I have never noticed how we can make up in this embarrassing silence when we have a heated argument with others and suddenly both sides have no lines. But it is precisely because both sides know each other very well that the quarrel is not established. So don't mind whether it's a big fight or a small fight. However, this time is different.
We are really angry. We hate each other, try our best to dig out her shortcomings, never let go of the slightest trace, and list her mistakes more seriously than before. After the angry curse, I fell into endless silence. It's really too quiet, so quiet that I can't keep my angry heart any longer. I have to think it over. You really shouldn't be so angry with her. Lost a friendship, and Qian Qian absolutely regret.
However, the air is so dignified that even the sun in June and July can't melt. What should I say? I stole a look, but I met her melancholy expression. I quickly turned my head. "Hee hee, our apples are super sweet. Do you want one? " I stared at the man I quarreled with just now, but now he is all smiles. "oh". Come to her senses, she has been busy washing apples in the kitchen.
The sense of dignity just now is gone, and it feels the same as before. However, she suddenly jumped out of such a mindless sentence and put her voice in a tenth of a bell, which was really unbearable. As a result, a serious quarrel ended.
I don't know when our friendship will be restored. Yes, the fool who secretly laughed at her at that time showed that we had actually made up. Why didn't we notice it before? I think it's really every time she breaks the deadlock and makes the laughter spread again. Like a fool, she is like a touch of warm sunshine, which makes people harmonious and happy. ...
Now, in the face of friends who are sulking because of quarrels, I will also use my stupid behavior to make people around me happy again.
Under appropriate circumstances, being a fool once is actually a kind of wisdom.
Giving up is also wisdom. People's emotions always want something, thinking that the more things they have, the happier they will be. But one day, we suddenly realized that we began to feel depressed, bored, confused, helpless and unhappy, all of which were related to our requirements. We are unhappy because we long for too many things, and before we know it, we are infatuated with something.
You can't just live for a few practical things and figures.
Only by knowing how to give up can you be happy, and it is always hard to walk with a burden on your back. Using the "empty cans" (idle resources) in your luggage to cooperate with others, you not only don't feel hard, but feel relaxed. The future is an era of cooperation and division of labor-only in this way can you open a hole and open up a successful sunshine avenue.
In life, we always choose between taking and giving up, always eager to grab and possess, and often ignore the opposite of giving up and possessing-giving up. Knowing the true meaning of giving up, you will understand the wonderful truth of "losing the east corner and harvesting the mulberry" Knowing the true meaning of giving up, observing everything, and experiencing a realm as broad as the world, we will naturally know how to give up at the right time. This is a good way for us to gain inner balance and get happiness.
Knowing how to give up in time is a good way for us to achieve inner balance and happiness.
Life sometimes forces you to hand over power, let go of opportunities and leave love behind. In fact, giving up is also a kind of gain, and you should learn to give up in life. Giving up will make you open-minded. Giving up will make you calm and active, give up will make you full of opportunities, and give up will make you smarter and stronger.
What should I give up? Give up the pain caused by lovelorn, give up the hatred left by humiliation, and give up all the unspeakable loads in your heart; Give up quarrels and endless explanations that waste energy; Give up the struggle for power, the greed for money, the struggle for fame and fortune ... all selfish desires, all malice, all stubbornness should be given up.
However, giving up is not easy, and it takes a lot of courage. Faced with many impossible things, it is a wise choice to give up bravely. Only by giving up without hesitation can we easily devote ourselves to a new life and make new discoveries and changes.
Giving, cooperation and sharing are the sixth pot. In fact, giving up is also the sixth pot. This is a choice. Giving up weaknesses is as important as business advantages. Give up properly, just for progress. Giving up is also a kind of wisdom, which can release the mind, restore the nature and help us really enjoy the sixth jar. Without wise giving up, there is no real sixth can.
Be good at giving up, know how to choose, and give full play to your strengths and advantages. Keep everything that can give full play to your strengths, discard all the rest, make time, squeeze out resources and realize greater value.
