Students, do you know the story that Pang Juan, who was jealous of Sun Bin, was killed in the Battle of Maling and laughed at the world? Do you know that Zhou Yu in Romance of the Three Kingdoms was angry alive because he was jealous of Zhuge Liang? Zhuge Liang's plan was very clever. Do you know that Wang Lun, a scholar in white in Water Margin, can't tolerate a better person than himself dying by Lin Chong's sword?
Indeed, all jealous people start by hurting others and end up hurting themselves. This sentence is very applicable to both ancient people and modern people. Not long ago, I saw a report explaining this truth.
The report is like this: there is a student named Tang Jun in a university in Shandong. His grades have always been excellent, and he is the best in his studies. Just when he was on cloud nine, others had quietly caught up with him. At this time, he should be eager to catch up. Unfortunately, he didn't wake up, but he became more and more jealous and couldn't tolerate others surpassing himself. An evil idea germinated in my mind, and I decided to "revenge" others and prevent them from getting good grades. At first he just peeked and stole other people's books. He gloated when others tried to find it. Later, his mind became more and more cranky, even destroying the normal study of others and setting fire to other people's clothes. Finally, it was discovered and sent to court.
Students, I wonder how you feel after hearing this story. My feeling is that if this college student Tang Jun can overcome his jealousy and start a friendly match with others, the outcome will be completely different, don't you think?
I think some students in our class secretly study hard at home before school starts, but pretend to be indifferent to the exam at school. If you don't listen to the teacher in class and interfere with others' lectures, you will learn and won't let others listen. With a little good study materials, I refuse to lend them to others, let alone help my poor classmates. I am afraid that others will be better than him. This is actually a kind of jealousy.
Jealousy can be found everywhere in life. For example, I have a strange feeling when I see that my neighbor's life is getting better and better, but my family always stays at the original level. Seeing that students are learning better and better, they are always praised by teachers and students, and they will have a sour taste in their hearts, and even make personal attacks and frame their own conduct. This "strange feeling" and "sour taste" are jealousy or similar to jealousy.
In fact, if we really value the essence of things rather than the appearance of success, then we don't have to be jealous of the success of people who are not as good as ourselves, because he only exists in name only; We shouldn't be jealous of the success of people who are better than ourselves, because he has real strength. In a word, we need not be jealous.
Students, let's say goodbye to jealousy!
With the crowd, jealousy of this monster always shows its shadow everywhere. It is a very harmful morbid psychology, as Stendhal said: "Jealousy is the first of all evils." Jealousy hurts good people with different faces and postures and hinders the progress of civilization. It is said that Li He, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote more than 1000 poems. His cousin was jealous of his talent and stole Li He's manuscript and "threw it into the toilet". Therefore, there are only more than 240 poems recalled by Li He in Changji Collection handed down from generation to generation, which has become a great tragedy in the history of China literature. If my cousin's name can be handed down, it will stink like a toilet. This kind of thing is state-owned, and there are many examples abroad. Austrian musician Sariri discovered Mozart's musical talent and recommended Mozart to King Joseph II. However, when Mozart's achievements became bigger and bigger, surpassing Surrey's, he framed Mozart and eventually let Mozart die young in poverty and disease. Jealousy not only harms others, but also harms oneself. Psychologically speaking, jealousy is like a poisonous insect, which often gnaws the jealous person's own mind to pieces. They often regard the success of others as their own failure and the happiness of others as their own pain. They are in a very uncomfortable and uneasy situation all day, and it is difficult to get rid of them. Unjustified hatred is their only psychological activity. What's the fun of this life? What's more, readers are familiar with the story of Three Kingdoms, among which Zhou Yu is jealous. Although this extreme is rare, it is true that jealousy hurts the body. As for the bad behaviors such as spreading rumors, framing and cracking down because of jealousy, it is more likely to violate the criminal law. Isn't the ending very sad? Jealousy is a chronic disease, and its root comes from the selfish thoughts of small producers. Generally speaking, people with this idea are narrow-minded and shallow-minded. They can neither treat others fairly nor treat themselves objectively. Pay attention to "selfless heart, wide world"! As long as we seek truth from facts and communicate with others without selfishness, jealousy can be cured step by step. (Author Shu Fen has changed) For reference.