I still remember hearing such a story that an old man was worried about his eldest daughter selling umbrellas in sunny days and his youngest daughter selling cloth shoes in rainy days. Everyone knows the truth of this simple story, but are you an old man again in life? Therefore, we blindly emphasize that I want to be happy. Have you ever thought that "happiness" and "sadness" are only between changes? When we look at things optimistically, everything is actually beautiful: even if we miss the last bus home, there is no need to be sad, because there will be the next stop waiting for you. What a happy thing! So, look at things around you with an optimistic eye, and you will find happiness everywhere! On the other hand, life is so fascinating. Feuerbach once said that "life is the noblest of all wealth", but now there is a report of suicide in the overwhelming news. In the face of natural disasters, we instinctively keep a bright life, but in front of a beautiful life, what we see is a flower-like life withering in an instant. Life is so fragile, but so precious, why choose to destroy it?
No matter how difficult it is, the sky has not fallen, and life will continue if we can't get through it. Instead of living in fear, why not enjoy every day with different eyes? When we face setbacks, why not think it is a baptism of experience; When we deal with a life-threatening disease, why not think of it as a life-threatening challenge? Look at life from another angle, it is still a rainbow after the storm! Looking at life from another angle, the beauty of time is the most precious! On the other hand, life is so gorgeous. Some people say that "life is like a play", and the ending is sadness or joy. Some people say that "life is like chess", only by taking every step can we win ... On the tortuous road of life, we have to experience a lot, including sweet smiles and sad tears; Where there is a warm hug, there must be a cold eye. We can't stop others from saying anything, nor can we stop right and wrong, but we can look at and accept it with a beautiful eye.
Perhaps, our life is not perfect, but imperfection is the most beautiful. Maybe our life will experience darkness, but at least we will accept it with a smile. We are not afraid of difficulties, because we have a brave heart and an inclusive vision. In our eyes, life is like a magnificent stage, dancing our miracles to the fullest. Sometimes, it is such power that life will be gorgeous! However, such perseverance needs to be treated in a different way. So, appreciate our life with the most sincere eyes! It is precisely because of different eyes that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise; It is precisely because of his different vision that Zhaojun's departure from the fortress has created a national spirit; It is because of the new vision that everything is as beautiful as ever!
Look at it from another angle.
This winter vacation, I didn't travel abroad, I didn't win the big prize, I didn't fail in the exam, but I will never forget this winter vacation. Because I learned to change my "vision".
I remember it was February 1 1, and the day before the school reported, the school was about to start. I have an appointment with Wu Yinkui and Chen Yili to get together during the busy farming season. The appointment is at half past two. Wu came on time. But we waited for a long time, and we were expecting the doorbell to ring. Chen Yili and I grew up together, but because of her parents' work, she left me in Chengdu. I also write once a year and meet once. That's the day we met. Wu Yinmei is also my good friend. That day, I was just about to introduce Coco to Chen Yili. Wu is looking forward to the new friends I have seen countless times, and to the Alexi Tan I haven't seen for a year. A minute passed in expectation, and I couldn't help looking forward to it. I came to the phone, picked it up and dialed her home. It happened that she answered the phone. I asked angrily:
Chen Yili, we have been waiting for you for a long time. Why haven't you come yet?
Oh, I have something at home, so I can't come today. ...
Hearing this, my tears burst out at once, perhaps because I expected too much and too much. I fell down at once and my tears overflowed. I was impatient and blurted out the word "dear John". At first, I was only sad and didn't consider the consequences at all. On that day, I couldn't calm down in my heart. I felt that what I did was right. She broke her promise and her friendship, but I was rude to her! Until one time on my way to class, I saw two friends on the light rail. They talked and laughed, and gave in to each other because of a seat, and let the old woman and grandpa sit together ... Looking at their joy, I recalled the scene of going out to play with Chen Yili, and I almost cried. I reflected: "On that day, Chen Yili may really have something urgent to come. Friendship is so precious, love is so precious, it's a pity that such a small thing ruined our friendship. In the past, there was a insistence on sticking to his post for a friend who was drowned by the flood and can be tolerated. Can't I forgive Chen Yili? I changed my mind and finally untied the friendship knot!
"Change your eyes" is a kind of tolerance, and it is a key that can open many heart locks! "
Look at it from another angle.
Life is doomed to have too many disappointments. Learn to change your vision, and life will be colorful. There will be many difficulties and incomprehension in learning. Learning to change your eyes will make you more motivated. When I was a child, I would lie on the windowsill and watch the sunset every day. I am always depressed. My brother said, "The sun goes down to better meet the rising of the sun tomorrow." ; Therefore, I think the beginning of life is just to better meet the end of life. My brother said, "You are wrong. Life is endless. The beginning of life is to meet the sunrise every day and make life more colorful. After the end of your life, you can still give yourself to your country. "
Therefore, only by knowing how to look at life in a different way can we face life in a different mood. See difficulties as setbacks and diseases as recovery ... only in this way can life truly belong to it, instead of waiting for sunrise and sunset every day, letting time slip away from pain and complaints ... forgetting to look at it from different angles. Flowers bloom and fall, Yun Qi flies, and many colorful times are missed in a long sigh. It's better to look at it from another angle than gloomily. Since the night has given us black eyes, why not use it to find light and dreams? So, I learned to laugh at clouds and clouds; I learned to save my smile for the future.
Maybe one day, I can also announce loudly that although there is no trace of me in the sky, I have spread my wings and flown.
Look at it from another angle.
Life is often colorful. From another perspective, life will present another kind of beauty.