Writing ... turning around is also a kind of wisdom ... materials are urgently needed 1 turning straight.
In the face of congested roads, smart drivers will choose to detour and take a little more roads, but they will save some time and arrive at their destinations early. Isn't this the way of life? When difficulties, setbacks or other complicated things block our shortcuts, we should learn to take detours. In life, the curve is the shortest between two points.
Learning to detour is not only the wisdom of survival, but also the key to success.
There was a businessman named Henry Sheriman in Germany who was deeply infatuated with Homer's epic since he was a child and determined to become an archaeologist. But the family is poor and can't afford many expenses of archaeological research. Obviously, between reality and ideal, poverty blocked his straight line, so he decided to take the curve.
In the next few years, he worked as an apprentice, salesman, trainee sailor, bank messenger, and oil industry, and accumulated a large sum of money, spending all of it on pursuing his childhood ideals. Within a few years, he excavated nine cities and finally dug up two ancient Aegean cities. Sheriman became the first person to discover the highly developed Aegean civilization.
In order to realize his ideal, Sheriman did not hesitate to take this long detour. If he only cares about the straight road in front of him and earns some living expenses instead of spending a lot of time and energy to earn enough money, then he will never find those cities buried deep underground and realize his dreams.
People who don't know how to take detours will only leave a sad figure for future generations.
Dim sword shadow, away from the horn of war drum. The overlord is besieged on all sides. "Pull up the mountains and cover the land!" Bad times never die! What can I do without dying? What is this? "Generous sad song sounded. The two roads in front of him are crossing and not crossing. He chose the latter and refused to cross the Wujiang River! Blood splashes on the banks of Wujiang Pavilion! Only the elders in Jiangdong lamented forever, and later generations commented that "it is shameful to attack Wu Dong without crossing the Wujiang River".
Xiang Yu doesn't know how to take detours. If we cross the Wujiang River and make a comeback, history will be rewritten.
From the hero's figure, I read the wisdom of detouring and the stupidity of not detouring.
People must learn to run water when they are alive. The mountain in front blocked the way to the sea and bypassed it. When people are alive, they should learn morning glory and live a good life around them. Don't be afraid to take detours, and don't be afraid to stumble on detours. Take a straight road and the curve to success will be the shortest!
2 Around the colorful life
Classes 30 and 30 in senior high school are all sincere.
Did faith and ideals make you fall into the middle of the desert? Do you long for Dapeng to spread its wings, and the eagle to hit the sky, but the rain wet your wings? You stubbornly tell yourself that once you have set your direction, you will never look back.
Helpless! How many sighs are shed in life and how many joys are drowned in the dust. When you were crying in wyndell dichinson and crawling on the ground with scars, did you hear the love and teaching of the earth? Learn to make a detour to find a village with a bright future.
I admire that strange man standing in the fragrant grass, full of talent and patriotic feelings, but I am also deeply saddened by the endless grief and lament of Guluo River. When the cruel reality washed away the dam of his belief, he silently walked towards the raging river. However, I don't want to call it "peace". Mr. Lu Xun said: "The real warrior dares to face the bleak life." In my opinion, Qu Yuan's life tragedy of "being able to enter but not leaving" is the result of his ignorance of detours. There are many roads in life. Why do you have to hit a dead end and refuse to go back and find another way out?
There is more than one way to Rome. When you are blocked by fog, don't cry because of despair. Take a detour and turn a corner. Maybe there is a road ahead, with the fragrance of moonlight, to take you home.
Confucius deserves to be a saint! He was born in the declining nobility of Lu, and his family was poor but eager to learn. When he was a local official, his political achievements were remarkable and he became an example for the four parties to follow. When I was a scout, I was conscientious and loyal. Due to the corruption of Lu's rule, he left Lu disappointedly and traveled around the world, hoping to carry out his own ideas, but he didn't expect to hit a wall everywhere. But the sage's choice is wise. In his later years, he returned to Shandong, devoted himself to running a school, determined to write, cultivated "seventy-two sages", and sorted out poems, books, rituals, righteousness, yue, spring and autumn! It is the wisdom of circuitous progress on the road of life that has made Confucius brilliant and added weight to Confucius' value and wonderful life. Bridging is actually a better way to open the way for your life.
