1. On the topic of giving up, it takes great wisdom to realize the true meaning of giving up and gaining 800 words.

Things in the world have no fixed owners and no eternal owners. Things have their destiny between choices. It's yours, it's yours after all, and you can't run away; It's no use robbing it if it's not yours.

There is an allusion that a greedy man crossed the river with a bag of gold on his back. When the ship capsized in the bad waves, the boatman advised him to throw away the gold, but he was reluctant to give up his life. In desperation, nothing can be left but yourself. Presumably, this rich man must be a miser-like local tyrant who doesn't know how to give up.

Everything is born with each other. When people think of "getting", they probably won't get it. When people don't want to give up, they may have given up a lot. There are many people who are greedy for money, power and sex in history. In daily life, they seem to get a lot, but in the end they get nothing and don't want to give up, but in the end they even give up their freedom and life. "Give up" and "give up", you can get "get" only by giving up, but you didn't get "get" because you didn't give up. This truth seems simple, and many times it is just not understood.

Giving up is a philosophy of life. Giving up is a skill, an attitude and a realm. Give up first and then get it; Give up first, then get, that is to say, "give up" and "get" are two sides of the same thing, although they are contradictory. Pay and get are equal, you pay first, then you can get. A person can only get it by giving, no matter what kind of giving. This is the true meaning of "willing". You can "give up" before you can "get". Of course, this "harvest" refers more to the enrichment of spirit and the sublimation of realm. There is a mystery between wishes and wishes, and the artistic conception is deep. You can only think and understand by yourself.

Sima Qian gave up human dignity and got historical records. Tao Yuanming gave up "five buckets of rice to bend his back" and got "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely"; Hongyan heroes give up their lives for righteousness and have to be with Qingshan ... Of course, these are big "homes" and big "harvests". Although the mountain is high, the heart yearns for it, which is beyond the reach of ordinary people.

"Giving up" and "getting" can be said to be a transaction, a left-handed to right-handed transaction, which is fair. How to "give up" and "get"? Value and non-value lie in the equivalence in people's minds. Different people have different peers, and the same person has different peers at different times. Old people often say that when we were young, we gave up our knees and family reunion for our studies and careers. We think it's worth it, because we got our studies and careers. But when one day we never have the chance to enjoy ourselves and make up for what we owe our families, many people will question the original choice: Is it worth it? For many years, people have been in such a strange circle, constantly reincarnation.

Mozi said that poverty is benevolence and wealth is righteousness. No matter how rich people are, they eat three meals a day and sleep in a bed at night. Don't expect to have everything. Especially in terms of material things, being willing to give up means having money. It is not a person who has a lot to be rich, but a person who gives a lot to others to be rich. Giving up is a kind of happiness in itself. A poor man is a rich man when he gives his food to his companion. It is because of poverty that his contribution is more meaningful. Because it reflects his mind, unlike Balzac's Grandet, who was so poor that only gold was left, his family and everything in the world gave up, which was pitiful enough.

Life needs to be willing and willing to enrich life.

2. A 900-word composition titled "Give up" Some people say that the purpose of giving up is to get.

Just like this, everything in the world has to be given up, but you can't have both. From black hair to silver silk, I gave up the complacency of young people and got the courage of old age; From ling cold driving alone to bits and pieces grinding into dust, I gave up the proud shadow of exclusive prosperity and got the legendary story told through the ages. From the height of the temple to the distance of the rivers and lakes, you give up the supreme money rights and interests, and get the leisure and freedom filled with smoke.

Everything in the world is transformed into the passage of time in the inertia law of life and death, and the joys and sorrows of life are intertwined. I once complained about the miserliness of fate, because it was reluctant to give me a little "peace".

The friend smiled and suggested, "Why don't we play a game? Now you start to move forward. You should put all the stones on the road in your laundry list until you come to the tree in front. " So I started to pick it up on foot, but I couldn't lift it on the road.

My friend smiled and helped me throw a lot, only a few pieces were left in the basket. I can't move my back, so I threw a few more pieces, only a few pieces left. Finally, I arrived. Isn't life such an experience? Since people can walk, we will carry a laundry list on the road, and we will encounter many things along the way, such as ideals and interests ... If we don't know how to choose, we will be too tired to get up one day.

