The life of modern China people is very happy, but people still like the previous dynasties, because it is the constant changes of these dynasties that led to today's new China. China's culture can be said to have lasted for five thousand years, and the rules of each dynasty have been passed down, which is also the crystallization of China people's wisdom. So what are the contents of Xi 'an's wedding customs?
One: Engagement. Most people in Xi 'an are in free love, and a few people are introduced by relatives and friends. Therefore, since two people want to decide to get married, they must first decide to get married and get the consent of both parents. Both men and women should invite their immediate family members to have dinner together and discuss the bride price. The man's parents will give the woman a meeting gift, and the woman's parents will also prepare a small gift for the man.
Two: gifts, Xi people must have a wedding room, and the woman's parents will definitely bring it up. I'll give you a present when the wedding room is empty. The bride price should be given according to the conditions put forward by the woman's family. Now the gift money is about 50,000 to 60,000 yuan, and we also need to send three gold and some alcohol, tobacco, sugar, tea, lotus root and raw meat. Of course, the woman will also have a dowry, including some furniture or a car.
Three: Etiquette on the wedding day. Before the wedding, the groom must eat dumplings with his parents, brothers and sisters at home and his girlfriend in the boudoir to say goodbye. The mother will feed the dumplings to her daughter, and the bride will cry. When the bride and groom go out, the lucky female elders should hold bamboo plaques or black umbrellas to protect them from going to the limousine. Bamboo cards can be placed on the back cover of luxury cars. Before the bride gets on the limousine, there will be an auspicious little boy with a fan and two small red envelopes. When the limousine starts, the bride should throw the fan out of the window, which means not to bring bad temper to her husband's family. There is also a very special limousine to the man's house. A child with two oranges will come to welcome the couple, and the bride will gently touch the oranges.