Cicadas struggle to shed their shells before they can freely sing the blue sky; The gecko broke free from its injured tail and saved its life in an emergency. When the abacus is full, it loses its computing power. Learning to give up is a kind of wealth. Tao Yuanming gave up his official position because he didn't bend over for five buckets of rice, so he got the leisure ambition of "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely" and won an eternal reputation; Li Bai gave up worldly wealth because of the spirit of "going out with a smile, we are not Artemisia" and gained the freedom of "riding to you when I need you, Dashan" and became a great poet. Yang Zhenning, who won the Nobel Prize in Physics, worked hard all his life. Influenced by "physics is an experimental science" in Europe, he studied physics with physicist Dr. Taylor. He always wanted to write an experimental paper, but he couldn't find a good one. People once laughed at him. Yang Zhenning also realized that his hands-on ability was worse than others.
Later, under the guidance of Dr. Taylor, Yang Zhenning resolutely gave up his favorite laboratory and turned to research in the field of physical theory, eventually becoming an outstanding Nobel Prize winner.
Ding Junhui's success in the international arena is due to a choice he made in junior high school. At that time, he loved billiards very much and showed some talents. But the traditional idea is that "everything is inferior, and only reading is high." His academic performance is poor and he doesn't know how to choose. After consulting with his father, he resolutely gave up his further study and specialized in Grammy, and finally won the Open and World Championships for many times, and was known as the "Star of the East". All this stems from his good at giving up, letting go of his worries, making brave choices and finally succeeding.
There is such a true story. In Madagascar, a group of naughty monkeys often steal peanuts and glutinous rice harvested by people. People here have figured out a way to put peanut candy in a bottleneck bottle. Seeing the delicious mouth of the bottle, the monkeys reached in and grabbed a handful of peanut candy, only to find that their hands could not come out. Until people catch it, it still doesn't want to give up candy, and it won't give up at the right time, so that the clever monkey falls into people's hands.
Just like you are wearing clothes, shoes and socks and carrying a burden on a wet ridge, your heart will beat faster, your legs will tremble and the burden will not increase. It's not that you can't bear the burden, but that you worry about falling, getting dirty and worrying too much. When you take off your clothes, shoes and socks, you will come out soon, and giving up at the right time will make you successful.
The abandonment of cicada makes it free, the abandonment of gecko makes it regain its life, the abandonment of abacus makes it valuable, and the correct abandonment will lead you to the other side of success.
Of course, not all giving up will make you successful, and the wrong giving up will only make you farther and farther away from the right path. Giving up a compass correctly will guide you in the direction of navigation. How to give up correctly is really a big problem in life, and you need to study hard!
Two hearts and one heart.
Lin Qingxuan said in his Bodhi of the Heart: "We should blossom wholeheartedly and prove our existence with the gesture of flowers." I think, yes! In life, we should do things wholeheartedly, concentrate our thoughts and have no distractions, so the result is often satisfied. Actually, we feel the same way. Standing on the muddy field, those wet shoes make it difficult for us to stand up straight. When we took off our shoes, rolled up our trouser legs and returned to that land, you suddenly felt a sense of stability. Every nerve on your foot is in the soil, stuck in the soil, and has a solid foundation like a tree. Therefore, every step of your life is so solid, step by step. Therefore, you have no burden, you are no longer afraid of slipping, and you are very focused and practical when walking. Finally, when you cross that muddy land, you feel a kind of success, and this success comes from your single-minded and undivided state.
Xunzi said, "Earthworms eat dirt and drink yellow mud, while crabs kneel six times and squat twice. It's not that the snake hole has no sustenance, but it's also impetuous. " We should concentrate like earthworms. So, first of all, be quiet. Only in silence can we hold our breath, have a noble spirit, treat one thing wholeheartedly and forget ourselves wholeheartedly. Just like a beautiful spring, a fallen leaf falls on it and the water rises and falls, but the depths of spring are quiet and static, which also shows that no matter how the outside world changes, we must always have a calm heart in order to make a difference and persist. Secondly, we should put aside all distractions. No matter how beautiful and ugly the outside world is, we can't lose our rhythm. We should let go of all unnecessary worries, do our own things with peace of mind, and not be irritable or eager for quick success, otherwise the result will often be very bad.
Only in selflessness can one thing be more complete, and only in selflessness can everything become natural. Self-forgetting can make us focus, and focus can make us more focused. The complexity of the world makes us a little uneasy and anxious. Why don't you learn from Tao Yuanming and have the calmness of "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely"? Why not learn from Wang Guowei and enter the realm of "cultivating oneself with inner beauty"? With this mentality, you will have such thoughts and cognition, and because you have risen to the whole life, you will be able to
Master Yan Zhengda said: "Every heart is a heart. As long as you hold a heart, the foothold is Lingshan. " Only by sticking to one heart can we gain great wisdom in life, just like carrying a burden on a muddy road, forgetting your clothes and forgetting that you will fall. Then, what you get is to cross this land and walk to the other side. At the same time, I realized the true meaning of life.
Wholeheartedly, selflessly, excluding all other thoughts, this is what we want in the future and the highest realm of life. As long as there is Gog's realm of life, it is possible to have noble conduct and sentiment. Similarly, there may be such behavior in silence, stability and sinking. Because people are quiet, just like a flood, they can accommodate everything and can be accommodated by everything. They can be flexible, flexible and rigid. Because people are stable, indestructible like rocks, and don't go with the flow.
Therefore, to treat everything in life wholeheartedly can be the best and most beautiful!
Article 3 Achievement and Personality
A person's achievements are related to all kinds of things, not necessarily to his personality. A person's achievements are related to his personality. ZhangJike's personality is distinct, he pursues fashion, his words are amazing, he is defiant and his personality is flamboyant. These characters make him passionate and domineering on the field, and turn the tide in key games and achieve impressive results. It is because of his character that he has achieved such achievements.
Eggs, the size of a person's achievements is not necessarily related to his personality. If personality determines the size of achievement, then ZhangJike, who has made great achievements because of ZhangJike's unruly personality, should have made great achievements. However, the fact is that China table tennis team lost many games in the foreign "war" in 2008, and missed the double grand slam of Rio Olympic Games. His admirable personality has not brought him great achievements. Instead, it brought her anxiety and failure.
A person's personality will have an impact on her achievements. This influence is twofold.
Because of his defiant personality, and because of his fierce and domineering personality, ZhangJike has strong self-confidence and confidence in himself. She is bloody and confident, so she has the courage to fight hard to turn the tide, and then complete her personal grand slam in a short time and achieve impressive results. However, because of her unruly and domineering, she has been in recent years.
It's good to have personality, but extreme personality will only make people sick.
Many parents in society think they have their own personality and fashion. They pursue fashion, are self-righteous, talk big, but do nothing. On the contrary, because I want to prove my personality, I have caused bad influence and harm to others. For example, ZhangJike, a social teenager who is only 12 but has been smoking and drinking with adults, kicks billboards.
However, personality can also improve people's self-esteem, which leads to the improvement of self-confidence and the display of personal charm. In order to set an example image, confident people will set an example for people with inferiority. On the contrary, they will strive to be such a person, chasing the direction of that person, and they will become such confident people. Because of his personality, ZhangJike will be so eternal and achieve impressive results, which is admirable.
A person's achievements have practice with his personality, and his personality will affect his behavior, mode of action and even the future. Therefore, we should carry forward our personality, but we should also be good at ourselves on this basis and not have a bad influence on society.