There is only one answer to a math problem, but there are countless ways to solve it. This is all because of "the change of vision". We can't just look at the surface of things and ignore their surroundings. From another angle, you can get a new experience; From another angle, we can find novelty from the plain. I remember a poem by Su Shi, "Looking from the side of the ridge, it becomes a peak, and the distance is different". It is enough to show that "changing eyes" is a unique gesture of finding things.
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I once complained about the continuous and intermittent spring rain, but I forgot the grass sprouting outside the window and the peach blossoms in bud, and forgot that "the sound of the curved pipe is fine, and the courtyard swings late at night"; I once cursed the heat wave and unbearable summer inflammation, but forgot the scented tea I had soaked. When I was playing in Shui Piao, I forgot that "the crystal curtains fluttered in the breeze and the roses were fragrant"; Autumn scenery, once sentimental and mottled, was desolate everywhere, but forgot the chrysanthemum shadow standing still in front of the window, the grass wave undulating with the wind, and forgot that "the autumn wind has nowhere to sleep, and the leaves are bright everywhere"; I once sighed for the endless glittering winter snow, but forgot the snowman I made, the poem I wrote, and "the shore is waiting for the wax pine willow, and the mountain is catching the cold and wanting to open plums."
Life is doomed to have too many disappointments. Learn to change your vision, and life will be colorful. There will be many difficulties and incomprehension in learning. Learning to change your eyes will make you more motivated.
Look at it from another angle.
Beauty, from the outside or from the inside?
I still don't quite understand this question. A good friend of mine, Qing, recently developed pimples on her face and blackheads on her nose. Coupled with her two bags under the eyes, it really ruined her original image of white skin. When people see her, they will avoid her and think that she is too ugly and pollutes their eyes. What's more, she laughed and insulted her face.
Everywhere she went, people seemed to look at her with strange eyes, and she felt very inferior. "The world is so big, there is no place for me?" She feels that her existence is a redundancy.
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Beauty, from the outside or from the inside?
I still don't quite understand this question. A good friend of mine, Qing, recently developed pimples on her face and blackheads on her nose. Coupled with her two bags under the eyes, it really ruined her original image of white skin. When people see her, they will avoid her and think that she is too ugly and pollutes their eyes. What's more, she laughed and insulted her face. Everywhere she went, people seemed to look at her with strange eyes, and she felt very inferior. "The world is so big, there is no place for me?" She feels that her existence is a redundancy.
Faced with the plight of my good friend, I can't help but get lost in thought. Can beauty only be captured with the naked eye? I don't think so. "Inner beauty is the real beauty." I think most people understand this truth, but why do so many people discriminate against ugly people? Is it true that the external beauty in weighing scale is more or less greater than the internal beauty?
In this regard, I think people must look at the problem from different angles. The world is big, everyone has his own face, handsome or beautiful, ugly or plain. Even multiple births have different faces. With so many faces, there will be beauty and ugliness after comparison. But the most important thing for a person is not his appearance, but his heart. The temperament and fragrance emitted from the inside out are the yardstick to measure beauty and ugliness. Therefore, when we see a stranger, we should not judge him by his appearance, but observe and discover him from his behavior, movements and manners. We should not only be confused by appearances, but also dig deep into inner virtues. No matter how beautiful it is, it is just a decoration. Even if you decorate it beautifully and luxuriously, your inner emptiness will overwhelm your decoration. But there is a fiery and shining heart buried under the ugly appearance, so this kind of beauty will stand the test of time, rush out, wash away the disfigurement of the appearance and replace it with an eternal beauty.
Looking at ugliness from another angle, in fact, you will also think that ugliness may be a kind of beauty; Looking at beauty from another angle, in fact, you will also think that beauty may be ugly and insidious.
Looking at the problem from another angle, you will get more information, understand the material itself from many aspects, and truly understand beauty and ugliness.
Look at it from another angle.
The world is honest and fair, and everyone has a unique "small universe" in his eyes. Different people find different colors in their own "small universe" and interpret their own lives.
Hot sun, desert. Two thirsty and tired travelers took out their only kettle and shook it. A traveler said, "oh, too bad, we only have half a pot of water left!" Another traveler said happily? Quot is it? Fortunately, we still have half a pot of water! " In fact, many things in life are like that half pot of water. From another angle, you will have different moods and different answers.
Edison made 1000 experiments to find suitable materials for filament. When someone laughed at his failure, he proudly said, "I found that a thousand materials are not suitable for filament!" " "This kind of mind, this kind of tolerance, this kind of wisdom, is really amazing. And all this is not because of Edison's unique thinking angle?
On the other hand, we should have the courage and originality to overthrow prejudice. An ordinary apple was cut vertically, but a five-year-old girl stubbornly cut horizontally, so her shining eyes were found in the apple? Quot stars "! This story has touched my heart for a long time and attracted me to think.
Why do children often have the pleasure of discovery? Why is the world in children's eyes always so fresh and interesting? I think it is because of children's "ignorance" that they have unique insight and courage and enthusiasm to explore the world. Therefore, children are sometimes awesome. Can we get some inspiration from them?
The world is so big, let's open our eyes, feel the ever-changing world with a simple and sentimental heart, breathe quietly and peacefully, and open the prism to observe the world with childlike enthusiasm and curiosity. Multi-angle mottled colors will definitely surprise us: the green leaves washed by the annoying rain will be so fresh; The nameless and tasteless wildflowers and weeds also have their own ordinary vitality and beauty; Frustration in life can also become nutrition for people to grow up; Failure can also be a striking coordinate in the journey of life. ...
In other words, life will show another side.