The order of events is basically chronological.
Event 1: I want the "sanitary towel" event.
Time: In high school.
Location: classroom
Character: classmates
What happened: I had a particularly bad rhinitis since I was a child, and my nose kept running. Because of changing clothes, I often either use up the toilet paper or forget to bring it. Anyway, I often have to rely on others to help me at school. One day, I had a bad runny nose and no paper in my pocket. I was in a hurry, so I quickly went to find a female classmate who had always supported me. I want to ask: Do you have any toilet paper or napkins? As a result, I was anxious and asked: Do you have sanitary napkins? ..... crying, but the other person knows what I want.
Feeling: Later, Rene Liu advertised for Hu. I wanted to accept a bag, but I felt too embarrassed. Although I like milk tea, I can't do this abnormal thing:) It must be very touching to have a friend who graduated from Johnson and sold women's products. When Adong saw this post, let's talk about his feelings.
Event 2: Sitting on a straw mat
Time: In the summer of 2000, the college entrance examination ended.
Venue: Shuping's summer camp, the rooftop of a guest house.
Character: mm, an uncle's classmate, has forgotten his name: (
What happened: at that time, it was probably our group rehearsing. I was talking to a MM. I don't know who found a small mat, so we laid it on the ground. Because the mat is relatively small, it is easy for two people to have physical contact when sitting, so I came up with a sentence: "Let's sit separately 1/4, leave 1/2 in the middle, and keep our distance ..." At that time, I was just laughing my head off with a sister who was helping us string words, but mm who was string words with me was so depressed that I was sure where the idiot came from.
Feeling: I'm really conservative. No wonder when I was in junior high school, girls wrote me a New Year card saying that my feudal ideas were too strong and I needed to change them. After graduating from high school, nothing seems to have changed. After graduating from college, it is much more open, but on the whole, it still belongs to the good category.
Event 3: Invite girls to watch war movies.
Time: 200 1 labor day.
Venue: Around Fudan University
Character: college classmates
What happened: I made a bet with this classmate that whoever had a high grade point would be invited to dinner. Last semester, when she was 3.7, I was PI(3. 14), and I kept urging her to treat me. Until May Day, one day I was sleeping in the dormitory, and she called and said, I have money, so I'll invite you to dinner tonight. I am really flattered. Get up. Wake up. Everyone made an appointment at KFC that night. The whole process was very pleasant, and only then did I know it was her birthday. As soon as I was happy, I suggested inviting her to the cinema, so everyone went to the Xiang Ying Cinema. (Note: Xiang Ying Cinema used to be a cinema in Wujiaochang area, which was an important place for self-entertainment or social activities during my college years. Now because the construction of the Central Link has been demolished, it can only be treasured in memory. ) I remember there are two movies to choose from, one is Women in the Courtyard and the other is Purple Day. I actually chose Purple Day. At that time, I knew it was a war movie, and how I chose it was still a mystery to me. Fortunately, this classmate didn't mind, or showed no mind:) I hope that day won't be the most "unforgettable" birthday in her life.
Feeling: There was an irresponsible explanation for this behavior at that time, that is, I slept too much in the afternoon and didn't wake up at all. There are also adverse events caused by not waking up (see Event 5 for details). I think through this incident, I learned a lesson: if you want to invite someone to watch a movie, no matter what it is, you should pay attention to your choice, otherwise you might as well not watch it-so there was Event 6.
Event 4: Swimming Event
Time: Freshman summer vacation
Location: Telephone online
Character: high school classmates
What happened: I made an appointment to go swimming together as soon as I returned to Beijing during the summer vacation, but it was either my business or hers. The result came in August, and it hasn't been decided yet. One day, everyone made a phone call. I said, "Let's go swimming next week. I'm fine. " The other party: "Next week, I'm afraid not. I will be uncomfortable. " I said, "You can predict the future, and you will feel uncomfortable next week. Now you know. " The other party: "Do you really don't know or play dumb?" I said, "I really don't know." I didn't know what happened until later. A little awkward.
Feeling: Physical education in middle schools is a failure, a great failure. There is nothing more to say. Anyway, I can't understand it under orthodox education. Besides, Beijing is a conservative and ignorant place.
Event 5: Kadina Event
Time: sophomore year
Venue: In front of the table tennis room in the playground of Fudan University.
Characters: a senior and a junior.
What happened: Don't laugh after reading it. This is the most regrettable thing I did in college. :(
About Friday afternoon, two data structure classes. I don't know why, the monitor brought a big box of "Cardina" French fries, and everyone had some left. Finally, I don't know why there are already 3 or 4 bags in my hand after class. As a child who didn't want to waste food, I took these delicious bags to the table tennis room. Because the last group of people is not over yet, they can only line up at the door. In front of me is a little sister. From her school uniform, we can see that she is a freshman. Then the most incredible thing happened! ! ! I patted the little girl with a bag of French fries in her hands and said, "classmate, do you want to eat?" That mm is stupid and stays 10 seconds. After she reacted, she immediately ran away with her classmates. Only then did I realize what I had done. Actually, I really meant no harm. I just don't want to waste so much food in my hand. If someone likes it, I will give it to others. It's just that the way is too abnormal, and I really regret it ~ I guess that mm must regret being admitted to Fudan. How did she meet such a senior when she first came to school? How will she spend the next four years? So she began a painful college life in depression, perhaps because of this incident, which changed her trajectory for four years. ) It's a bit exaggerated, but it's not impossible. Some distorted psychology in psychology is often related to an unusual experience in my past, and my behavior is fatal to a child who is not deeply involved in the world. If one day that mm sees my post, I hope she can forgive this kind brother.
