(2) Ease the tone and leave room: Some notices pay little attention to this point, and often put forward non-negotiable requirements in a tough tone. For example, you must ask the other person what occupation, diploma, age, height, etc. It makes people feel that the pursuer has an accurate ruler in his hand, leaving no room.
This is usually unpleasant. You can put forward your own requirements in a euphemistic tone and way, for example, you have an advantageous occupation, high education and elegant hobbies. If you introduce yourself, others will naturally consider it, and most of the respondents will belong to the kind of person you require. There is no hard and fast rule.
Extended data
I was born in a scholarly family, my father is a professor at Northeastern University, and my mother is a drama actor. I lost my father when I was very young, leaving my mother and I alone.
My mother is in poor health, her career is unsuccessful, and her family has a heavy burden. She has never been married. Now, after my mother died, I am the only one left to deeply understand the meaning of home. Although my career has not been achieved, I have done something. I hope to find a kind person, work for her all my life and follow her to the ends of the earth. (Now a subordinate institution of the Ministry of Public Security can resign if you love me. )
I won't be half-hearted to you, because I can't afford to lose! I won't change my mind because I'm not interested! I won't eat inside and climb outside, because I have no family except you. I will always be with you, like a shadow, pursuing.
I don't smoke, drink, be fat, be thin, have a beer belly and have no white hair! There are two disadvantages: he is not tall (1.7m) and only speaks Mandarin. Those who don't get married in good faith, never leave, hold the child's hand and grow old with the child. Understanding is my characteristic, diligence is my habit, and being smart and enterprising is my pursuit.