends and drifting away from mountains and rivers have achieved eternal beauty.

Words. Maybe you will say that Lao She lost a lot, his works were simplified and he lost money. But as Mr. Lao She himself said, he suffered financially, but he took advantage of literature and lost money.

Yi, in exchange for an immortal classic, do you think it's gain or loss? Losing may be helpless, but in a sense, isn't it? Gain and loss, this is a pair of inseparable friends, no gain and loss, no.

Gains and losses should not be your sadness, but you should rejoice in everything you get. Don't worry, don't worry. Gain and loss are accompanied. Gains and losses are neither sad nor worrying.