Everyone wants to rely on, especially relatives, lovers and friends; Everyone wants to learn to use it, especially friends, colleagues, bosses and even enthusiasts who have nothing to do with themselves.
Everyone needs to rely on it. Life without dependence is numb, empty and collapsed. Not relying on others will only keep you away from your partner and those who may become friends, and make you feel lonely and arrogant. Everyone needs help, too Life is dull, rough and boring without help. Without help, you will only make yourself more tired and bitter, and no matter how much time you spend, you can't complete the ideal realm that you or others expect.
If you rely on it for a long time, your body will never stand up straight, you will never have the confidence to speak, and you will get farther and farther away from success; With more help, you will straighten up, your words will reveal courage and self-confidence, and you will get closer and closer to your dream. Without long-term support, who wants others to rely on him for a lifetime? However, with a long-term help, I have improved myself and promoted others.
Smart people do not rely on others, but rely on the strength of others to achieve their own success; People who are not smart always want to rely on others, thus forgetting how to use others. The final result is naturally frustration and helplessness.
We must not let dependence become a habit. It becomes dependence and attachment. Once this happens, the goal of life will lose its aura and the course of life will change accordingly. However, using the platform created by others is the only way to succeed. The ancients said, "When you are in a threesome, there must be a teacher." With the help of other people's abilities and wisdom, you will get twice the result with half the effort.
Hard-working people rule people, and hard-working people rule people. Smart people are good at turning dependence into assistance, while unintelligent people only turn assistance into dependence. Those who are good at turning dependence into assistance will become the leaders of life and pioneers of the times, while those who are not good at turning dependence into assistance, or even those who turn assistance into dependence, will only depend on others and obey them, and will never become a real life leader, and will always be a soldier.
When you are alive, you will encounter all kinds of choices. When you can't face it, you may want to rely on the strength of others to get some help. In fact, at this time, others are like "light railings", and you can't count on them. You need to deal with what is in front of you to make a decision. You can rely on others, their experience, their suggestions, comprehensive ideas, weigh the pros and cons, and make appropriate decisions and their handling methods.
When you want to rely on others, others want to rely on you. You should not rely on them to reach the height you want to reach and see the scenery you want to see. You must give up dependence and then change the status quo with your own efforts. You should let others depend on you, not on you. It is enough to guide them to understand, without giving them too much help, otherwise it will only become a burden to you, you will feel bored, and he himself is not sure about the direction.
Rely on others moderately, rely more on yourself, and with the help of others, you can stand higher and see farther. Life will be more exciting!