If Xiang Yu, who struggled to pull out the mountain and commit suicide, didn't commit suicide on Wujiang River because he didn't see his father in Jiangdong, Wujiang River wouldn't have endless tears when he cleaned up the old mountains and rivers another day. If Sanmao didn't say goodbye to Jose's death, but took up the burden of memories and let love support the belief of life, there would be no pain of parents falling apart.
The breeze shines on the moon, and the frost moon lifts off. The moon is a spiritual wind chime hanging in the window of people's hearts, which awakens our dull thinking with the sound of nature, so many people walk around a beautiful avenue with gorgeous osmanthus floating on the moon.
The wisdom of detours has made many people jump out of the moving waltz gracefully and smartly on the stage of life!
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Example 3
Let the heart turn a corner
Chen Tao is in Class 38, Grade 3.
Life is a journey to success. In order to realize their dreams as soon as possible, people are scrambling to choose recognized "shortcuts". However, when we find this road crowded and difficult to walk, can we change our direction in time and let our hearts turn?
Turning one's heart is a kind of wisdom and a maverick vision. In the past, King Huai met with the general and said, "The first king broke the Qin Dynasty and entered Xianyang." Xiang Yu has a great ambition in his heart: to kill in Xianyang. In this way, the city will be indomitable and invincible. However, when I arrived outside Xianyang, I found that Liu Bang had entered the city first. This is Liu Bang's wisdom: in the face of a strong enemy, Liu Bang made a detour, not because of fear, but because he had a bigger goal in mind. Xiang Yu, on the other hand, is dismissive of this "cleverness", which is not in line with his principle of dealing with people. So after Gaixia's defeat, his mind never turned, and finally his blood spilled on the river, leaving a lasting regret.
It is a kind of wisdom to change one's mind, and it is a manifestation of life's tenacity. After being humiliated by the State of Wu, Gou Jian corrected his original shortcomings, worked hard to enrich the country and the people, and finally destroyed the State of Wu. After the failure of the Red Army's counter-campaign against encirclement and suppression, it wisely chose the Long March, preserved its strength, and finally seized power. "A gentleman can bend and stretch". Only by maintaining the resilience of this "gentleman" can we be invincible at the moment of life and death choice.
Once you change your mind, you won't get tired of this world and find your own peach blossom garden in time. Unfortunately, Qu Yuan didn't understand this. He has no selfish distractions, and he is devoted to his country. I admire his ambition and his personality, but at that time, who could understand him?
Qu Yuan didn't let his heart turn a corner. Finally, his ambition sank with him to the bottom of Guluo River and gave a faint moan. Imagine if Qu Yuan, like Tao Qian, realized the present situation of his official career, reversed his mentality and cultivated his spiritual world.
In history, the poem "Life is a hero and death is a hero" is rippling, but there are also some regrets. White shirts are faintly visible on the riverside, drifting with the wind.
In the journey of life, there is not only one road to success. When this road is blocked, why not take a detour and let our hearts turn a corner?
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Example 4
Circuitous wisdom
Zhang Xiaotai, Class 35, Senior High School
One's life is an extraordinary journey. A seemingly short journey is often full of thorns, and a seemingly long journey is often smooth. Facing the choice of life path, we should understand that the line segment between two points is not necessarily the shortest. It is wisdom to find your own direction and take fewer detours.
"Bamboo poles and sandals are lighter than horses. Who's scared? Su Shi's indifference and broadmindedness make people impressed. Su Shi was demoted, but we can't see any decadent mood. He was unhappy in officialdom, found his own position, and bypassed the troubles of officialdom. As the hope of Meizhou's elder, bearing in mind the entrustment of Hainan people, and with the heroic spirit of the article, I will go all the way through the Millennium time and space.
