In primary school, the TV series Pink Girl was very popular, and He Runan, played by Zhangyan, explained the concept of "man and woman" almost perfectly. At that time, boys and girls were the most arrogant and inconsiderate because they were naive. If a girl is as proud as a boy, she has almost no scruples about the concept of men and women when she is noisy on weekdays. If her behavior is a little ruder, the name "man and woman" will definitely not escape.
A Jiu told me that she used to be such a girl.
I said, don't tease me, now you and a man are two completely different words, okay!
A Jiu looked at me with a smile and pinched my leg. "Do you believe it now?"
Eyes watery, nodding like garlic, as firm as my father.
A Jiu was a cheerful little girl when she was a child, especially in primary school. She's a little too lively. She was annoyed by a boy, and she didn't look like a good family at all, so she once became a "man woman" in her class.
Although A Jiu looks handsome, his personality really scares these boys in spring. You know, A Jiu's good grades hurt the teacher. In the event of a dispute, few people can get a good deal from A Jiu. Therefore, I can only make lip service and give A Jiu the title of "man and woman". Seeing A Jiu's fried hair jumping around with a book but afraid to do it again really fulfilled the bad taste in boys' hearts.
But other girls don't like A Jiu very much. Although A Jiu has the title of "man and woman", she looks more docile and lovely than most girls. Besides, A Jiu practices ballet every weekend. In the words of A Jiu's mother, ballet is not for eating, but for exercising A Jiu's body and cultivating good temperament from childhood. So besides dancing, A Jiu also learned to draw. I'm glad to know that A Jiu, who used to get good grades, can still dance, and she was chosen as a dance team and a model team by her teacher. The girls just gnash their teeth but are helpless. Fortunately, however, A Jiu's normal appearance always lasts less than three minutes.
A Jiu is also a precocious child among a group of children. During the first grade spring outing, the teacher asked men and women to pull their little hands together, but A Jiu silently closed his hands, looked up at the hot sun and said to the handsome guy with big eyes in front of him, "Is it so hot that your palms are sweating?"
The handsome guy nodded, and A Jiu said piteously, "I'm sweating, too. I'm definitely uncomfortable dragging my hands, so I'd better not drag my hands again. "
Handsome boy hesitated, A Jiu make persistent efforts. "I won't get lost. You look at me and I look at you. "
Handsome boy struggled, A Jiu added a fire. "If you are really lost, don't move in the same place. I will definitely find the teacher and say it's my fault."
Handsome boy or afraid, A Jiu immediately pulled down his face. "I said don't drag. Don't pull me. " Turned to leave, leaving only the handsome guy with big eyes, and he didn't respond at all. What provoked this aunt.
I said, A Jiu, you're not very manly ... you're a little grumpy at best. ...
A Jiu took a long drink of milk tea and continued to speak contentedly. I hit someone.
Seeing A Jiu's triumphant little eyes, I touched my face full of fear.
The bully in the class has been bullying A Jiu for a long time. Among the boys who are always torn by A Jiu, he is indispensable, but he is still putting on airs and has a lot of money at home, so many girls regard him as a little white horse in their hearts and are eager to be his girlfriend.
A Jiu is, put up with him for a long time, and finally broke out in a self-study class.
Everyone did their homework quietly in the self-study class, but the bully turned to find someone to chat with, smiling, but instead of looking for his deskmate, he crossed the aisle between two tables and found A Jiu.
A Jiu was troubled by math problems, and the girls behind him immediately seized the opportunity to chat. However, when the bully saw A Jiu with a fidgety face, he was very unhappy. He took her eraser and dragged her pencil, which was almost restless for a moment.
A Jiu can't stand it. He turned around. "Are you too boring? Believe it or not, I will hit you! "
The bully saw that A Jiu was finally willing to talk to himself. It was a smile, and he put his face forward. "If you have the ability, you can fight, fight ... ah!"
Yes, Aba hasn't finished yet, and A Jiu has already fanned over.
The girl at the back table was dumbfounded and speechless for a long time. The bully also looked at A Jiu in disbelief with his little face.
A Jiu felt a little guilty after all. Seeing that the whole class was about to watch, he quickly bowed his head and did his homework, pretending that it was none of his business.
People around the bully leaned forward and asked him what was wrong. A Jiu cocked up its ears quickly.
"Nothing, nothing, go away, I want to do my homework." Although the bully didn't care, by the next day, the girl at the back table had already played up the matter and spread it, and the title of "the man is the master and the woman is the master" in A Jiu was occupied.
"Actually, that bully likes you, doesn't he?"
A Jiu blinked. "Later, he was with another girl in our class but broke up all day. That girl found some good sisters and asked me what you just said. "
"Ah ~ what's your answer? Is it torn? "
"I said, no, I'm not as beautiful as you. What force to tear ... they dare to tear with me! "
"... then why are you so ambitious? "
"I'm really not as beautiful as her ... that boy asked his father to pick him up at the school gate in an extended Lincoln, acting like a rich second generation."
