Couples must watch five ways to prevent emotional infidelity.

First: increase the cost of making mistakes.

This is to create some credible threats. For example, before marriage, everyone negotiates and signs a legally binding prenuptial agreement. After marriage, whoever cheats will leave home cleanly. The advantage of this is that every time the other person wants to cheat, he should think about the excitement brought by this derailment. Is it worth the exchange of going out clean?

The second is to increase my belief that "words must be kept, and actions must be fruitful".

This basically depends on your usual words and deeds, and then express your zero tolerance attitude towards the affair. When you see an affair together, you should express your attitude and bottom line about the affair in time.

Third, reduce the benefits of cheating.

The motivation of cheating is generally to find unsatisfied needs and desires in the original relationship; Spiritual needs are not respected, self-worth is low, and there is no freshness; Physical demand means that Xing's attractiveness drops, she doesn't pay attention to body management and gets fat after marriage. He should learn some basic communication skills and do a good job in physical management.

Fourth, look at this person's circle of friends.

The influence of groups on individuals is enormous. Even if your partner doesn't have the idea of cheating, people who are close to cheating every day will naturally be affected.

Fifth, screen out people who are unlikely to cheat from the early stage of mate selection.

A very simple criterion is a responsible person. Because such people can clearly say what role they are and what they should do, they are born with a high moral bottom line. For responsible people, the frustration of losing the moral bottom line is far beyond the stimulation of their own people's derailment, so the possibility of such people's derailment will be much lower.