Happiness may be created at any time in this life, who knows? -inscription
Sitting by the window drinking tea and reading a newspaper, I saw a message: a high school girl jumped off a building for love, and the next day, her boyfriend jumped off the bridge and committed suicide.
At this time, a small wasp flew in from the window, circled indoors twice, and then returned to the original window, but could not fly out.
The poor little wasp didn't know there was such a thing as "glass" in the world, but when she saw the mountain outside, she couldn't fly out and knocked on the window.
After a while, it stopped at the window and paced, as if thinking for a long time. Suddenly, the little wasp flew, circled, flew out from the gap in the screen window it broke into and disappeared into the air.
The behavior of the little wasp surprised me. It turns out that classic bees can think. When there is no way out, it will look back for a way out.
In contrast, people's obsession confuses me.
For men and women in love, is it like a small wasp, breaking into a house, trying to fly out but unable to find the intersection? Is it the emotional glass between people and life that makes us despair? The scenery seen through the glass is the same as that without glass, but why not go out?
In such a desperate situation, why don't people return to their original positions like wasps and wander around the room looking for the exit of life?
Are people more impulsive emotionally than wasps?
Is it because people's structure is more precise, so they lose their simple thinking like a wasp?
Is a little wasp cherishing life more than people?
I can't answer these questions. I only know that people should know how to meditate and think calmly in desperation. When life can't find a way out, we should take a step back and take care of the overall situation. Or when you meditate and take care of yourself, the way out of life will appear.
Yesterday, when we were young and emotionally frustrated, we all wanted to end our lives to solve all the pains and entanglements.
But looking back today, there is no reason to die, because the development of feelings is just one process after another, which is the disillusionment of marriage. When love is frustrated, it will commit suicide, and the human beings in this world have long been extinct.
Besides, life or death, the world will not change, and feelings will not get deeper. On the contrary, it would be a pity to lose the vitality of re-creation and development.
Just like a wasp flying down from the mountain, what would happen to the mountain if it just hit the glass and died? Now it flies away, and the whole mountain forest is his. It can fly or not, dance or not ... It can have many choices in life, and each choice is more vivid and interesting than death!
First, people who have failed emotionally and are not dead may find deeper feelings.
Second, people who are frustrated but not dead may find a happier life.
Many people who have suffered emotionally, if they have experienced it, will certainly be able to touch the spiritual depth more.
I think so, but I don't condemn those double-hearted people, just feel sorry that they cut off all the possibilities of happiness themselves.
There is a deep blessing in my heart, wishing for an afterlife, which can stop their infatuation.
Alas, happiness may be created at any time in this life, who knows?