Feeling: Zhang Yaojie's data structure class is so boring that every class is like hypnosis, which leads me to sleep two more classes. Because I didn't wake up after class, I sleepwalked and hurt innocent children.
Event 6: Yu Yan Beauty Event
Time: sophomore year, or March 2002.
Venue: Fudan
Character: ex-girlfriend
What happened: I didn't catch up with her at that time, and I didn't make it clear. At that time, there was a film "Misty Rain, Beautiful Woman" by Jeff Chang Shin-Che Xinche and Zhou Xun. I asked her if she would like to see it, and she said yes. At the weekend, New Oriental went straight to Xiang Ying Cinema after the TOEFL class (as mentioned above, it was an important stage during the university), and was told that the film was won because it was not good-looking. So I sent her a text message saying that the movie would not be put on, and we would watch a good movie together later.
Later, after we got together, we started talking. She was puzzled by my behavior at that time and asked me why I didn't ask her to look at something else at that time, since I was going after her. Even the sisters in her dormitory are puzzled, saying that this man is so funny that he wants to chase girls and invite others to watch movies. He won't change one movie if he doesn't play it. What the hell was he thinking? Actually, I can't fully explain my behavior now, but this is my usual style.
Feeling: I've probably always been like this. I only watch my favorite movies and dramas, otherwise I feel I'm wasting my time and others' time.
Event 7: Confession Event of Ideological and Moral Cultivation Course
Time: A class of "Ideological and Moral Cultivation" in sophomore year.
Venue: Room 4205 (it should be this, if I remember correctly)
Character: Good friend Zuojin
What happened: This will be the proudest thing in my university, although it seems a bit rash.
At that time, the class was a free speech class, and everyone could speak freely on the podium if they had any ideas. I am the first in my class to go up and say some ideas, and then I can enjoy others' speeches carefully when I come down. I'm a little tired in the second half of the class. At this time, Zou Jing came to power, and I didn't know her very well before. She said that she likes classical things, such as guzheng, poems and songs, and finds it difficult to find bosom friends in today's fashionable society. I was suddenly shocked. After she stepped down, I went straight to the podium and came to the second palace. I actually said the following words to her in front of the whole class: "Just now, a classmate said that I couldn't find a bosom friend. In fact, I would like to be your bosom friend ..." I can't remember what I said later, because the class was already in an uproar, and most of the classmates in the class were computer students who knew me and Zoe. Later I asked myself, if this happens again, will I go up again? The answer is probably no! Maybe people can always get some extraordinary courage and endless courage in a state of insanity:) So some people like to drink, and when they are drunk, they say everything they are afraid to say. I am very grateful for what I did at that time, because through this incident, I met one of my most chatting classmates in college, and of course I was a bosom friend.
Feeling: Do you dare to express yourself like this? Haha, true friendship and love are won over. If there is fate, you must work hard.
Event 8: Commercial competition anthomaniac event.
Time: New Year's Day 2004
Venue: Shanghai Library-Shanghai Final of Bi Bo Global Business Challenge.
Character: boss
What happened: At that time, our MerryMem team successfully qualified from Fudan District and entered this competition in Shanghai. MerryMem group consists of six people, five men and one woman, and this woman is the leader of our group. We all call her boss. The boss is beautiful, has strong ability to do things, and has a leadership temperament. The five of us closely United around her, all convinced.
On the day of the game, all the teams were eager to try. It's no exaggeration to say that I'm bared my teeth and my face is ferocious. Anyway, the atmosphere is quite tense. The boss is a very serious person. He still attaches great importance to this competition and hopes to get good results. As for me, I always feel that the happiness in the experience is the most important thing.
The game has started, and everyone is nervously discussing the decision. After several rounds, it seems that there was something wrong with the system for a while. Everyone sat in their seats, quietly waiting for the next game. And when I was bored, I found our group's student ID card on the table, so I picked it up and looked at it. When I turned to the boss's student ID card, I actually looked at it for a long time, with a sly smile on my face, and finally I said, "Good-cute!" " "At this time, under Adong's reminder, I realized that my words and deeds in a semi-intoxicated state were a bit rude. The photo on the Boss student ID card was taken when Boss was in senior three, with short hair and a smile. It is really cute. However, in such a tense game, I was so relaxed and indulgent. I really should reflect:) The boss was a little sad that our team didn't make it to the next round that day, but we all tried our best. A few months later, in the Danone Business Planning Competition, we teamed up again and successfully qualified from the sea election (there was no such word at that time) and entered the top 20 competition of Shanghai Fudan VS Jiaotong University. We were very relaxed together that day, and often sent "business spies" to peek at the answers of other groups for reference; However, the final result is somewhat regrettable. After a busy day, the referee finally submitted the data and told us that unfortunately, there was no data of our group in the system database, and at this time, there was no backup of our labor results. In the end, of course, we will be eliminated, and we have no intention to fight against their decadent production, because we have been pursuing only two words, that is "happiness", which is the most essential meaning of our group name "MerryMem"-happy memories.
Feeling: Data loss is really a tricky thing, and it has actually returned to my pain during the day. It seems that life really has cycles. However, our attitude should be: let what is lost be lost, and we should constantly pursue new happiness in our journey forward.