Therefore, if you know how to be willing, you can get it better. This reminds me of an interesting story: a child reached into a bottle full of hazelnuts, but when he tried to get it back, his hand got stuck in the bottle.

He doesn't want to give up hazelnuts, and he can't take his hand back. He couldn't help crying sadly. The ending of the story should be his own choice. First, he greedily caught a lot of hazelnuts, and then he had to let the adults smash bottles and get a scolding. The second is to know how to be content, take only half and make your fist smaller. Although you gave up half, the problem was solved.

So sometimes, when the cost is inversely proportional to the income, whether the problem can be solved depends on whether you are willing or not. Of course, the benefits of being willing are not only related to whether you know it or not, but also related to the object of being willing.

If we pick up stones on our backs, we can't blindly choose between them foolishly, just as we can't blindly choose between interests and rationality. At least let the left stone look pleasing to the eye and useful. This is glad you came! If we reach out to catch hazelnuts, we can first weigh the hardness and quality of hazelnuts for a while, and don't catch rotten nuts at once, which will only save energy and miss our own taste; I'm hungry at the moment, but I've had diarrhea for three days. It's not worth the loss. Therefore, we should also choose with the attitude of "taking the essence and discarding the dross".

After all, being willing to give up properly can make the acquisition more meaningful. How to give up? I wandered in the wider and wider Liuchi Lane, drifting by the Xiangju River of Tao Yuanming, and followed Lu Xun's long journey of abandoning medicine and becoming a writer ... I found the answer from it.

So, in the future, I understand how to give up.

There are many people talking about ideals.

Although there is a broken void, it always brings a glimmer of hope and expectation. Mr. Lu Xun once said: Without hope, there is no hope. Just like roads on the ground, more people will become roads.

However, if you are alive, you must always choose your own path. Right or wrong, you can't live without a road. It's like hope. It may not be what everyone wants, but it really concerns your own life. I think this hope is actually an ideal. Childhood ideal: it is only an intelligence test, and has nothing to do with the ideal itself. When I was a child, adults often touched my head and asked me what I would do when I grew up. At that time, I always stood up and said loudly that I wanted to be a scientist or a glorious PLA when I grew up, and then the adults happily praised me for my ambition.

To tell the truth, I didn't know what kind of career a scientist or the People's Liberation Army was at that time, but I knew in my young mind that a child who wants to be a scientist must be a good boy-not all books say so. Adults don't understand how unrealistic it is to discuss long-term ambitions with a child who doesn't understand the world.

I don't know if other children are like me, but in my life, strictly speaking, I didn't have any lofty ideals when I was young. If there is, it's as simple as that-as long as parents like it, teachers like it. When I grow up, I finally understand that scientists are not so easy to be, and adults don't seem to care.

The shadow of childhood gradually faded away, and those lofty ideals that were almost ridiculous were put in my drawer. Strictly speaking, however, those were not my real childhood ideals. I have no ambition to become a scientist. It is an intelligence test that many children have to face when they are young. Has nothing to do with the ideal itself. The real ideal will be behind.

Teenager's ideal: truly belong to yourself, that is the whole of life. I think, whether a great man or a mortal, the ideal is probably based on interest. For a time, I was fascinated by painting. I spent almost all my parents' pocket money on things related to painting. I practice drawing most of the time every day.

I have long known the story of Leonardo drawing eggs, so I also learned to put an egg on the table and make a lasting description. I dream that one day I can be a great painter like Leonardo da Vinci, and my works can be collected as rare treasures.

Finally, one day, I took an "egg" that I was most satisfied with to participate in the children's painting competition in the county. Because of an egg, I dream that I will be as successful as Da Vinci. However, on the day when the contest was announced, I searched for my beloved "eggs" in the works exhibited in the county cultural center all morning.

I'm completely disappointed! So I doubt whether the judges are fair, whether Leonardo da Vinci really became a famous painter because he painted an egg, and finally I doubt whether I have a talent for painting. As a result, the first ideal that really belongs to me in my life was shattered. Now that I think about it, I can't help but feel a little ridiculous. However, at that time, it was my whole life.

