I was 30 when I got married, and my husband was one year older than me. I am the backbone of a hospital, and my career is booming.
At that time, there were two best friends, one was a child and the other was a college classmate. The three of them often eat together and play around, which makes them very happy. Both of them threatened to become a childless Dink family.
Slowly, I was also infected. I feel that the world between us is really good. I will not be bound by my children. I can do whatever I want. In the future, we can play together.
I discussed it with my husband and told him what I really thought, and he felt quite good. It's too expensive to raise children now, but the key is to raise them well, worry about them and not raise them well. Every day at home, chickens fly and dogs jump, and I also have a lifelong heart and agree with "Dink".
During the pregnancy, the doctor advised me not to have an abortion. At that time, we were determined to carry out "Dink" to the end and insisted on abortion.
I put all my energy into my work, researching topics and writing papers. My husband and I also bought a house in Sanya with extra money, so we can travel in winter.
After work, our family of three still often get together or travel, which is very happy.
Two years later, I suddenly stopped playing and said I was pregnant. I thought, don't I want my children to be idols of the Dink family? She said, actually, I always wanted it. Because the fallopian tube was blocked, I went to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that it was not suitable for pregnancy, so I had to choose the Dink family. Unexpectedly, last month, I stopped menstruating. After the examination, I was pregnant.
Before long, my college classmates got pregnant. She told me that her husband had asthenospermia, and after taking medicine, he was fine now, so he was pregnant. We were forced to dink. If you want one, get one quickly.
I'm completely confused. It turns out that they all chose "Dink" for a reason. My husband and I are both normal, but we follow others like fools and let a child go for nothing.
It hurts to think of it.
At that time, I was 35 years old, and my husband and I discussed that I was going to give birth soon and could not wait any longer. Eating folic acid, eating bird's nest, ovulating every day, taking temperature, husband's exercise, eating scientifically, quitting smoking and drinking are all kinds of eugenic preparations anyway.
It didn't go well at first. One is bitten by a dog and vaccinated against rabies. Contraception for several months, and then my husband accidentally hurt his finger when cutting vegetables, and got tetanus, and we were both speechless.
He is also the head of the department and travels on various business trips. I told him not to go anywhere. Hurry up and have a baby, but what do you need to say about work?
Unconsciously, my age has reached 37, and I may be too stressed to get pregnant. I went to the hospital for examination and found that it was my first pregnancy, and I had an abortion operation, which led to infertility.
Hearing this conclusion, I regretted it. I thought "Dink" was very fashionable. My childhood and college classmates are willing to dink. It turns out that everyone has skeletons in his closet. Now that they have their own children and parents, I blindly follow the trend and hurt myself. # Lesson One #