Self-confidence, a commonplace topic. This is the secret of our success and an indispensable subject for us. When I was a child, I received such an essay proposition, and finally I failed the exam in Sun Shan. I was not discouraged and made a comeback. In junior high school, I will be in an exposed pride on the same topic, and I will use some rhetoric and decorative sentences to satisfy my pride at that time. Now, it is the same topic. What is confidence? I want to analyze this problem as dialectically as possible.
Self-confidence can be divided into two types, one is moderate self-confidence, which contains impurities such as modesty and prudence. The other is pure and flawless self-confidence, which should be a state of saturation. The product of time is of course conceit.
Self-confidence in saturated state, in The Emperor's New Clothes, the emperor swaggered and proudly walked down the street in saturated state, showing his "gorgeous new clothes". Full of confidence all the way, but with a child's children's voice jokingly beating his saturation. A shy rose thinks she is "born beautiful", but tourists always don't praise her. I thought that I was so "left out" because of the ugly frog beside me. He said, "Go ahead, you are too fat on me." The frog left with inferiority. A few days later, the rose was dying and dying. The frog said helplessly, "I've been catching worms for you, and now the worms are eroding you …" These two fables are very concise. If you had to choose between an emperor and a flower, which one would you choose?
I prefer the emperor. At least the emperor who owns the world has "deteriorated" under everyone's praise, which also shows that his self-confidence can be adjusted, and the rose will eventually disappear because his self-confidence exceeds inflation. Friends, sometimes you can't be too overconfident. The key is whether you can adjust.
The confidence of the mixture, whenever we are appreciated by others, always modestly says, "No, you flatter me." Something like that In fact, this is an affirmation of your own achievements, and the profound point is full of confidence in your own achievements. Mr. Li Siguang, who once refused to accept China as a "poor oil country", crossed mountains and rivers and gave foreigners a strong counterattack. He didn't believe foreigners' assertions and discovered Quaternary glaciers. Isn't this about having confidence in yourself and being firm step by step? Helen, who is disabled, has also confidently reached the peak of the literary world, and her achievements have surpassed what normal people can do.
Turn the annual ring of time and go back to their century, which one will you do? I will do both, challenge tradition with confidence, and not bow to fate with confidence. Actually, my friend, we just need to be one of them. The key is how we do it.
I still can't know what confidence is, because it is invisible and colorless. Perhaps, I believe I can finish my homework today, which is self-confidence. Perhaps, I believe that I can be admitted to the university, which is also self-confidence. Maybe, my friend, we are full of confidence every day. Do you have confidence? Do as I say every day:
Smile at yourself in the mirror and say, "I want to do something for the world." ! "
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Self-confidence is a life attitude that modern people should have. On the other hand, believe in yourself, that is, believe in yourself. We should believe in ourselves. If you don't believe in yourself, what is there to believe in this world? Only by believing in yourself can we build confidence in success and achieve success. Many people are not confident because of inferiority complex. They don't think they can do it. They have given up hope. Can they expect hope from others? So I think believing in yourself is the cornerstone of success. But that doesn't mean we can refuse to listen to other people's opinions. "Go your own way and let others talk!" It sounds chic, but no one can really do it. It is true that we should stick to our beliefs and not be interfered by outsiders. But when others give you sincere advice, I think you should accept it with an open mind. "All bets are off, but modest gains" means that overconfidence will lead to losses, while accepting others' opinions modestly will be beneficial, which requires us to learn to correctly handle the relationship between believing in ourselves and listening to others' opinions.
Believe in yourself instead of blindly believing in yourself, accept others' opinions with an open mind instead of blindly following, fully understand and know yourself, know your own ability and kindness, fully believe in your own self-confidence and kindness, listen to others' opinions properly in areas you don't know much about or when you don't know much about them, and make correct judgments based on your own ideas.
The road of life is very long, and the progress is full of thorns. We always face turning points again and again. How to take every step well depends on our own choice. No one can help us, we must rely on ourselves, we must believe that every step we take is correct and go on without regrets. People who often ask for directions won't get lost. We can't rely on others, but we can ask others for advice and find the best way. In the process of growing up, we gradually know how to believe in ourselves. It's like listening to others' well-intentioned advice, taking your own path and accepting others' rational correction. The road seems to be no longer rugged, and we seem to see hope on the other side.
"Believing all people's mistakes is the same as doubting all people's mistakes." We are opposed to extreme thoughts, and we also have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Correctly understand your own position and ideas, think carefully about others' opinions, combine believing in yourself with listening to others' opinions, carefully and firmly take every step of your life, and you will surely see a rainbow not far away.