Benefits:

1. Combination of maturity and youth: Boys who have worked are usually more mature than girls who are still studying in universities, and can provide more stable and practical help, while girls who are studying in universities can provide youthful vitality and vision for the future. This combination can bring more experiences and novel collisions, and help both sides to complement and support each other emotionally.

2.*** Grow together: Boys and girls can learn a lot from each other's experiences, especially girls who are studying in universities. Their academic and life experiences can help boys better understand the mental journey of young people and the changes of the times, and also provide them with some help and guidance.

3. More financial support: Boys who have already worked can provide some financial support to girls who are still in college, such as providing some tuition and living expenses, which can reduce the financial pressure on girls and make boys feel more fulfilled economically.

Disadvantages:

1. Differences in values: There may be some differences in values between boys who have already worked and girls who are still studying in universities, such as their plans for the future and their views on life. This difference may lead to differences between the two sides on some issues, which requires both sides to gradually adapt to and understand each other in communication.

2. Differences in social circles: Boys and girls may come from different social circles, and in some social occasions, they may not adapt or be able to integrate.

3. Maturity difference: Although boys who have worked are usually more mature, girls who have gone to college may be more independent than boys in some aspects. If there is a big difference in maturity between the two sides, it may lead to obstacles in communication and understanding.

In a word, the differences and mutual support between the boys who have already worked and the girls who are still in college need to be considered when falling in love. If they can understand and support each other, they can establish a good relationship.