Summer is coming, and many people like to shave their heads because of the heat.

Some time ago, Chen Dayu posted a dynamic on social media and exposed a video of his father Peisi Chen interacting with his twin grandchildren.

In the video, two little boys shaved their heads, which made Peisi Chen laugh. The images of the three grandchildren are exactly the same, and the picture is full of joy.

Previously, netizens have repeatedly lamented the powerful genes of the Peisi Chen family. It was first discovered that Peisi Chen looked like his father Chen Qiang.

Later, Chen Dayu participated in a variety show. After a netizen lost his hair, he found that his facial features, eyebrows and face were all "copied and pasted".

When Chen Dayu exposed the photo of her daughter Yaya, netizens "exploded" again, saying that "four generations live under one roof", and the Peisi Chen family seemed to be carved from the same mold.

In fact, more than one generation of genes affects one generation, and sons are like fathers and grandchildren are like sons. In the way of educating children, the Peisi Chen family is also in the same strain. Last year, when Peisi Chen participated in a variety show, his educational ideas also caused a heated discussion.

In an interview program, Peisi Chen talked about the details of his relationship with his father, and also mentioned the way he educated his son.

Peisi Chen mentioned that when his son Chen Dayu was in elementary school, he had stipulated that "after school, he was not allowed to get a hundred points, and he would be beaten if he got a hundred points".

In his view, the most important thing for children to go to primary school is to "release their nature", in other words, "just play", and his son Chen Dayu only needs to get 60 points.

It is precisely because of this that he will take his children around and not let them be bound by their grades.

At first glance, this seems to coincide with the quality education we are advocating now: all of them are aimed at reducing the burden and pressure of children and not excessively pursuing academic achievements.

However, the two are actually completely different educational concepts. Peisi Chen's education for children is in a state of centralization: even if children have the ability to get 100%, they should keep a low profile, otherwise they will be punished.

Although Peisi Chen and his son are very successful in their careers, I don't agree with this kind of education, because it is actually a "high-pressure education" for children, which is actually more in line with the education form in traditional China society.

Tracing back to the source, this kind of education that Peisi Chen received is very similar to that he received as a child.

Peisi Chen's father, Chen Qiang, is an artist of the older generation and has played many classic roles.

From Huang Shiren, who is hated by everyone in White-haired Girl, to Nanbatian, the bully in Red women soldiers, Chen Qiang was praised as the "first villain" by the audience, and many of his roles were deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

It was also driven by his father, Chen Qiang, that Peisi Chen became famous with the film "Two Sons Series" and formally embarked on the road of performing arts.

However, Peisi Chen mentioned many times that he took part in the performance that year, because of the pressure from his father, he didn't like it at first. As he grew up, he made good achievements in his career, and gradually understood his father's difficulties and fell in love with this business.

Look at the way Peisi Chen educated Chen Dayu, which was actually passed down from generation to generation.

When Chen Dayu was a child, Peisi Chen refused to let his son follow in his father's footsteps. For a long time, he forced his children to stay away from the entertainment industry, continued the "high-pressure education" they received as children, and made them abide by their own rules and will, and used a logic similar to that of his father Chen Qiang: I do it for your own good, so you should listen to me.

In this way of education, Chen Dayu and his father, Peisi Chen, have the same growth track: rebellious when they were young, and the relationship between father and son was tense. When they changed from teenagers to middle age, they finally understood their father's good intentions and completed the reconciliation with their father. Finally, both of them embarked on acting careers.

Many parents are accustomed to being "self-righteous" when educating their children, and decide their children's growth path according to their own ideas, which virtually becomes a "helicopter parent" who constantly monitors their children's every move.

However, for children, interest and freedom are essential. Parents' high-pressure education, on the one hand, inhibits children's interest development, and at the same time may make children have rebellious psychology, and parent-child relationship will inevitably be affected.

Just like Chen Qiang, Peisi Chen, Peisi Chen and Chen Dayu, the education method of the same strain between father and son leads to a similar growth trajectory. Although the father and son finally reached a settlement, there were many detours and disputes in the middle.

IELTS Bells mentioned in What is Education: "The essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul."

As parents, the best way to educate children is to give them freedom to the greatest extent.

Let children decide their own future and freely choose the way to explore the world. What we have to do is to give unconditional trust and companionship, become a tree and a cloud, and awaken the children's souls with our souls.

Old Miao's conclusion is:

Now the baton is handed to Chen Dayu, who is the father of four children.

However, unlike his grandfather Chen Qiang and his father Peisi Chen, he is particularly tolerant of children. Although the four generations of grandparents and grandchildren look alike, there have been new changes in the way of educating children.

Today's topic: What do you think of this kind of education in Peisi Chen?