"One day, I will ride the wind and waves, and set my cloudy sail straight and bridge the deep, deep sea." Li Bai's confidence is admirable. He didn't feel depressed after his career was frustrated. With that confidence, he found his own direction, abandoned his helplessness to the world, took wine as his pleasure, took songs as his friends, and finally achieved his eternal romantic feelings.
Taking a detour is not a blind act, but a choice made on the premise of finding the right direction; Taking a detour is not to avoid difficulties, it is a reason to find a new path at the end of the road. It is a kind of wisdom to make a detour. On the contrary, if you don't know how to be flexible, the consequences will be unimaginable.
Yue Fei, his broad backbone of the Central Plains, carries the ambition of serving the country faithfully. However, for the treacherous court official of the bad king, the road to serving the country is tortuous and dangerous. If there is no way to serve the country, why not throw away that burden? Whom you are loyal to will decide your life and death. The plot came out, and twelve gold medals and twelve Hargreaves were awarded in the Imperial Capital to capture Zhongliang. You are full of regret, you are full of blood, but you are inevitably killed. You, lack the wisdom to make a detour.
The heavy history tells us that it is doomed to be a tragedy if we can't find our own position and lack the wisdom to take detours. Bypass is not a passive life, but a rational flexibility.
Choose carefully before choosing multiple-choice questions in life. At the end of the road, find the right direction and make a detour.
Asking for help is also wisdom. When I was six years old, my father took me to have a picnic on the beach by the sea.
After we collected a lot of shrimp shells washed by the waves on the beach, my father sat where there were two big stones and began to clean up those shrimp shells. After cleaning, he can build a stove to make a fire.
It takes at least three big stones to build a stove. Obviously, two here are not enough. My father pointed to a stone more than ten meters away and said, "Move it quickly!" "
I was ordered to go there. The stone looks small, but nearly half of it is trapped in the sand, so the weight is far beyond visual inspection. I tried my best to move it, and it only loosened a little. Then I let go because I didn't have enough strength and watched it sink back into the pit helplessly.
I tried for a long time, but failed every time! My father came up to me and asked, "Why don't you try your best?"
I said I had tried my best, but I still couldn't move it. As I spoke, I kept trying to move the stone to prove to my father that his suspicion of me was wrong!
"No, you didn't try your best! If you go all out, I believe that with the strength of the two of us, it is enough to move this stone! " With that, my father came over and carried the stone to the pot with me. Although my father put his hands in the middle of the stone and bent down as much as possible, my hands could reach it.
After putting down the stone, my father patted the dust on his hand and said, "Remember, all your efforts refer not only to all the strength in your own arms, but also to your brain power and even to asking others for help!" Father said.
"However, the strength of others comes from others, how can it be regarded as my strength?" I asked, puzzled.
"You're right! But when you face something you can't do, asking for help is also a kind of power that belongs to you! " Father said.
Decades have passed, and my father's words are clearly preserved in my memory and have always had a vital impact on my life.
Many times, when I share my father's words with others, many people think that my father is advocating a bad dependence on others. In fact, it is because they don't really understand the most crucial point in his words: try your best first, and only when you can't do it yourself can asking for help be regarded as our real strength.
Calm is also a kind of wisdom. Once upon a time, there was a poor and stupid man who suddenly became rich overnight. But he doesn't know what to do with the money.
He complained to a monk, who enlightened him and said, "You have always been poor and have no wisdom. Now rich, not poor, but still no wisdom. I suggest you go to the city, where there are many people with great wisdom. You pay one hundred and twenty pieces of silver, and I will teach you the method of wisdom. "
The man went into town and asked everyone where he could buy wisdom.
A philosopher told him, "If you encounter a difficult thing, don't rush to deal with it. You can take seven steps forward and then seven steps back.". Advance and retreat three times, and wisdom comes. "
"'wisdom' is that simple?" This man is skeptical about this.
