When we go to college, we will miss high school life very much. Because, in high school, we had many classmates with very good relationships. However, some people say that after going to college, the relationship between classmates will be better. However, after graduation, we found that there were not many students with good relationships. On the contrary, the classmates of senior three always keep in touch. So, is the friendship in college really as good as described by others? Personally, I don't think it's that good. First of all, college life is very free, and students seldom get together. Secondly, college life needs to deal with interpersonal relationships, which is more of a mutual utilization relationship. Finally, college students have more ideas and few like-minded people.

First, college life is very free, and high school students seldom get together. Because of the teaching mode, students basically sit in the classroom every day. In this way, our relationship will be better. But college life is very free, and students have their own things to do besides attending classes. Therefore, there are few moments of gathering and friendship is relatively weak.

Second, college life needs to deal with interpersonal relationships. This kind of interpersonal relationship is more of a mutual utilization relationship. After you go to college, you will live independently. At this time, friends are very important. Therefore, the relationship between everyone in the university is not so pure, and it is often a relationship of mutual use. Therefore, there are few elements of friendship.

Third, college students are more thoughtful, and there are few like-minded people in high school. Everyone's goal is clear, that is, to get into a good university. However, college students have different goals. For college students, only like-minded people can have good relations and profound friendship. However, everyone has ideas, and there are too few like-minded people.

Therefore, through the above analysis, it is not difficult to understand why the friendship in the university is so weak. what do you think?