"Didn't see you so indifferent to fame and fortune at an early age ....."
A Jiu smiled and said it was sunny. "I think President Maserati's car is more suitable for me ~"
"……"
"In fact, I am also quite fierce to girls. Once a girl robbed my friend's court to play ball. I dumped my racket and scolded her abruptly from class to class. I watched her cry out of breath and spent several packets of paper towels ... "
"..." Friendship girl.
"However, I didn't expect that girl to finally become my best friend in primary school. It's really hard to predict. "
Later in junior high school, A Jiu's temper didn't change much, but it got worse. He also fought with gangsters in his class, even a pair of threes. When I come home from school, I must sneak into the room while A Jiu's mother is in the kitchen, so as not to be angry with A Jiu's mother.
Later, I went to high school and converged a lot. I asked her why.
A Jiu sighed faintly, and my mother said that I couldn't get married if I was so rude again.
"When I was a child, I was called a man and a woman. Actually, it's really sad. But boys always annoy me, and I just can't stand it. Now it is often said that a boy liked a girl when he was a child and always wanted to bully her, but the girl was innocent! Which rule says that a boy who likes a girl has the right to bully her! Also depends on whether that girl likes you or not, and is willing to be bullied by you! I don't want to, but some people say I'm a man-woman Now I feel really cruel ... "
I keep silent. ...
"But now, although my behavior has changed, my temper in my bones can't be changed."
"How can I put it?"
"When I was bullied by boys before, I thought, I must be better than them, so that others will not dare to mess with me. Now that civilization is not fighting, it is more competitive than others, so no one can play particularly well. "
"But I think people still like you."
I have known A Jiu for many years. She is a hard-working girl, especially with self-motivation and personality. Many female children told me that they secretly admired A Jiu, and I said I did, too.
A Jiu is really stubborn, but we all know that it is just a superficial film to protect ourselves. In fact, her heart is very soft. As soon as she quarrels with her friends, she will reflect on her mistakes and apologize immediately. When you meet a boy you like, you will do a lot of stupid things but you won't put pressure on her. She will patiently take care of her grandmother with Alzheimer's disease and wash her feet and cut her nails. ...
Her rigidity is all used in her independent life. She is simply a female king kong, as tenacious as the men and women in Pink Lady. He Runan, a man and a woman, had a deep-rooted desire to build a farm primary school for her hometown, so she became a workaholic. Even if you are exhausted, don't hesitate to start from scratch. She is so capable, so hard-working, so competitive, everyone regards her as a monster who disdains feelings, doesn't talk about marriage and refuses to have sex with men and women.
A Jiu often goes to work to earn living expenses, and even goes to find an internship in winter and summer vacations. He also studies hard and plans to go abroad for postgraduate study. She is one of many ordinary girls, and she has tried to live the life she likes. She has never been in love since she was so big.
Sometimes she is particularly afraid that others will say that she likes her, and she often accepts incompetence in the love between girlfriends. According to her words, she is used to being a "man and woman" that no one likes, and she is used to it now.
But a boy told me that he actually wanted to chase A Jiu, but A Jiu saw that he was a little out of line and immediately drew the 38th parallel. He hasn't talked to him for weeks. When he ran out of ink, Lian Bi didn't even borrow it from his deskmate.
What A Jiu told me is that she doesn't like the color of boys' pens.
I just want to say that it is also black. What is the difference?
The boys who bullied A Jiu grew up and kept A Jiu in the neighborhood for a long time. Under the gloomy expression of A Jiu, he always stuffed his confession back into his stomach.
The girl who once asked A Jiu whether he liked A Jiu or not finally helped A Jiu chase the boy he liked. Even if A Jiu died, she didn't have the courage to confess.
The girl who was bullied by A Jiu before told me that she just didn't like that the whole world was in charge of her, but she looked innocent and ignorant.
I said, does the whole world include you? ...
The girl was embarrassed for a long time. "In fact, I think ... she's ... fine ..." But her face is so distorted that she immediately wants to slap herself, because she saw that little bitch A Jiu just sent me a WeChat-XXX laughed me to death! The man ticket I was looking for was so ugly that I almost had a heart attack. ...
Yes, XXX is the girl. ...
A Jiu has been a female man for so many years, and she has created a pair of hard armor. She thinks that few people like herself, so she should be strong, but she doesn't know that everyone is waiting for her to come out of the shell to give her warmth.
"Really? Who said that? Who is this family? " A Jiu's eyes sparkled.
"No, you when I didn't say ..."
"In fact, I know that they are all very kind to me. In fact, I was very happy during my life. "
When I was a child, everyone was too young to understand. The title of "Man Woman" hurts self-esteem for a girl like A Jiu, but when I grow up, I find that we all envy these girls and live a free and unrestrained life, which is unknown to the whole world.
Although A Jiu said angrily that he didn't forgive, one of the characteristics of "men and women" is broad-minded and forgetful of injuries.