When I came home that night, I pushed the door and entered the house. In the dark, I found my wife sleeping with someone. I suddenly got angry, so I pulled out my knife and cut it.
This is, he suddenly remembered the wisdom of buying during the day and thought: Why not try?
So he took seven steps forward, seven steps back and seven steps forward. Then, when he turned on the light and looked again, he found that the person sleeping with his wife was his mother.
Comments:
? Calm is also a kind of wisdom.
? Controlling anger requires calmness, and thinking also requires calmness. If you are hot-headed, you will easily lose your mind and be impulsive. Sometimes you get angry when you are hot, and if you let your temper go, you will put your life in a regretless situation.
Writing: about 500 words, at least two examples from ancient and modern China and foreign countries, argumentative essays, such as the title, thank Mencius for saying: "Fish, what I want, bear's paw, what I want, can't have both, and those who give up fish and take bear's paw are also; Life is what I want, and righteousness is what I want. You can't have both. Those who give up their lives for righteousness are also. " Mencius explained from the perspective of weighing that only by learning to give up can we gain something. At all times and in all countries, how many celebrities know how to give up and can give up, so as to shine in history. Zhaojun gave up luxurious food and embarked on the road of the western regions with yellow sand all over the sky, but it was praised by the world and future generations. Li Bai gave up his wealth, but maintained the integrity of "being flexible and being honest with others"; Gou Jian, the King of Yue, gave up his temporary dignity and endured humiliation, but regained the world. Sima Qian gave up his dignity and wrote a magnificent epic Historical Records with strong grief and indignation. Qian Xuesen gave up his generous treatment in the United States and resolutely returned to China to become the father of "two bombs and one satellite"; Former German Chancellor Brandt gave up the post of Prime Minister, fell on his knees and made atonement for Nazi Germany's crimes, and finally won the praise of people all over the world. In life, we find that many people hurt themselves deeply because their brains are too messy, their load is too heavy, their troubles are too dull, and they are tempted by too many things. They don't understand that giving up is a philosophy of life, a skill, an attitude and a realm. If you want to be happy and achieve something in your career, you can't let too many things tempt you, too many troubles accumulate in your heart, and you can't let your efforts spread. You should simplify your life and give up your life and some inner greed and desires. Give up meaningless entertainment, unnecessary busy pressure and easy-to-get ill-gotten wealth, and your body will be more free; Give up stale friendship, failed love and broken marriage, and your mind will be more free; Give up personnel disputes and intrigue, and the spirit will be more free. Only by giving up weeds and pests in Yuan Ye can we get something that really suits us. Giving up is a breakthrough in spiritual barriers and a clean-up and burden reduction of life bags. Throw away those burdens that are not worth taking away, unload those burdens that drag you down, smash those shackles that bind you, and go into battle lightly, so that the journey of life will be more enjoyable, you will climb higher and go further, you will see more and more beautiful life scenery, and you will realize your life value in your contribution to the people and society. Learning to give up is not about not seeking progress, not pursuing, and treating life with a passive attitude, but simplifying life. To simplify life, we must first keep our minds simple, and don't let too many desires and distractions drag us on the road, don't struggle in the net of material desires, and don't let too much vanity keep twitching at the top of life. In short, indifferent to fame and fortune, quiet and far-reaching
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-this is also a kind of wisdom. It is also a kind of wisdom to adhere to the 800-word semi-proposition composition.
The little snail stood on the dam, and the sun shone on her happy face without any cover. ...