Of course, I now know that Leonardo didn't succeed by drawing an egg, which I didn't understand when I was a teenager. The ideal of youth: I work the longest time, and I really fought for it. When I was in high school, I began to dream of becoming a writer again. This dream may be the longest.

At that time, in class, my composition was often read as a model essay. It is based on this poor vanity that I began my long pursuit of a writer's dream. However, after writing a lot of articles, the writer has never made it.

Once, I read from an article by a great writer that "a writer should stick to poverty and be willing to be lonely". I lament that I am poor and lonely enough, why I still can't be a "home". I think, maybe loneliness and hard work alone are not enough, maybe I have rich life experience. I am still young, and my inexperience is inevitable, so I can talk about it.

But some very young writers (who probably don't have much experience) have become "family", which is really shameful! Then I thought, to be a writer, maybe you need talent, luck or something. People are naturally fond of dreaming. I have been working for many years now, doing complicated things every day.

For a time, the sea became a common practice, and many people my age set sail, but I still stuck to the side of "poverty", which really smelled like everyone was busy and I was lonely. It suddenly occurred to me that I had a dream before, that is, to be the boss of a large enterprise or group.

I think I want to get rich in my bones, but I dare not show it, because I think it is too slim to become a millionaire. One day, I swam with my friends in the bustling market at night and looked at the tall buildings, such as traffic on the water, and I couldn't help but have mixed feelings. Suddenly I couldn't help shouting, "I want to get rich!" I want to get rich! " Attracted passers-by to look at each other, and friends were dumbfounded.

I'm afraid they think I'm crazy! However, what I am shouting is only a distant wish in my heart, and my life has not changed at all. In my life, there are still constant disillusionment and new ideals.

Growing up, I don't know how many dreams I had. Ideals are sweet and bitter (mostly sweet at first, then bitter), profound and superficial, open and secret, long-term and short-lived, fought for them, and just passed by. There is a TV series called "Women are Born to Dream". I think men are also born to dream. Most people living in the world dream, and few people don't dream. I'm afraid no one! Although the days have passed day by day, I am glad that I still have dreams, because that at least makes me feel that life has goals and hopes, although some ideals are too far away and even bring me pain.

I think that if one day, I don't have a dream, it will be very cruel and terrible.

4. Are you willing to give up the argumentative composition with the topic of will? Give up? If you have it, you have to give it up. If you give it up, you have to get it.

-Inscription (1) On the fast-moving train, a new shoe just bought by an old man accidentally fell from the window, and the passengers around him felt sorry for it. Unexpectedly, the old man resolutely dropped the other one. Everyone was puzzled, but the old man smiled calmly: "No matter how expensive the shoes are, the remaining pair doesn't mean anything to me.

Throw him down, and the person who finds it may get a new pair of shoes. Maybe he can still wear it. (2) The father and son decided to take risks in picking Ganoderma lucidum.

They climbed the mountain and reached the glacier. Just as I was about to come back, there was a snowstorm on the mountain and the temperature plummeted. My old father was severely frostbitten and couldn't walk.

He said to his two sons, "I can't do it. Take off my clothes and put them on, and try to get down the mountain. " The two sons refused and insisted on carrying their father down the mountain.

On the way, the eldest son put his coat on his father, but his father had no breath. The eldest son also suffered from frostbite, so he said to his younger brother, "Little brother, take off my clothes and put them on, and try to walk down the hill. There are mothers and grandmothers waiting for us at home. "

The younger brother also insisted on refusing and put his coat on his younger brother to try to save him. After the snowstorm, the villagers found three father and son lying together. The father wore the coat of the eldest son, the eldest son wore the coat of the younger son, and the younger son only wore a thin cotton-padded coat, so the father and son were buried on the glacier.

A year later, their families were also heartbroken. After losing one shoe, the old man resolutely left another shoe, which is a sign of maturity and reason.

Generally speaking, people are always intoxicated with the joy of having, but they are sad for the sadness of losing. The old man, on the other hand, transcended the world with a philosophical attitude of leisurely life.

Indeed, it is better to give up than to cling to the residue, which may bring happiness to others and make you feel comfortable at the same time. The old man's willingness to do so is admirable and deserves our deep thought.

