Attitude towards life Someone once said that a person's success depends on his attitude towards life. All successful people always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking and optimistic spirit. Losers, on the other hand, fail because of their attitudes towards life: attitudes towards life, others and things. On the attitude towards life, Mr. Liang Shuming once had a very incisive exposition. He divided his attitude towards life into three types: pursuit, dislike of leaving and seriousness. Pursuit is the pursuit of material things, such as diet, banquet, reputation, sound, color, goods, profit and so on. This is no different from other creatures, tempted by fun and stimulated by problems. This attitude is the life attitude of most people. The second attitude towards life is "aversion to separation". Because people have animal nature, but after all, they are higher than ordinary animals, so they often reflect on themselves, look back on the past and find many pains in life. On the one hand, I bear a lot of desires, on the other hand, I find the ugliness, cruelty and ruthlessness in the world, so I will have a world-weary attitude, which everyone will have, but to varying degrees. The serious attitude towards life can be divided into two layers, one is the innocence of children, the inherent serious attitude towards life, that is, the attitude of letting nature take its course, and the other is the attitude of "consciously listening to the natural popularity of their lives and seeking their natural and reasonable ears", that is, positive, enterprising and single-minded. Liang Shuming's "three attitudes" summarize people's attitudes towards materials, themselves and others. To survive in the world, people must deal with three relationships: understanding and evaluating the world, others and themselves. Attitude not only determines behavior, but also determines the happiness of life. There are many sources of happiness, and material satisfaction is one of them, which is universally pursued. However, the happiness brought by material things is very unreal. These two enemies will easily deprive happiness. One is dissatisfaction. Endless desire devours the joy of success, and they can't feel any happiness in their constant pursuit. The material is extremely rich, but the spirit is a desert. Second, boredom, the happiness brought by material life will disappear bit by bit with time until it is empty. Although material satisfaction is not so lasting, it is still a real sensory stimulus, and what is more false than material is the evaluation of others. In fact, reputation is very important, not so important to a person. You can choose to live for others, always care about others' comments, or you can choose to live for yourself. There is no need to completely tie yourself down and judge yourself by other people's standards. From this perspective, material satisfaction and other people's evaluation are very important, but not the most reliable. Material acquisition is limited, because people's ability is limited; The evaluation of others is infinite, because we can't control others. Material and reputation are beyond our control, but our own understanding and evaluation can be mastered by ourselves. You can decide your attitude towards life, choose your own path, evaluate your gains and losses, and experience your happiness. I often hear people complain that it is difficult to be a man, because people always have to get along with others and do things. There are bad people who do good things, good people who do bad things, and those who don't do things will be scolded. In this case, you can do your own thing and become what you want to be. I often miss my childhood. For many people, childhood is happy. There was not much demand for material things at that time. It is fun to eat rice and play with mud. At that time, I didn't care about other people's comments, I was naive and honest, and my children's words were unscrupulous; At that time, there was no confusion of study, no worries of work, no burden of family and no pressure of society. This is Mr. Liang's solemn attitude towards life, the solemnity of nature. What I can do, and what I hope to do, is to be cash-strapped but energetic; Externally poor, but internally rich; The road is tortuous, but the future is bright; Life is simple, but it is extremely happy.