From this video, we can see that this shows that I was very optimistic and had a clear plan for my life and study. In addition to daily expenses, he plans to save two or three hundred yuan every month as a venture fund. It can be said that 1700 yuan's living expenses are partly borrowed from his father and partly raised by himself. He is confident and optimistic.
Some people will say that this is because his father is too harsh. I don't think we should look at this problem like this. For ordinary families, it is really a burden to pay for a child's college education. We can see that many students spend thousands of dollars every month, which is a very heavy burden for ordinary families.
From another point of view, at present, college students' work-study program has become a trend, and there are many counterpart enterprises or units. In other words, if students want, they can work and study during the summer vacation and get a certain salary and living allowance. This is also a good social environment, which can create the reality that college students can earn a certain living expenses. If the employment situation was very severe in the past, the burden on parents might be quite heavy.
Here we can see both the severity of the father and the willingness of the children to take responsibility and pressure. And the right pressure is also a kind of motivation, which can cultivate children's ability to stand on their own feet and explore the world.
At least in this case, I won't blame his father's severity, but I will appreciate the child's courage. This is a normal, stressful and motivated family education.
We don't need to cultivate talents with high scores and low abilities, we need to cultivate talents with creativity and responsibility!