When the father and son stood at the crossroads of life, they resolutely chose affection. They think it is impossible to abandon their families in times of crisis. Yes, they won a short family relationship, but what followed? First, the father lost his breath, then the eldest son lost his breath, then the younger son died peacefully, and finally the family died of grief. At present, they have lost the necessary reason, made the wrong choice and razed a warm home to the ground.

We can easily imagine that at that time, as long as a person can resolutely give up, they will get more: a family life, a warm family, a pillar of the motherland ... in our real life, we also need to give up. I remember seeing a kind of water pump at my grandmother's house. He needs to put down a spoonful of water before he can pump out sweet water. Isn't this also a kind of willingness? When others ask you for something, you may lose a little material benefit, but you gain pure friendship and true feelings, don't you? Barely can make people get a lot of returns. On the contrary, reluctance may make people regret it for life.

Here, I want to say, "giving up is a blessing."

5. A 900-word composition titled "Give up" Some people say that the purpose of giving up is to get. Just like this, everything in the world has to be given up, but you can't have both.

From black hair to silver silk, I gave up the complacency of young people and got the courage of old age; From cold ling driving alone to bits and pieces grinding into dust, I gave up the shadow of exclusive prosperity, loneliness and pride, and got a legendary story that was told through the ages; From the height of the temple to the distance of the rivers and lakes, you give up the supreme money rights and interests, and get the leisure and freedom filled with smoke. Everything in the world is transformed into the passage of time in the inertia law of life and death, and the joys and sorrows of life are intertwined.

I once complained about the miserliness of fate, because it was reluctant to give me a little "peace". My friend smiled and suggested, "Why don't we play a game? Now you start to move forward. You should put all the stones on your way into your laundry list until they are under the tree in front. " So I started to pick it up on foot, but I couldn't lift it on the road. My friend smiled and helped me throw a lot, only a few pieces were left in the basket. I can't move my back, so I threw a few more pieces, only a few pieces left. Finally, I arrived. Isn't life such an experience? Since people can walk, we will carry a laundry list on the road, and we will encounter many things along the way, such as ideals and interests ... If we don't know how to choose, we will be too tired to get up one day. Therefore, if you know how to be willing, you can get it better.

This reminds me of an interesting story: a child reached into a bottle full of hazelnuts, but when he tried to get it back, his hand got stuck in the bottle. He doesn't want to give up hazelnuts, and he can't take his hand back. He couldn't help crying sadly. The ending of the story should be his own choice. First, he greedily caught a lot of hazelnuts, and then he had to let the adults smash bottles and get a scolding. The second is to know how to be content, take only half and make your fist smaller. Although you gave up half, the problem was solved. So sometimes, when the cost is inversely proportional to the income, whether the problem can be solved depends on whether you are willing or not.

Of course, the benefits of being willing are not only related to whether you know it or not, but also related to the object of being willing. If we pick up stones on our backs, we can't blindly choose between them foolishly, just as we can't blindly choose between interests and rationality. At least let the left stone look pleasing to the eye and useful. This is glad you came! If we reach out to catch hazelnuts, we can first weigh the hardness and quality of hazelnuts for a while, and don't catch rotten nuts at once, which will only save energy and miss our own taste; I'm hungry at the moment, but I've had diarrhea for three days. It's not worth the loss. Therefore, we should also choose with the attitude of "taking the essence and discarding the dross". After all, being willing to give up properly can make the acquisition more meaningful.

How to give up? I wandered in the wider and wider Liuchi Lane, drifting by the Xiangju River of Tao Yuanming, and followed Lu Xun's long journey of abandoning medicine and becoming a writer ... I found the answer from it.

So, in the future, I understand how to give up.

6. For the composition on the topic of "giving up", you have to have such an interview question: you are driving and passing a station on a stormy night.

There are three people waiting for the bus: one is a patient; One is the doctor who once saved you; There is another woman (or man) who is your dream lover. But your car can only carry one person. What would you choose? Of the 200 applicants, only one was hired.

He didn't explain any reason. He just said the following words: "Give the doctor the car keys and ask him to take the patient to the hospital. And I will stay and wait for the bus with my dream. "

I told this story to many friends, and everyone thought it was a perfect answer. But at first, few people thought of it. I think this is because we never want to give up our advantage (car keys)! The greatest source of distress is suffering losses.

