At present, rational thinking in college students' life design should pay attention to the following relations.
"If there is no will, there is nothing in the world." Throughout ancient and modern times, Chinese and foreign countries, successful people are far-sighted. I am determined to become a famous construction entrepreneur.
So when we write articles, we can't close our eyes and not look at reality. We can't take modern people and Zhuge Liang as examples. Especially in the increasingly severe overall employment situation, the "favored ones" have deeply felt the pressure of employment. As a result, some people's mentality began to be distorted by the noisy job market and became impetuous. In this case, it is easy to lose rational thinking. So life planning should be rational thinking.
A good life is inseparable from good planning, and a successful life is inseparable from successful planning and constant struggle under the guidance of correct planning. Life is like sailing in the sea, and life planning is the basic route of life. With the route, we will not deviate from the goal, and we will not lose our way, so that we can sail to the other side of success more smoothly and quickly. However, with planning, will there be a successful life? Not necessarily.
Anyone can say nice things on it. The question now is: What if we can't find the basic route?
Bernard Shaw has a famous saying: "Reasonable people adapt themselves to the world, while unreasonable people stubbornly try to adapt the world to themselves." It is in this maladjustment that life advances in the long river of adjustment and development.
In every wandering in life, you may be far away from our life coordinates. The problem is that we should learn to create conditions and get close to the goal when we are far away from it. The so-called creating conditions is itself an enterprising, a pursuit, a determination to set goals, and a persistent pursuit.
One's life is long and changeable. The adjustment of national policy, the change of external conditions, the change of family situation and the emergence of unexpected events will make our situation difficult. In the face of difficulties and hardships, we should face life with optimism and openness; Support yourself with perseverance; Occupy the soul with the correct value orientation. Take hardship as a kind of discipline, a kind of accumulation and a kind of maturity.
The ancients said that "sorrow is greater than death in the heart" and "ambition is greater than constant moment". In the face of difficulties and obstacles, as long as the fire in our hearts is not extinguished and our wings are not broken, we will certainly be able to get out of the swamp of life and usher in the sunny day of life.
I remember a song that sang, "Life is beautiful when you have dreams. After several storms and many cycles, it fell out of the iron and hit Korea, and the rolling stone brewed a thunderbolt. " . Let's cherish opportunities, meet challenges, consciously hone in hardships, be a cross-century iron-blooded man, and shake the earth!
Learning and education enable me to engage in human resource management, but it doesn't mean that I got a good job. Today, with the frequent flow of talents, personal job hunting skills are more important. The process of applying for a job is also a process in which a person's ability can only be fully demonstrated. Only by combining ability with practice can the self-worth of life be realized. Although I have the ability to do my job well and have an accurate self-orientation, my lack of job-hunting concept and my lack of understanding of business process operation and the company I am applying for have, to some extent, become the factors that hinder my successful job-hunting, which is the key aspect that needs to be strengthened in the job-hunting preparation stage. Interview is an indispensable link for candidates to enter the enterprise, and it is also a link for job seekers to fully display their value to the enterprise. The effect of interview plays a key role in the whole job hunting process. Fully communicate and understand, show your talents, enhance the concept of job hunting, increase the understanding of candidates, and make the interview more efficient. So I made the following plan for myself:
Short-term goal (July 2006 to July 2008): find a suitable job (technical department of a construction company), with excellent graduation thesis, get bachelor's degree certificate and diploma, and take as many certificates as possible (such as supervision certificate, builder's certificate, ……).
Mid-term goal (July 20, 200813): to become an excellent project manager in the enterprise within five years, and to pass relevant professional qualification certification, and to open a better company on July 20 13.
Long-term goal (July 20 13 to July 2020): to be a generalist (to be a professional project manager).
From this, I can't help feeling a little ashamed when I think of my dribs and drabs over the years. I am not very satisfied with my past performance in my studies, style and club activities. I find that I am lazy. I am always tired and lazy on weekdays. Lack of concentration in study and work, low efficiency and lack of concentration in attitude. If I don't correct it, it will probably lead to my final mediocrity. But fortunately, I still have a chance to improve. Otherwise, won't you regret it all your life?
A book wrote: A person who can't change his fate by his own ability is unfortunate and pitiful, because these people have not taken their fate into their own hands, but have become slaves to it. And how many spring and autumn periods there are in a person's life, and how many things are worth remembering and commemorating. Life is like a blank sheet of paper, waiting for us to describe and write.
Now, as a college student, it is better to seize the time to learn more knowledge to enrich themselves in the days of killing time day by day. A person's college time may only come once in his life. If you don't grasp it well, you will regret it later. So, after some deliberation, I decided to design my future. With a goal, there will be motivation.