Every child will go through a rebellious period. During this period, parents also have a headache, but they are often in a rebellious period. This way can easily inspire his inner stubbornness and rebellion. Below I have sorted out the methods of communication between parents in the rebellious period of children, hoping to help everyone!

First, parents' correct practices in children's rebellious period

1, face up to the child's abnormal emotions

The behavior of children in the rebellious period is very incredible in the eyes of parents. But we can't deny that they are wrong. We should face up to some of their behaviors and emotions and think about why children react like this. It's not random accusations, but random beatings, which can suppress children's rebellious emotions.

2. Communicate more.

Children in the rebellious period should be busy with their parents' work most of the time, ignoring the time spent with their children. After work, spare some spare time every day, talk with children more, have some questions or doubts about domestic life, and so on. , and make some correct guidance as appropriate.

3. Understand the children's world

There is a generation gap. Parents and children experience different times and have different values or cognition. Parents sometimes insist on their own opinions and decisively think that a certain behavior or thing is wrong, and some hobbies of children are meaningless to parents. This will only alienate you from your children. Get in touch with children more, try to understand their world, life and interests, and try to find some common topics or understandings by yourself.

4. Support and encouragement

Support and encourage children's behaviors or ideas more, and don't let parents be harsh in their children's minds. Some things are rejected. There is no room for discussion.

5. There is more room for independent choice.

In learning, many parents pay special attention to it and arrange various cram schools for their children during the holidays. I'm afraid my child is half behind others. But we should think more about children. Is this pressure too great for them? They also have their own things to do, their own hobbies, and give them more choices in order to give full play to their potential and expertise. Reduce conflicts with parents.

Second, children's rebellious education methods

Learn to understand children: everyone came from this age, so we should fully understand that some behaviors of children today are caused by hormonal changes and their psychology has changed. If parents educate their children with parental authority or some extreme ideas at this time, it will naturally have a certain reaction, so learn to understand children, understand their inner thoughts, and give them affirmation and encouragement! Don't think that these changes in children are unreasonable. You know, this is the only way for children to grow up, and it is also a process that everyone will experience. Only by knowing children can we walk into them and help them overcome the problem of rebellious period!

Don't say "no" to children easily: For rebellious children, what they need is our affirmation, not our negation, so many parents habitually make their children feel bored in the process of saying "no"! This will aggravate the situation of the child's rebellious period, so we must pay attention to it. We need to have confidence in our children. Only when they are sure will they be willing to tell us their inner thoughts and let us help them analyze and make judgments. No matter what the child does, he must have his reasons. Only by knowing their reasons can we come up with a solution. Parents must pay attention to it. If they often say no to their children, they will refuse to communicate with their parents, so it will be more difficult to get along.

Full communication: in the process of communicating with children, we must pay attention to ways and means. We should not oppress them with the authority of parents, but stand in a state of relatively equal. Don't try to pry into children's privacy, but let them reveal it to us. This may be difficult. Parents should establish such a trust relationship when their children are very young. The best relationship is to be friends with them. Don't let them think of my parents, but let them trust you enough to help them solve their problems instead of causing them more confusion. Only in this way can children communicate openly with us and we can walk into their hearts!