People often can't understand. If you want something, you must give it up. How to "get" if you don't give up? Willing to give up advantages is sometimes a convenient way to give others, and it is also a way to open China. Growing up, everyone told me to grasp my own advantages and stand on my own advantages.

Maybe I stood up several times, but my heart lost my sense of accomplishment and motivation. Gradually, I developed a sense of dependence.

One day, when I found that advantage was no longer an advantage, I was at a loss and lacked a spiritual pillar, which made me uneasy. Like a bird bound by wings, watching its companions fly high, but nothing stays in place; Like a bug thrown into the abyss, groping in the dark, struggling in the dark, reaching out to touch everything around him, except whether it is cold or not ... It was not until I saw this story that Deng had a new understanding of "superiority".

I've reconsidered the gains and losses. "Advantage" can be a person's glory, but it can never be a dependence.

Sometimes you have to learn to give up your advantages. There is a saying that "while you are mature, you are constantly abandoning the beauty that you used to be proud of." We can't live in the past, it will only become prisoners of history.

If you don't understand the realm of "giving up", the more you get, the heavier you feel, and you can't get rid of it. In this way, all kinds of obstacles and interference will come one after another and linger, making it difficult for you to move forward, and the "take" East will become heavier. Once an advantage becomes qualitative and a burden, its value will be gone.

Just like fish and bear's paw, (if I am confused by who I take, I would rather not) when there is no hard choice, even if I am confused by it, I would rather not have anyone. Advantage is just a kind of dependence. If you take it too seriously or even distort it, you will trip over it sooner or later! "She" and "De" were originally simple words, but some people succeeded and others failed.

The reason is that we are willing and unwilling to give up in the face of advantages. Sometimes, giving up will improve your personality. Maybe a flash of giving up will make you meet her (him) in life.

In short, from such a short story, I understand that superiority is not a magic weapon to win. If you are willing to give up at the right time, your life may be different. If you are willing to give up your advantage, you can't keep your feet on the ground after all.

Willing to give up your advantage, maybe you can enjoy the blue sky beyond the white clouds.

7. It is not good to ask for a composition with the topic of "willing". Just hand in your homework. "willing" is very common and is full of our trivial life; The mystery of Shede shows the joys and sorrows of life.

"Being willing" is actually a realm, a Zen theory, a perfect fusion of philosophy and art, and shows the wisdom of life. Grasp the essentials and scales of "giving up" and "getting", and you will get the key to success.

Life is spent in choices again and again. In the face of choice, how to choose is often puzzling. But we must make choices, because these choices often determine our future life journey.

Therefore, when we are in such a dilemma, the correct choice is particularly important. As early as more than two thousand years ago, Mencius said: "Fish, what I want, bear's paw, what I want, can't have both. Give up the fish and take the bear's paw; " Life, what I want, righteousness, what I want, can't have both, and those who give up their lives for righteousness also. "

Not only Mencius, but countless great men in history have set an example for us with their actions. Shi abandoned the quiet life in Zhuluo Village and walked into the courtyard of the Imperial Palace of Wu, but with his beauty and wit, he made Fu Cha "drunk in the Imperial Palace every day", helped Gou Jian accomplish the great cause of rejuvenating the country and won the praise of the Yue people. Su Shi abandoned high officials and lavished himself on pleasure, and insisted on his own ideas with full loyalty to the country and the people, but he benefited the people and was loved by countless people. Liu Hulan abandoned the land and gold given to her by the enemy, resolutely chose the cold hay cutter, sacrificed heroically, but defended the interests of the party and the people, which was praised by future generations; China gave up the superior material conditions of the United States, responded to the call of the motherland and resolutely returned to the motherland, but made indelible contributions to the construction and development of the motherland.

This is the choice made by great people before difficult choices. They all explained such a simple and absolute truth to us with actions: what you pay, you will get.

Everything is like this. So, when you are about to make a choice, please seriously and deeply think about what you should do and what you really need.

Take this step well, and you will have no regrets or shame in your life. An open-minded attitude can't always exist in life. When we have something, we always lose something. What is it not to lose your life? Facing all kinds of losses, everyone's attitude is always different.