In the vast desert, a small snail stood at the bottom of the pyramid opposite an oasis. The little snail looked up, but he couldn't see the top of the tower. He wanted to back down and took two steps back. At this time, grandma's words echoed in the snail's ear: "There are only two kinds of animals that can reach the top of the pyramid, one is the eagle and the other is our snail." Snail, as long as you climb up, one day you will stand on the top of the tower. "This is, a * * * interrupted the little snail's thoughts. Uncle Tuo went to the cow and said," Little snail, what are you doing here? Why don't you go home? "I, I, I want to go to the top of the pyramid." Tower top? All I know is that eagles can fly to the top of the golden pagoda. It is said that the life span of an eagle is 70 years. In order to live like an eagle for the next 30 years, he tried to transform himself at the age of 40, which required perseverance.
I suggest you go home. The snail thanked him, but instead of going home, he decided to reach the top of the tower like an eagle.
The little snail climbed to the top of the tower step by step, and I don't know how many days and nights he walked. Sometimes the yellow sand is all over the sky, and the little snail can't open his eyes. He just kept climbing and knew it was the tower above. Sometimes he is proud of the sun, and his "house" feels wobbly on the back of the hut cow. He didn't stop, but still climbed up. He knew that victory was just above. As night fell, a chill came, and the little snail remembered her grandmother's words again: "As long as you keep climbing, you will stand at the top of the tower one day." A warm current urged him to move on.
When the eagle flew past him easily, he knew that he could neither run nor jump, let alone fly. How he wishes he were an eagle, but he is not.
Finally, the little snail climbed about five steps away from the top of the tower. He saw the top of the tower. The eagle hovered over the top of the tower, but the little snail had no strength at this time. He felt nothing around him, as silent as death. He can hear his heartbeat clearly, and he may have been in heaven. At this time, a "wake up" the little snail. When he opened his eyes, he saw the eagle still hovering over the top of the tower. The little snail climbed to the top of the tower from nowhere, one step, two steps and three steps, leaving a long flashing "ribbon" behind him, extending to the bottom of the tower.
Finally, the little snail stood at the top of the tower, and the sun shone on his happy face without any cover.
The little snail closed his eyes and saw grandma's hopeful eyes, from which he read a kind of wisdom called persistence.
Growing up, we were taught how to work hard, how to persist and how to never give up. In fact, many times, we need to learn to give up.
The stream gave up its flatness in order to return to the sea of heroes; Yellow leaves give up the trunk in order to look forward to lush spring. Candle gave up its perfect body in order to have a bright world; Only by giving up the noise of ordinary people can there be peace. If you want to get the fragrance of wild flowers, you must give up the comfort of the city; If you want to get permanent applause, you must give up your vanity. Give up roses, and roses; Give up the stream and the sea. Give up a tree? And the whole forest; Give up the uninhibited gallop in Yuan Ye and the complacency of riding slowly. Life is a choice, giving up is an art of choice and a compulsory course in life. Without giving up boldly, there will be no brilliant choice. Instead of struggling, it is better to wave your hand smartly and choose to give up bravely.
Goethe said: "The whole mystery of life lies in giving up survival in order to survive."
It is choice, giving up is the art of choice, and it is a compulsory course in life. Without giving up boldly, there will be no brilliant choice. Instead of struggling, it is better to wave your hand smartly and choose to give up bravely. Giving up is not waking up from a nightmare, it is not snowing in June, it is not indecisive, and it is not giving up, but it is a leisurely indifference. Giving up is a spiritual awakening and a manifestation of wisdom, just like being released into the forest and water. Being good at giving up is also a kind of wisdom. Text: Life is a difficult voyage, and it will never be smooth sailing. When you have to give up, give up decisively. Only by letting go can we go far! Give up before you can pursue anything.
People who don't want to give up anything will lose the most precious thing. When I stood on the ruins of the Colosseum in ancient Rome, I suddenly felt that all the power disputes and gold powder luxury in the world were just passing by. Romantic love will always be blown away by the wind and rain, so why bother about things outside and boring things in life? Only by giving up those minor, trivial and unrealistic things decisively will your world be sunny and suddenly enlightened, and you will understand the true meaning of "a small house is too small and a big house is too big to bear".
When all the dust settles and everything is calm, we will really know that giving up is actually a beautiful harvest.
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