The first half of the lecture was full of golden sentences, which felt very resonant; The second half is a vivid example, which is very practical.
Golden sentence 1: education is to cultivate children's ability, not just to impart knowledge. Knowledge may be forgotten, but ability will accompany them all their lives. (This ability to stay with children is actually called literacy or quality. )
Golden sentence 2: All children who are excellent at last regard learning as happiness. This sentence just confirms the classic words of the sage Confucius: knowing is not as good as being good, and being good is not as good as being happy. This is the highest state of learning. )
Doing what you like and liking what you do is happiness.
Like and love is an emotion, but also an ability. Try to get close, understand and discover, and you will gradually get emotional.
Many times, we like to indulge in a comfortable state and don't want to break through ourselves, so we find a reason to escape. Because running away is as easy as blowing off dust. So, if we can't find what we like, then live in the present and like what you are doing.
There is no failure in this world except psychological failure.
British writer Dickens said: A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.
A positive and optimistic attitude allows us to see that things are developing and pay more attention to the process of struggle. Pessimistic and negative attitude solidified our thinking and focused on the results.
The biggest difference between people is the difference in mentality.
This reminds me of Chuck, the hero of The Rest of a Desert Island. He was accidentally caught in a plane crash, and he stayed alone on the island day after day, year after year. Finally, he made a simple raft himself, counted the time and left the desert island.
Reminds me of Robinson Crusoe. Robinson on a desert island learned a lot of survival skills and returned to land with his accumulated navigation knowledge.
Reminds me of Santiago, an old fisherman in The Old Man and the Sea. He fought the powerful shark again and again and finally returned home.
Reminds me of Andy, the man who was imprisoned for more than 20 years in The Shawshank Redemption. The yearning for freedom made him persist in his dream for 20 years and finally be free.
Without a good attitude and a strong heart, they can't overcome loneliness, fear and even despair, so as to get out of the predicament, complete the challenge of life and redeem themselves.
When we face setbacks again and again, please tell yourself that no one can succeed casually. A person's success means more efforts, more sweat and more tears.
When you are in trouble, please remember that you are not fighting alone!
When you are faced with setbacks, please recite Mencius' words: Therefore, God will be a great responsibility to the people of Sri Lanka, and you must first suffer their minds and work hard for their bones and muscles. ...
The growth of children is a process of constantly making mistakes and constantly correcting them. Children who don't make mistakes don't grow up, and no one is smooth sailing.
Since ancient times, it has been difficult to be talented, and the right path in the world is vicissitudes. The more successful people are, the more setbacks they experience.
Option 1:
The best way to cultivate children's self-confidence is to discover and tap their advantages.
Only when a person finds his own value and sees his own achievements will he have upward motivation. Only in this way can we form self-confidence and keep moving forward.
Therefore, find more advantages of children, affirm more things that children have done, don't compare horizontally, don't just stare at children's shortcomings, put down judgments, and don't label them.
Option 2:
Find the right position, don't aim too high.
Make a little progress every day, don't just pay attention to your child's grades, and don't be too nervous about your child's grades. Scores are dead, people are alive; Achievement is temporary, and quality and quality are accompanied by children's life. To give children a goal that can be achieved by jumping, children's progress is just around the corner.
After listening to Mr. Wang Jinzhan's lecture, it injected fresh energy into my mind. Learning is a lifetime thing. I grow up in my study, know myself step by step and improve myself in the process of growing up, so as to improve my cognition and thinking, help more children and help more families. This is the most essential thing of learning.