Some people will be unhappy all day, disappointed by this small loss, and even don't think about tea and rice; But some people will laugh it off and welcome the rest of their lives with optimism. Needless to say, the correct attitude should be the latter-an open-minded attitude.

When you miss the first flower, think that the applause of the second place is also beautiful; When your villa and sports car are destroyed by sudden disasters, think about the warmth brought by your family's care; When you accidentally lose money, think that they may bring greater help to another person; When you lose your strength and are no longer omnipotent, it is actually easier to think about a quiet life. Without the brilliance of the sun, there are still bright stars; Without the fragrance of flowers, there will be the prosperity of grass.

When you lose something, you will find better things in life and cherish life more. This is open-minded.

When you can calmly face the gains and losses in life and be indifferent to everything, you will feel more comfortable, always have a leisurely and happy mood and bloom the most beautiful smile to life. Often at this time, you will also find that your life suddenly becomes better, and there is no longer a haze.

This is the magical power of being open-minded! "She" and "De" are two extremely intriguing words. Calm down to think and feel, and you will gradually realize the true meaning of life.

These truths can often dispel your physical and mental fatigue and irritability, wash away your inner distractions and glitz, and make you feel infinitely clear and quiet. "If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition. If you are not quiet, you will be far away."

"Being willing" is indeed a realm, a Zen machine and a kind of wisdom. It is included in your life, like a pearl, always waiting for you to pick it up, open the door to success and exert its infinite charm.

8. Write a short essay of not less than 800 words on the topic of willingness and happiness, and light a lamp for yourself. Time flies. In a blink of an eye, I have gone through 15 spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Entering junior high school, I began to mature step by step from an early age and began to taste my own life ... bittersweet is the taste of life. So I will cry, I will be tired, I will be confused, and I will not want to move on.

The road of life will never be a smooth and bright road. We need a lamp to light the way forward. Light a lamp for ourselves, dispel the fog on the road, warm the lost heart, light up the road ahead, and let us reach the other side of victory.

Dreams are our lights! Light the lamp of dreams, and we will have the direction and courage to move forward. No matter how strong the wind is, no matter how heavy the rain is, we can March forward against the wind and rain.

In fact, I also know that I will lose a lot of things in the long journey of life, but I always hold my dreams tightly in my arms and stick them in my heart. With it, I will no longer be lonely, lonely and hesitant.

Dream is a beacon in the vast ocean, pointing out the direction of life! Dreams are an oasis in the vast desert, giving you hope for life and courage not to give up. I have always wanted to say that I am a "Dream Girl", and I have had this dream since I was very young.

Will quietly make a wish to the meteor across the night sky, make a dream and make it come true one day in the future. When I grow up, I find that I can realize my dream without wishing on a meteor.

I fell in love with composition in the fourth grade. Since then, I have given myself a dream, although it is far away from me. With the encouragement of the teacher, I began to write a composition, and began to participate in composition writing, constantly contributing.

But what I got was empty-handed, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't reach the Excellence of others! No matter how much I pay, I get nothing. Isn't this little dream mine? I'm confused. I have been disappointed, sad and even thought about giving up.

A person cries quietly in the lonely night, tears, and I see flashing lights in tears. Really, I saw it. By the dim light, I saw the elves waving to me in the dark ahead, calling me to move forward bravely.

So I smiled, wiped my tears, rearranged my mood and walked firmly towards my ideal. Only struggle, only struggle, the lamp of dreams will show gorgeous colors, which can not only illuminate themselves, but also warm others.

When you can't find the direction on the road of life, light the dream lamp for yourself quickly, and you will have the direction; When you are suffering from temporary failure, think about your dreams, and you will have the courage to face failure; When you are complacent about your temporary achievements, think about your dreams and you will know that the road ahead is still very long, very long; When you are afraid to move forward because of the darkness ahead, think about the lamp in your heart, which has been illuminating you … the road of life, because with this lamp, it is not dark; Life is no longer monotonous because of this lamp; Inside, I will no longer be afraid of this lamp; No matter how dark it is, no matter how far it is, no matter how difficult the road is, we will not be timid! Our youth will be more exciting because of our dreams, so light the lamp of dreams for ourselves! Since I chose the distance, I only care about hardships.